{"id":13383,"date":"2026-07-18T23:43:49","date_gmt":"2026-07-19T03:43:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-art-of-becoming-unfukwithable\/"},"modified":"2026-07-18T23:43:49","modified_gmt":"2026-07-19T03:43:49","slug":"the-art-of-becoming-unfukwithable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-art-of-becoming-unfukwithable\/","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Becoming Unfu*kwithable"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>I\u2019m writing this from a farmhouse just north of Bologna, where I\u2019m traveling through Italy with several Mindvalley authors.<\/p>\n<p>(Too much pasta. Zero regrets.)<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I promised you something special. Here it is.<\/p>\n<p>For the past year, I\u2019ve been quietly working on a new book. It\u2019s called Unfuckwithable.<\/p>\n<p>(Pardon the word. I tried to find a politer one. Nothing else captures it.)<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s about a question that has obsessed me for twenty years:<\/p>\n<p>Why do some people move through life like nothing can shake them \u2014 while the rest of us grind, push, chase\u2026 and still feel stuck?<\/p>\n<p>I test my ideas through videos and speeches, and this particular video, \u201cThe Seven Sacred States,\u201d has started to blow up on YouTube.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to release it free to all of you, my subscribers. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@vishen\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Check it out on YouTube<\/a><\/strong>. I\u2019ll listen to it as a podcast while you\u2019re on the go.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The 7 Sacred States: How to Become Unfuckwithable (1-hour masterclass)<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Successful People Don&amp;apos;t Set Goals, They Master Inner State\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5ilLWxrZ6RQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Successful People Don&amp;apos;t Set Goals, They Master Inner State\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5ilLWxrZ6RQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/noscript>\n<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Inside this hour:<\/p>\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Satori vs. Kensho <\/strong>\u2014 the two ways human beings awaken. One comes through pain. One doesn\u2019t. (You get to choose.)<\/li>\n<li><strong>The 7 states <\/strong>\u2014 Knowledge, Faith, Love, Stillness, Non-Attachment, Devotion, Receptivity \u2014 and why each one is built on the one before it<\/li>\n<li><strong>What Julius Caesar understood about knowledge<\/strong>, what Rumi knew about stillness, and the story of Butch O\u2019Hare that I can\u2019t tell without getting chills<\/li>\n<li><strong>The \u201cNo Big Deal\u201d Method<\/strong> \u2014 my favorite tool for non-attachment (it works embarrassingly fast)<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>And at 28:30 \u2014 a guided meditation, so you don\u2019t just learn the states.\u00a0 You feel one.<\/p>\n<p>But wait, isn\u2019t this just meditation?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s the paradigm shift hiding inside this video.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most people meditate to feel calmer. More composed. A little less rattled by their inbox.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s fine. But it\u2019s also\u2026 small.<\/p>\n<p>The masters who created these practices weren\u2019t optimizing for calm.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The 7 Sacred States were designed for something far more interesting: <strong>To make you unstoppable<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Steady when everything shakes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Bold without the grasping.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A go-getter who doesn\u2019t need the world\u2019s permission or its approval.<\/p>\n<p>Calm is a side effect.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=5ilLWxrZ6RQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">The real destination is becoming unfuckwithable (Watch the video &amp; comment).<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what this hour teaches.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I genuinely believe it\u2019s some of the best work I\u2019ve ever put out and it\u2019s yours.<\/p>\n<p>With fire (and too much espresso) from Italy,<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"200\" alt=\"Vishen Lakhiani signature\" class=\"wp-image-76162\" style=\"width:280px\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/12\/99dc1d9d-vishen_signature.webp\"\/><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/12\/99dc1d9d-vishen_signature.webp\" alt=\"Vishen Lakhiani signature\" class=\"wp-image-76162\" style=\"width:280px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<p><strong><em>PS: Some big news I\u2019ve been waiting to share:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>We just launched <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/meditations\/promo?utm_source=blog_vlnl_jul16&amp;utm_campaign=meditations_vlnl_july_2026&amp;utm_content=content_wwww&amp;utm_medium=sp&amp;otag=blog_vlnl_jul16&amp;otag=meditations_vlnl_july_2026\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">Mindvalley Meditations<\/a><\/strong> \u2014 <strong>over 1,000 meditations in one app<\/strong>, including the 6 Phase Meditation that millions of people around the world practice. It\u2019s normally $99 a year, but <strong>until the end of this week<\/strong> you can get it for $79.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>If the guided meditation at 28:30 in the video does something for you, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/meditations\/promo?utm_source=blog_vlnl_jul16&amp;utm_campaign=meditations_vlnl_july_2026&amp;utm_content=content_wwww&amp;utm_medium=sp&amp;otag=blog_vlnl_jul16&amp;otag=meditations_vlnl_july_2026\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">this is the full library \u2192<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m writing this from a farmhouse just north of Bologna, where I\u2019m traveling through Italy with several Mindvalley authors. 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