{"id":11119,"date":"2025-07-09T21:30:01","date_gmt":"2025-07-10T01:30:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-importance-of-conscious-integration-work-steve-pavlina\/"},"modified":"2025-07-09T21:30:01","modified_gmt":"2025-07-10T01:30:01","slug":"the-importance-of-conscious-integration-work-steve-pavlina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-importance-of-conscious-integration-work-steve-pavlina\/","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of Conscious Integration Work \u2013 Steve Pavlina"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Integration<\/strong> is the process of extracting core lessons and insights from your lived experiences and intelligently applying those insights to your life, so you feel, think, and act in alignment with whatever you\u2019ve gained from your lived experiences.<\/p>\n

Integration especially matters when you have a stretchy experience that feels inconsistent with your previous conceptions of your inner and outer worlds. Your old mindset has fallen out of step with your lived experiences. That happens sometimes. The good news is that you\u2019ve stumbled upon a new truth \u2013 a surprise that you didn\u2019t expect. Integration invites you to gracefully expand your base-level thinking to accommodate the new truths you discover as you have new experiences.<\/p>\n

Your brain will attempt some integration automatically as it tries to make sense of a surprising new event. However, it will often do a so-so job of it. These unintegrated or partially integrated experiences may cause some problems for you. You\u2019ll still have the memories of those experiences while their full wisdom and insights remain un-extracted. You may even feel unsettled when you recall those types of memories.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had many stretchy experiences that caused me to re-examine big parts of my life and reality. Whamo!<\/em> I was slammed by something I did not expect to happen. Some events fell outside my old predictions of how I thought life was supposed to work. For a while I felt like my old way of thinking about reality was broken, and sometimes I didn\u2019t yet see what else I could replace it with.<\/p>\n

One example was when it finally dawned on me that much of what I\u2019d been taught all throughout my childhood didn\u2019t mesh with my lived experiences. My Catholic model of reality eventually crumbled. Why? Because it wasn\u2019t true. A mindset built upon falsehood will eventually fall apart when confronted with contradictory lived experiences. In order to integrate those experiences, I had to accept some hard-to-accept truths about people I thought I could trust. That was tough to go through at the time. I had to release my old childhood models of reality and quickly grow up. I needed to be more responsible for my own world views and overall life philosophy. I couldn\u2019t keep receiving what was being offered once I could see that it didn\u2019t line up with my actual reality. I needed to be in my real reality, not in someone else\u2019s fanciful concept of one. That was one of my biggest integrations experiences as a teenager.<\/p>\n

Initially I shifted to atheism since that was the only meaningful alternative that I really knew much about. I figured if my old reality was a lie, maybe the opposite (which I concluded was atheism) would be the truth. That approach worked okay for a while until I started having new experiences that didn\u2019t fit with that model either. That sent me deeper into further integration work.<\/p>\n

I had to make sense of my old mindsets and clarify why they weren\u2019t good enough. I also had to find some other way to think about my life and reality that gave me some stability. Otherwise I\u2019d be stuck in confusion, and it would be hard to advance or direct my life in any meaningful way.<\/p>\n

Another challenge was avoiding cynicism. I did my best to avoid falling into dead-end thinking like \u201cLife sucks and then you die.\u201d I could at least predict that sort of mindset wasn\u2019t going to give me a particularly good or interesting life. I\u2019m happy I gave this some real thought, and I think it made a huge difference in how my life path evolved. Over time I grew increasingly happy and satisfied with my life. I still feel that way today.<\/p>\n

Note that it\u2019s pretty important to avoid mindsets that may get you stuck in some form of helplessness. If you fall into such a mindset, even accidentally, it may take lots of extra work to dig yourself back out again. You might need some therapy or someone else\u2019s help if you go that far into a problematic mindspace or heartspace.<\/p>\n

I figured that a constructive mindset and heartset would help me make wiser, more intelligent decisions that would more likely lead to positive outcomes and a nice life overall. And the best way to get there seemed to be to keep learning from my experiences. Don\u2019t blow past a challenging event without doing my best to extract the core lessons from it. This helped steer me down some constructive paths. I gave some attention to how my thoughts, feelings, actions, and results all influenced each other.<\/p>\n

Back then I didn\u2019t have the integration<\/em> label in mind, nor did I understand it as well as I do now. I often struggled to make sense of experiences that didn\u2019t add up to me. This included trying to understand my own behaviors sometimes. When I was 18, I began thinking of myself as a criminal because I was doing crimes and sometimes getting arrested, and friends who knew me started referring to me that way. Integrating that into my self-image did not serve me very well, as you might imagine. It nudged me deeper into those behaviors, and I needed some difficult experiences and lessons to finally save me from that mode of thinking. I now see that as a precious and valuable time in my life because it gave me so many strong revelations and insights about my life and helped me discover who I actually wanted to be. Difficult experiences can shift tremendously as we integrate them over time. A tragedy or mistake may eventually be seen as a blessing.<\/p>\n

Integration can be tricky business. If we let our minds handle it subconsciously, we can end up in some dark places. Running into these sort of traps was ultimately what got me interested in self-development. I realized that if I didn\u2019t keep my mindset adaptable and growth-oriented, I could really mess up my life. That\u2019s when I began to manage my life more consciously.<\/p>\n

Although I wasn\u2019t thinking of it in these terms back then, I figured out that in order to live more intelligently, I had to maintain more conscious awareness and supervision over my own integration process. It wasn\u2019t wise to always let that run by itself. My integration turned out better when I took some time to reflect upon my experiences. I\u2019d do my best to figure out what those experiences meant to me and why. That\u2019s when I started getting into journaling (with pen and paper). I began filling up notebooks to reflect upon my experiences and to take a closer look at my thoughts and feelings. I\u2019ve been an avid journaler ever since. In fact, many of my blog posts actually started as private journal entries, and then I turned them into published posts.<\/p>\n

Through this process I learned good ways to protect my self-esteem, even when going through difficult experiences. When I was younger, I would journal some pretty dark thoughts on occasion, even suicidal ones. However, writing about my lived experiences and what I thought they meant to me helped me shift my perspective. Observing my own thinking caused my thinking to change. One change was that I became a lot more optimistic and less pessimistic, and I\u2019m very grateful for that. All that journaling and conscious integration created a nice feedback loop, where my mind learned to be calmer, more centered, and more positive and constructive.<\/p>\n

Integrating Stretchy Experiences<\/h2>\n

My integration needs are more complex these days because I do more deliberate exploring than I did when I was younger. One way I choose interesting experiments is by picking something that I probably wouldn\u2019t do. By this I mean doing something new that doesn\u2019t quite fit my old self-concept. I know that if I explore beyond my old self-concept, I\u2019m going to have an interesting growth experience. I\u2019ll have more integration work to do as well.<\/p>\n

Have you every tried doing something you<\/em> wouldn\u2019t do? Just getting yourself to conceive of something like that can be a very interesting thought exercise. That alone will teach you something valuable, like where you sense your limits to be. Then you can ask yourself if you want to keep those limits. You don\u2019t have to.<\/p>\n

One example was going to Disneyland for 30 days in a row. I\u2019d never done anything like that before, so it was a stretch to get myself to commit to it. Rachelle and I did that together. We had a fabulous time all throughout \u2013 it turned out to be one of our best experiments ever. I was very happy with how it impacted me, her, and our relationship afterwards too. We also opened Conscious Growth Club six months later, which is now in its 9th year and still going strong. CGC was inspired in part by that Disneyland experience.<\/p>\n

If you deliberately court stretchy experiences, it will probably make your life less predictable. I mostly see that as a good thing. I know it\u2019s not everyone\u2019s cup of tea though. The downside is that if you overdo it, you could end up with a big backlog of unintegrated or partially integrated experiences. People often experience this as a burnout phase of some kind, and their motivation can drop a lot (especially the desire to keep having new experiences). When they\u2019re ready, they may start working through the integration backlog one little piece at a time, hopefully emerging with a fresher mindset on the other side of that.<\/p>\n

I love stretchy experiences very much. I love how they surprise me. I love how they poke, prod, and challenge my old models of self and reality. I love how they help me grow. Having so many of these kinds of experiences has helped me develop rich, flexible, multi-faceted models of myself and reality. I adapt to change more easily as a result. I\u2019m happier too. But it really does take a lot of integration work afterwards in order to avoid burnout. I find it helpful to keep reminding myself that the risk of burnout is very real if I don\u2019t take sufficient time for integration, so fortunately I\u2019ve been landing squarely and consistently on the pro-integration side for many years now. I can sense when I\u2019m getting close to overdoing the in-flow of new experiences, and I know when I need to back off and do more conscious integration. An inner signal that warns me to pump the brakes is when I start feeling a little overwhelmed by having too many things going on, and I feel like I just want to retreat from it all for a while. Then I know it\u2019s time to do my own version of an integration retreat, and I go much deeper into introvert mode and do lots of extra processing and reflecting on recent thoughts, feelings, and experiences. This takes time. It works very well though, and I always emerge with a renewed sense of motivation to go out and have even more new experiences. I\u2019ve gotten used to the waviness of living this way.<\/p>\n

Most weeks I prefer to gently sip from the land of stretchy experiences. This works very nicely too. It gives me ample time to integrate without creating too much of a backlog. I love to sip and integrate, sip and integrate, sip and integrate. Take a drink from the fountain of new experiences and let the effects ripple through me till they settle. Then take another sip when I feel ready. Nice and easy. Not too fast.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re all unique though, so what feels stretchy for one person might be fairly mild (or too intense) for someone else. One person\u2019s sip could be an overflowing mug for a different person.<\/p>\n

My integration process usually involves building new models that are more accurate. I keep upgrading my models to account for the totality of what I\u2019ve experienced in this life. It\u2019s like I\u2019m on a lifelong search for my own Theory of Everything.<\/p>\n

How can I explain everything I\u2019ve experienced in my life thus far? If all of those experiences were real, then what kind of universe makes all of that possible?<\/em> I find these to be very interesting questions to ponder.<\/p>\n

I always have a working set of models that I use as my defaults, and whenever I bend them by having experiences that don\u2019t fit their predictions, I know I\u2019m about embark on a fresh round of integration as I search for new models that fit the new info. So the word \u201cmodel\u201d here simply refers to my current best understanding of myself and my reality. Who or what am I? What kind of reality do I actually inhabit?<\/em><\/p>\n

The benefits of having a more accurate model of reality are enticing, which is why I\u2019m so hooked on this approach.<\/p>\n

Today I tend to think of myself as a psychonaut<\/em> \u2013 as someone who consciously explores the nature of reality and tries to understand it better. I love to keep exploring in this way, which is why I keep courting new experiences that I need to integrate.<\/p>\n

This way of living is very rewarding yet also a lot of work. In any given year now, I may spend several weeks just integrating my experiences from that year. This year has been particularly heavy with integration work. That\u2019s the main reason I took a break from sharing publicly for the past few months. I\u2019ve been in a strong flow of stretchy new experiences this year. I wanted to keep other areas of life simpler during this time, so I mostly paused the public side while still staying very active in CGC and in other areas of life. Now I feel ready to open that back up again, yet in a different way than before. I\u2019m easing back into it gently with this post, and when I\u2019m ready I\u2019ll flow back into making some fresh videos for the Engage course as well. I\u2019m very much looking forward to that.<\/p>\n

The rest of this post invites you deeper into a more personal walk-through of how I go through a real-life stretchy experience and begin to integrate it. It\u2019s up to you if you want to immerse yourself in that level of detail. It may give you more of an insider\u2019s perspective (if you appreciate that sort of thing). There\u2019s a good chance that just reading through this will activate thoughts and feelings within you that invite you to do some integration work of your own. The experience I\u2019ll share has to do with letting go of limits.<\/p>\n

Choosing Stretchy Experiences<\/h2>\n

I get stretchy ideas from all over the place. Sometimes I ponder them for years before I finally do them. Much of the time though, I like to begin a challenge within a pretty short time after I get the idea. There\u2019s a certain energy to an idea when it\u2019s freshly minted. If I incubate an interesting idea for too long, I may lose the connection to it.<\/p>\n

The idea for my most recent stretchy challenge actually came through during another stretchy experience. Back in March I took part in a three-night ayahuasca ceremony, which was intense and also just what I needed. I still love full-cup experiences in addition to sips, just not too often.<\/p>\n

My inner journey on the second night of that ceremony was all about sex and sex energy. Aya showed me a very spirity, energy-level perspective on sex and the role it\u2019s been playing in my life. The overall three-night arc focused upon the theme of letting go of old limits, so that was part of the second night\u2019s envelope as well.<\/p>\n

This was a powerful experience for me. It also built upon some explorations in this direction I\u2019d previously done with MDMA. Aya surprised me because I didn\u2019t know that a plant energy could go so deep into sexuality. I don\u2019t have any sexual trauma, so this was a beautiful area of life to explore with Aya. The third night was especially intense when Aya gave me the experience of trying to flood all my cells with way more love energy that I felt capable of receiving. She did that to show me that I had limits as to how much love I was allowing to flow through to me, and one way I was resisting it had to do with seeing myself as too much of a human and not enough as a energy being. My human body (or my conception of my body) found that much love way too intense, as if every cell was charged with excess static electricity that I couldn\u2019t discharge yet badly needed to get rid of. So that was a very visceral demonstration of how I was limiting myself in this area without realizing I was doing that. Now integrating this might have been tricky or confusing if Aya hadn\u2019t also helped me with some next steps to translate this into a specific human-level challenge to attempt. So she let me feel the energy side of it first, and then she translated her lesson into the human level as well.<\/p>\n

Sometimes I think of Aya\u2019s energy as that of Mother Nature. So I had to update my mental model of Mother Nature to include being able to talk to her for many hours about sex. Sex is obviously part of nature, so that aspect wasn\u2019t too hard to integrate.<\/p>\n

Aya\u2019s nudge \u2013 really the core lesson that came through across all three days \u2013 was not to stop at good or great. There\u2019s more growth beyond the good. I was encouraged to open up and expand my experiential range even in areas of life that were flowing along beautifully. Don\u2019t stop exploring just because some aspect of life is already so nice.<\/p>\n

This general invite was pretty interesting to me at the time. I have a tendency to experiment based on what seems fresh and new to me, like whatever I may be curious to try. Aya invited me to look at going deeper into what\u2019s already familiar. Take something I already like or that\u2019s already going well, and experiment with opening it up even more. Just integrating that lesson made me look at how I\u2019d been limiting myself by not thinking in those directions very much. For instance, once I reached a certain level of abundance in life, I didn\u2019t really try to push it much beyond that. I let myself rest in what felt plentiful and mainly did other kinds of explorations in different directions.<\/p>\n

As part of the experience, Aya invited me to take on a specific challenge: Have sex for 100 days in a row.<\/em> She made it clear that sex in this case meant intercourse; oral sex or other types of sexual play wouldn\u2019t count. It wasn\u2019t necessary to have an orgasm each time though. If I skipped or missed a day, I\u2019d have to start over again at Day 1. It had to be 100 days in a row. That was not in the range of what I expected Aya to bring through.<\/p>\n

MDMA\u2019s energy had already been working with me in this direction last year. It was also nudging me to have sex more frequently when I would dialogue with it. More than once it recommended five sex days per week minimum. One way it framed this was to make daily sex the default, and allow one or two days off each week as an option. That still seemed like a lot. Rachelle and I managed to do 14 days in a row last year, and we both liked it at the time. It just seemed tough to sustain that kind of frequency for very long. Plus it wasn\u2019t clear why we ought to do it that often. Those 14 days were pleasurable and very loving, and I did have the sense that it we\u2019d continued at that frequency, there might be something more to be learned, perhaps more than we could predict. I didn\u2019t think it would be that big of a deal though, so we didn\u2019t really push further in that direction.<\/p>\n

Aya\u2019s 100-day challenge idea seemed like a LOT of sex yet also didn\u2019t seem like that big of a deal. I\u2019d never done anything like that before. Somehow it felt more accessible because it was temporary; after 100 days we\u2019d be finished and then could integrate the experience. I felt that Aya looked at what MDMA was trying to do and then gave me an idea that was similar yet somehow felt more doable.<\/p>\n

I shared and discussed the idea with Rachelle, and we both readily agreed to actually do it. We knew that if we didn\u2019t like it, we could quit at any time. So why not at least begin and see how far we could go? Plus if we made it the full 100 days, we\u2019d probably learn something interesting about ourselves. Relative to other experiences we\u2019ve had together, this one felt relatively tame and easy. The main challenge was just to make time for it, especially while traveling and sometimes having very busy days schedule-wise.<\/p>\n

We\u2019ve been together for 15+ years, and we\u2019ve always found each other very attractive, so this wasn\u2019t that difficult of a yes for us. There was no convincing involved. We both felt curious and intrigued enough to try it, knowing we\u2019d surely learn and grow from the shared experience.<\/p>\n

Admittedly it also seemed like a silly thing to attempt. We like having some silly experiences together though, so we were fine with the potential silliness of it. In fact, that turned out be a beautiful aspect of the journey. Sex is pretty silly anyway, isn\u2019t it? More than once we had a good laugh during a session. The shared laughter just made us feel even closer.<\/p>\n

We started on April 3rd, which was our 7-year anniversary. Today is Day 98, so it\u2019s an easy coast to the finish line now. It\u2019s been an amazing journey, giving me a lot more to reflect upon that I expected.<\/p>\n

This experiment didn\u2019t go as I thought it would. I was a bit concerned it might make sex feel too routine, yet somehow it took us way deeper into intimacy, love, belongingness, really caring for each other\u2019s needs, and a whole bunch of energy work. I\u2019m still taking stock of how much this particular challenge opened up. Perhaps a simple way to describe it is that it became way more tantric and spirity feeling as it went along. We\u2019re both very in love with each other, and we know how lucky we are to have this be our reality. This exploration deepened and enriched those feelings even more \u2013 it went well beyond the physical aspects. So Aya was spot on in offering this challenge. How did she know?<\/p>\n

I still have much to integrate after this experiment concludes. Overall it\u2019s been a very good for us. It may look like a sexual challenge on the surface, yet the lived experience of it was like doing lots of intimate energy work with a partner and going deeper into our feelings for each other. Sometimes we\u2019d pause partway through a session and flow into an intimate conversation together. Every week there were new layers to explore together. It\u2019s been such a great experience to have together as a couple. No regrets about it. Definitely one of my favorite explorations. Way nicer than going 40 days without food \u2013 that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n

After this I imagine we\u2019ll need to do some couple-level integration too. It\u2019s not clear to us how it will affect us going forward. Even after all these weeks of daily sex, we can\u2019t yet say what we\u2019ll do with this aspect of our lives from Day 101 onward. I feel we\u2019ll probably take a fresh look at ourselves, reflect upon what we just experienced together, talk it through a bunch more, and then flow into a fresh phase of our relationship going forward. I don\u2019t feel it will be majorly different than before we started, but somehow I feel very certain that it won\u2019t be the same as our previous reality. My felt sense of this right now is that we accumulated a lot of subtle shifts along the way.<\/p>\n

Another way to think about integration is that it\u2019s how you resolve the contrast between your predictions and your actual lived experiences. My experiences for the past 98 days didn\u2019t fit within the range of my old predictions. I now have a different understanding of what it\u2019s actually like to make sex a daily habit for so many weeks. It had its challenges sometimes, like trying to keep it going when we were both really tired after a long day out, yet there was something about the daily commitment that was quite special. In may ways it was like an incredible gift that we gave to each other, but not in any way that felt like a reciprocal trade.<\/p>\n

My understanding of sex is a lot more spirity now, thanks to this challenge. I see sex as being more about sharing and appreciating each other\u2019s love, energy, and full presence than about the physical act. Sex feels even more loving, intimate, flexible, and even mysterious or magical to me now. It\u2019s become something that I look forward to and cherish as a part of each day, and I accept that it affects me in ways that are very positive yet hard to predict.<\/p>\n

Interestingly this experiment also made our sex life simpler because we didn\u2019t have to decide whether to have sex or not on any given day. Instead of talking about making love, we just make love. Sometimes we start by sharing our intentions for what kind of experience we want to have together. I\u2019ve been impressed with how in-tune and cooperative we\u2019ve been with our intentions all along the way.<\/p>\n

So that\u2019s an example of having a stretchy experience that requires some integration. Consciously choosing to have stretchy experiences is one of the best ways to keep growing. Keep exploring in the directions where your predictions may be weak or inaccurate, and you\u2019re sure to learn something.<\/p>\n

What if you do something stretchy that others might criticize? One way to think about criticism is that it\u2019s a way many people process their own integration experiences. Some people will attack what they\u2019re struggling to integrate or understand. It\u2019s temporary though. So I\u2019d recommend feeling some compassion towards your critics (or potential naysayers). The criticism isn\u2019t likely personal. Those critics may be processing their own unresolved, unintegrated thoughts and feelings about some aspect of life. You may just be the latest person who (perhaps accidentally) invited them to face something they\u2019d rather not face just yet. Another possibility is that if the criticism feels like it may have a shred of truth to it, then it may indeed offer you something worthwhile to look at as part of your own integration process.<\/p>\n

The Power of Acceptance<\/h2>\n

In my experience the most important key to integration is usually acceptance.<\/strong> My integration work typically involves reaching some new place of acceptance and being able to hold myself there without backsliding.<\/p>\n

What do I need to accept? For starters, I need to accept what actually happened and how I\u2019m reacting to it. Allow my lived experience to be fully felt. Let it surprise me. Let it impact me. Let it ripple me. Even let myself become the experience.<\/p>\n

Next I need to accept that my old thinking needs to be updated. This may include how I think about myself, other people, and aspects of reality.<\/p>\n

And then I need to accept the integration work ahead. This includes accepting the time and energy it will take to do it well.<\/p>\n

Whenever I get myself into a lived experience that knocks me off balance, I like to focus on acceptance of whatever is coming through. Let it in as fully as I can. Listen. Observe. Let myself experience my own judgments if judgments arise. Allow. Allow. Allow. Let the new energy flow while doing my best not to resist it. Be present. Be here now.<\/p>\n

Eventually this acceptance leads to some new ideas and new decisions. What do I do with this new knowledge? Knowing what I now know, how will I act differently? What new decisions make sense now?<\/em><\/p>\n

After acceptance, an even better place to reach for is love.<\/strong> In addition to accepting the changes and their effects, I look for how I can love all of it too. Can I love the lessons? Love the insights? Love everyone who contributed to the lived experiences? Love the growth process? Love the ripples?<\/em><\/p>\n

The more love<\/em> I can bring to an exploration, the better it integrates.<\/p>\n

Some people also find forgiveness<\/em> to be powerful here. So consider using forgiveness if you find it helpful. Personally I prefer love and find it more resonant and flexible than forgiveness. Forgiveness is pretty popular in integration circles though.<\/p>\n

Another benefit of using love as part of your integration process is that you can also use it on the front end. Try focusing on love when choosing your next stretchy adventure. Seek out stretchy explorations that may help you better align with love or understand or work with love energy. Explore where your love takes you. I already loved sex before this 100-day challenge, so Aya\u2019s invitation was actually to delve deeper into a space that was already very love-infused. I really didn\u2019t expect there to be so many subtle and nuanced lessons and insights about love coming through week after week. It was very different to make love inside of this specific 100-day container, especially after we got beyond the first month of it. It went way beyond just feeling like we were making love more often.<\/p>\n

I knew the 100-day sex challenge would surely involve love energy as a big part of it. That was clear from the beginning, and it certainly turned out to be true. It had a stronger emotional impact on me than I expected though. This journey has made me feel kinder, more loving, more caring, more patient, and gentler towards other people in my life. I also feel way more loved. How could I not feel super loved in such a situation? Someone I was already in love with agreed to make love for 100 days in a row. Then I got to receive and enjoy that yes and bask in those wonderful feelings and sensations with her for all that time. For me this type of exploration has been heavenly.<\/p>\n

Now my integration process involves helping my mind catch up to what\u2019s been unfolding, so I can better make sense of why it played out as it did and what it means for us going forward.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m at the point in my psychonaut journey where exploring love energy more deeply and in different directions feels very appealing. Love is such a delightful type of energy to engage with. This particular exploration of it has been a true delight and makes me want to explore even more ways to dance with love energy in this life. This was just one interesting way of consciously exploring in that direction.<\/p>\n

Integration is a very rich and complex aspect of our human journeys. It takes time and thoughtfulness to do it well. I invite you to give some thought to the role that integration plays in your life \u2013 and also to the value of choosing your own stretchy experiences. I hope my share on this has offered you some meaningful insights that you can apply to advance your own integration efforts. Remember that we\u2019re all in this together.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n

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