{"id":2669,"date":"2023-05-28T01:46:42","date_gmt":"2023-05-28T05:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/a-guide-to-attracting-soul-deep-connections\/"},"modified":"2023-05-28T01:46:42","modified_gmt":"2023-05-28T05:46:42","slug":"a-guide-to-attracting-soul-deep-connections","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/a-guide-to-attracting-soul-deep-connections\/","title":{"rendered":"A Guide to Attracting Soul-Deep Connections"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Profit<\/a>
\n<\/p>\n

\n

Ever have one of those moments where you feel an uncanny connection with someone you\u2019ve just met? In this digital age where screens often replace faces, meeting a kindred spirit is like encountering a unicorn.\u00a0<\/p>\n

The good news is that, unlike the latter, kindred spirits aren\u2019t a supernatural narrative. It\u2019s the art of profound human connection.<\/p>\n

If you aspire to master this art, here are the essentials of these magical connections:<\/p>\n

Navigating life with a kindred spirit by your side is akin to having a co-pilot who truly gets you, making the journey not just bearable but wonderfully enjoyable.\u00a0<\/p>\n

What is a Kindred Spirit?<\/h2>\n

Think of a kindred spirit as a friend who, from the moment you met, you just clicked with. And from that moment on, they have been your true friends.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Tim Storey<\/strong>, the celebrated author and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Magical Living<\/em> Quest, calls them \u201cmagical friends.\u201d These are people who protect your dreams and celebrate and encourage you even when you don\u2019t. Most importantly, they challenge you to move forward.<\/p>\n

So the \u201ckindred soul\u201d definition is someone who genuinely resonates with the essence of who you are. They feel like home, no matter how recently you\u2019ve met.<\/p>\n

According to Vanessa Van Edwards<\/strong>, an internationally renowned behavioral investigator and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Magnetic Charisma<\/em> Quest, your unique qualities deeply appeal to your kindred spirits. They may be introverts like you or extroverts who complement your traits.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s more, according to this extensive study<\/a>, they keep you happy throughout your life more than money or fame.<\/p>\n

\"two<\/figure>\n

Kindred spirit vs. twin flame<\/h3>\n

The two are somewhat opposite.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Your kindred spirit is like your favorite cozy sweater\u2014 comfortable at all times and ready to warm you up. But just like clothes we outgrow, they may come and go throughout life, but they always leave an indelible mark.<\/p>\n

Twin flames,<\/a> on the contrary, are utterly uncomfortable because they reveal your rawest vulnerabilities, push your boundaries, and antagonize your wounds. While kindred spirits resonate with your personality, your twin flame reflects parts of you that you often don\u2019t want to see.<\/p>\n

To put it simply, here\u2019s a handy comparison table:<\/p>\n

\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
Kindred Spirit<\/strong><\/td>\nTwin Flame<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Connection Level<\/strong><\/td>\nEmotional and mental<\/td>\nSpiritual<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Relationship<\/strong><\/td>\nComforting and understanding<\/td>\nIntense and challenging<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Purpose<\/strong><\/td>\nResonance and companionship<\/td>\nGrowth and transformation<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Lifespan<\/strong><\/td>\nMay come and go<\/td>\nLifelong<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>
Kindred spirit vs. twin flame<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Both are meaningful and powerful connections, but they offer very different experiences.<\/p>\n

Learn more: <\/em><\/strong>Twin Flame vs. Soulmate: 7 Differences You May Not Know<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Kindred spirit vs. soulmate<\/h3>\n

There\u2019s another term that\u2019s often thrown into the mix: soulmates. Unlike kindred spirits, they align with your soul\u2019s purpose. They match your frequency and walk alongside you on your life\u2019s path to help you fulfill your purpose.\u00a0<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like Robin to Batman and Watson to Sherlock. They may be friends, family members, or romantic partners, supporting you to learn, grow, and evolve.\u00a0<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s break it down in a comparison table:<\/p>\n

\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
Kindred Spirit<\/strong><\/td>\nSoulmate<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Connection Level<\/strong><\/td>\nEmotional and mental<\/td>\nSpiritual and purposeful<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Relationship<\/strong><\/td>\nComforting and understanding<\/td>\nDeep and learning-oriented<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Purpose<\/strong><\/td>\nResonance and companionship<\/td>\nPersonal growth and fulfillment<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Lifespan<\/strong><\/td>\nMay come and go<\/td>\nOften lifelong<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>
Kindred spirit vs. soulmate<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

While kindred spirits get us, soulmates guide us. It\u2019s like the difference between a best friend and a wise mentor\u2014each brings something special to the table.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"MVU
Students of Mindvalley University<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

7 Signs You\u2019ve Met Your Kindred Spirit<\/h2>\n

Dr. Tal Ben-Shahar<\/strong>, one of Harvard\u2019s most in-demand lecturers and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s The 5 Elements of Happiness<\/em> Quest, explains that fifty years ago, people wouldn\u2019t have defined relationships as real. \u201cMost relationships were real,\u201d<\/em> he adds.\u00a0<\/p>\n

So, what does it mean to have a kindred spirit? Apart from having an instant connection with your kindred spirits, it also means that your relationships are real. And here are seven signs that you have a special connection:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Deep understanding. <\/strong>Kindred spirits often understand you better than you understand yourself.<\/li>\n
  2. Presence<\/strong>. They are present with you and whatever it is you share with them.<\/li>\n
  3. Shared values. <\/strong>You both look at the world through a similar lens, like two peas in a philosophical pod.<\/li>\n
  4. Effortless communication. <\/strong>They also speak the same language as you, so you don\u2019t need to explain yourself.\u00a0<\/li>\n
  5. Mutual respect. <\/strong>Kindred spirits respect and fully accept each other. They don\u2019t try to change or fix you.<\/li>\n
  6. Emotional support. <\/strong>They provide emotional support in times of joy and sorrow.<\/li>\n
  7. Time and distance don\u2019t matter. <\/strong>Even after long periods of silence, you pick up right where you left off, like with your favorite binge-worthy series.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    These bonds, once recognized and nurtured, can become one of the most enriching and life-affirming aspects of your life.<\/p>\n

    \"\"
    Students of Mindvalley University<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

    How to Find Kindred Spirits, According to Mindvalley Experts<\/h2>\n

    Attracting kindred spirits in your life\u2014be it in love, friendships, or the workplace\u2014isn\u2019t an enchantment or a secret potion you can drink. It\u2019s a process that requires introspection, authenticity, and the courage to step out into the world as your true self.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    Here are seven ways you can start this journey:<\/p>\n

    1. Open yourself up<\/h3>\n

    First things first\u2014you\u2019ve got to be open to meeting new people.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    Keith Ferrazzi<\/strong>, the world\u2019s leading networking expert and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Mastering Authentic Networking<\/em> Quest,\u00a0 explains that stepping out of your comfort zone and being more receptive to the people around you is essential to creating authentic networking.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    Attend social events, join clubs, volunteer\u2014put yourself out there. You never know who you might meet at that pottery class or book club.<\/p>\n

    2. Cultivate emotional intelligence\u00a0<\/h3>\n

    Neelam Verma<\/strong>, dating expert and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Finding Love with Integrity Dating <\/em>Quest explains that fostering emotional intelligence can help you connect more deeply with others.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    It\u2019s about empathy<\/a>, emotional self-awareness, and effective communication that make you fluent in the language of the soul.<\/p>\n

    Learn more: <\/em><\/strong>How to Improve Your Emotional Intelligence: 5 Tips From Mindvalley Trainers<\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

    3. Follow your passion<\/h3>\n

    Vanessa in her Magnetic Charisma<\/em> Quest explains that authenticity and aligning with your genuine interests at work and in life is paramount for attracting and cultivating genuine connections. When you engage in activities you are truly passionate about, you are more likely to attract like-minded people.\u00a0<\/p>\n

    So, join that salsa class, start that gardening project, or take that creative writing course, and you will be surprised at how much easier it is to connect with people who, most importantly, share similar passions and values with you.<\/p>\n

    4. Use FORD model<\/h3>\n

    Small talk has never hurt anyone, nor has it helped to connect on a deeper level. When you are seeking to build a sense of deeper intimacy with someone, apply the FORD model:<\/p>\n

    This is your way to navigate the small talk:<\/p>\n