{"id":6375,"date":"2024-02-03T22:03:43","date_gmt":"2024-02-04T02:03:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/7-steps-to-create-a-stay-at-home-mom-schedule\/"},"modified":"2024-02-03T22:03:43","modified_gmt":"2024-02-04T02:03:43","slug":"7-steps-to-create-a-stay-at-home-mom-schedule","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/7-steps-to-create-a-stay-at-home-mom-schedule\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Steps to Create a Stay at Home Mom Schedule"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p><em>There might be affiliate links on this page, which means we get a small commission of anything you buy. As an Amazon Associate we earn from qualifying purchases. Please do your own research before making any online purchase.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It was nearly 11 years ago that my husband and I made the decision for me to be a stay-at-home mom to our son.<\/p>\n<p>Our situation was a bit unique in that my husband owns his own business\u2026 and I had been working for him for a little over a year before we got pregnant.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So staying home with our son actually meant bringing him to the office or taking some work home to keep me busy while he napped.<\/p>\n<p><em>Keep me busy?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That seems funny now.<\/p>\n<p><em>Was I ever really that naive?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I guess I was.<\/p>\n<p>I mean, our son was a great baby.<\/p>\n<p>And so I followed no stay at home mom schedule!<\/p>\n<p>He was content playing by himself for an hour\u2026 or just staring out the window at the trees and birds.<\/p>\n<p>He enjoyed sitting in his stroller outside while I sipped coffee and read magazines.<\/p>\n<p>We went for walks to the market.<\/p>\n<p>He slept normal for a baby too\u2026 waking up just once each night for his feeding.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, he was chill.<\/p>\n<p>I could write my articles while he catnapped and \u201ccooed\u201d happily in his bassinet.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you\u2019d hardly even know he was there\u2026 for the four months.<\/p>\n<p>Then he started to become very aware.<\/p>\n<p>Aware of himself. Aware of me. Aware of his environment.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>He began standing in a walker.<\/p>\n<p>Then crawling.<\/p>\n<p>And he was walking and talking before he was 1 year old\u2026 at which point I was already pregnant again. This time with a daughter.<\/p>\n<p>I was on the move and having to keep an eye on him constantly.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully he napped once or twice during the day\u2026 but that didn\u2019t mean I suddenly earned free time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Getting work done was not in the cards for me, as that time was quickly usurped by laundry that was waiting to be done. Or meals that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/how-to-make-a-meal-plan\/\">needed to be prepped<\/a>. Dusting or vacuuming. Putting my feet up for 10 minutes because my sciatica was flaring up.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I quickly realized that I needed the aforementioned stay at home mom schedule. And I needed it bad!<\/p>\n<p>Not just to keep things in order, but for my sanity.<\/p>\n<p>So if that meant penciling in a nap for myself or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/grokker-review\/\">prenatal yoga<\/a> class online\u2026 so be it.<\/p>\n<p>Now, more than a decade later, my husband and I are the proud (and very tired) parents of four amazing kids ages 6-10.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>While my stay at home mom schedule has changed over the years, it has been a lifesaver\u2026 and one I wish someone had shared with me when my parenting journey first began.<\/p>\n<p>And with that, I will provide you with 7 steps to structure your day. Hopefully some, or all, of them will work for you. Feel free to tweak them here and there to your specific situation, but in general they will prove to be a good starting point for creating your rockstar stay at home mom schedule.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-get-a-healthy-dose-of-vitamin-zzzz-s\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Get_a_Healthy_Dose_of_Vitamin_Zzzzs\"\/>1. Get a Healthy Dose of Vitamin Zzzz\u2019s<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Getting enough sleep is crucial in staying healthy and alert\u2026 not to mention you\u2019ll be in a more pleasant mood if you\u2019re not overtired.<\/p>\n<p>Same goes for your kids.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"\u201cSleep is an investment in the energy you need to be effective tomorrow.\u201d \u2013 Tom Roth | importance of sleep quotes | eat sleep quotes\" class=\"wp-image-26203\" style=\"width:350px\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-100x150.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-43x65.jpg 43w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-147x220.jpg 147w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-67x100.jpg 67w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-267x400.jpg 267w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-340x510.jpg 340w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment.jpg 735w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-683x1024.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\u201cSleep is an investment in the energy you need to be effective tomorrow.\u201d \u2013 Tom Roth | importance of sleep quotes | eat sleep quotes\" class=\"wp-image-26203\" style=\"width:350px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-100x150.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-43x65.jpg 43w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-147x220.jpg 147w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-67x100.jpg 67w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-267x400.jpg 267w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment-340x510.jpg 340w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/sleep-is-an-investment.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kids should be napping during the day\u2026 at least until they reach the age where they are attending school full-time.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be the first to admit that I dropped the ball when it came to enforcing this with our youngest daughter and son. The older two stopped napping by age 5 or 6, and so the different schedules proved to be more of a headache for me than anything else.<\/p>\n<p>Trying to keep two kids quiet while the other two slept was easier said than done.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It became a daily battle and scream fest\u2026 and it didn\u2019t have to be. I should have just stood my ground.<\/p>\n<p>Also, if you have the luxury, I highly recommend napping with your child (or children) to get them on board. I rarely could because I didn\u2019t want to leave the other two kids unsupervised\u2026 but whenever my husband was around, or one of the grandparents, I took advantage of cuddle time.<\/p>\n<p>It recharged everyone\u2019s batteries.<\/p>\n<p>And just like napping, bedtimes need to be on your stay at home mom schedule too.<\/p>\n<p>While every family will have their different routines\u2026 I prefer to incorporate a wind down period. This basically involves shutting down all technology at least 30 minutes before bed. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/get-better-sleep\/\">Sooner would be more ideal<\/a>, as it gives the brain a chance to prepare itself for sleep.<\/p>\n<p>We <a href=\"https:\/\/www.happierhuman.com\/cooperative-board-games-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">play a board game<\/a>, charades or read books. You can even work a bath into things, if you have more time.<\/p>\n<p>Since we have older kids that get to stay up a bit later, we still make them all follow this routine. When the younger two turn out the lights, the older two are allowed to continue reading or drawing in their room if they wish.<\/p>\n<p>And on that note, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sleepfoundation.org\/press-release\/national-sleep-foundation-recommends-new-sleep-times\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">recommended amount of sleep varies<\/a> by age\u2026 which should be a factor when establishing bedtimes. On average, a school age child (age 5-17) would benefit from somewhere between 9-13 hours of sleep per night.\u00a0 The amount goes down a bit as the child gets older.<\/p>\n<p>Regardless of how close in age your children are, you should consider implementing a \u201cno tech\u201d plan to get them in the right mindset for bed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-nbsp-choose-your-wake-up-times-wisely\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Choose_Your_Wake-Up_Times_Wisely\"\/>2.\u00a0Choose Your Wake-Up Times Wisely<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Similar to establishing a nap and bedtime routine with your kids, it would behoove you to set your children\u2019s wake-up times as well.<\/p>\n<p>And while you\u2019re at it, set one for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>To clarify, this is more than just setting an alarm. It\u2019s about putting you all <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/growth-mindset\/\">in a good mindset<\/a> to welcome the day.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of alarms, don&#8217;t use your phone. Watch the video below to learn why you shouldn&#8217;t use your phone as an alarm clock.<\/p>\n<p><noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"5 Reasons to STOP Using Your Phone As An Alarm\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/nxu-5lOC4BI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p>It is certainly ok to have two different wake-up routines for weekdays and weekends. These wake-up times can also be individualized, given one child may start school sooner than the other.<\/p>\n<p>So rather than fixate on the actual wake-up time, you should be focusing on the \u201cleave your room\u201d time.<\/p>\n<p>Let me explain.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly to winding down before bed, if you give your kids the opportunity to wake up slowly and focus on their day ahead,\u00a0 they will be in a better mood than if they were just woken out of sound sleep by the buzzing of an alarm..<\/p>\n<p>Add to that, the feeling of being rushed to get ready and out the door.<\/p>\n<p>These are stressors neither we or our children need.<\/p>\n<p>My suggestion is to establish a time when your children are allowed to leave their rooms. Simply let them know that it\u2019s ok to wake up earlier than that, but that they should remain quietly in their room until the time you agreed upon.<\/p>\n<p>This will force them to stay away from the technology and overall chaos of the morning routine to follow. Maybe they will even pick up a book or color.<\/p>\n<p>As for you, try setting an alarm for 30-60 minutes earlier than your kids will be unleashed. This can always be adjusted.<\/p>\n<p>Then use this time to get yourself a cup of coffee. Read the newspaper. Prep breakfast in peace. Take a shower.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever you need to do in order to get your day started on a positive note\u2026 now is the time.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-prioritize-the-items-on-your-calendar\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Prioritize_the_Items_on_Your_Calendar\"\/>3.\u00a0Prioritize the Items on Your Calendar<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>No matter how old our children are, they keep us busy.<\/p>\n<p>Doctor appointments, extra curricular activities, homework, volunteer work\u2026 playdates.<\/p>\n<p>Try as we might, it\u2019s important to realize that some things just can\u2019t be rearranged on our stay at home mom schedule.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The trick is to start your day (or week) by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/family-calendar-apps\/\">looking at your calendar<\/a> and prioritizing the items on it.<\/p>\n<p>Be realistic.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t change the time of a soccer game, piano lesson or girl scout meeting.<\/p>\n<p>You also can\u2019t control the amount of homework your child may get one night.<\/p>\n<p>But some of the things you can control are socializing with friends, housework, meals and working out.<\/p>\n<p>If you go through your calendar and color code the things that aren\u2019t able to or easily be changed.. you can then fill in the rest of your day around it.\u00a0 Just be sure to not stress yourself out by filling it up too much.<\/p>\n<p>And be sure to schedule free time for yourself, family time and time to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/how-to-make-a-meal-plan\/\">prep meals<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-make-everyone-accountable-with-a-daily-chore-chart\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Make_Everyone_Accountable_with_a_Daily_Chore_Chart\"\/>4.\u00a0Make Everyone Accountable with a Daily Chore Chart<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Many parents, myself included, will often make the mistake of confusing chores with being helpful.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In other words, chores may include things like emptying the dishwasher or taking the dog for a walk.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Whereas things such as clearing their place after meals, or picking up toys when done playing, are more about them being courteous.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"stay at home mom organization chart | stay at home mom with newborn | working mom daily schedule\" class=\"wp-image-26893\" style=\"width:450px;height:338px\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-65x49.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-220x165.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-133x100.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-358x269.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-533x400.jpg 533w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores.jpg\" alt=\"stay at home mom organization chart | stay at home mom with newborn | working mom daily schedule\" class=\"wp-image-26893\" style=\"width:450px;height:338px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-65x49.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-220x165.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-133x100.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-358x269.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/kids-chores-533x400.jpg 533w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Chores may include things like emptying the dishwasher or taking the dog for a walk.\u00a0\u00a0<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Explain to your kids that less work for you means more time to spend with them. Then proceed to explain the difference between a task that\u2019s expected of them versus being polite.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/chore-chart-templates\/\">Chore charts<\/a> are a great way for your kids to visualize the concept\u2026 and can also be attached to a rewards incentive in order to promote cooperation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-nbsp-establish-no-brainer-routines\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Establish_No-Brainer_Routines\"\/>5.\u00a0Establish No-Brainer Routines<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>We just talked about the importance of assigning chores for kids on the stay at home mom schedule.<\/p>\n<p>It teaches them accountability and respect.<\/p>\n<p>I also touched upon things your kids could do just to help out. Things that weren\u2019t necessarily expected, but appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>These are routines and they differ from chores.<\/p>\n<p>Things such as throwing dirty clothes in the laundry basket or sweeping crumbs they dropped on the kitchen floor.<\/p>\n<p>Remember: you are not a slave, you\u2019re their mom. And you are happy to help and do all of the things expected of you as a full-time mom\u2026 but that does not mean you need to be at their beck and call.<\/p>\n<p>You will start to feel unappreciated, burnt out and resentful if that happens\u2026 none of which are healthy.<\/p>\n<p>Watch the video below to learn how to develop a great morning routine for your kids:<\/p>\n<p><noscript><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How to Create a Morning Routine for Your Kids (FREE PRINTABLE)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/_58mqaWgIaM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-get-your-kids-on-the-same-page\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Get_Your_Kids_on_the_Same_Page\"\/>6.\u00a0Get Your Kids on the Same Page<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Irregardless of how close in age your kids are, you should still be able to schedule an hour or two into your day to accommodate all of them at once\u2026 thus, freeing up time for yourself to get certain things done.<\/p>\n<p>Poof! It\u2019s magic.<\/p>\n<p><em>Well, not really.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You see, after more than a year of experience virtual schooling all four kids at the elementary level\u2026 I finally see the importance of grouping certain activities so that I&#8217;m not being pulled in a million different directions all day long.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The big ones for me are:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-ugb-icon-list ugb-icon-list ugb-5ae4d60 ugb-icon-list--v2 ugb-main-block\">\n<div class=\"ugb-inner-block\">\n<div class=\"ugb-block-content\">\n<ul>\n<li>Snack time<\/li>\n<li>Independent or group creative play time<\/li>\n<li>Getting fresh air<\/li>\n<li>Educational tv time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>While there may not be time in one day to fit all of these things in, these are my go-to\u2019s for creating a bit of breathing room in my stay at home mom schedule.<\/p>\n<p>Whether I\u2019m trying to finish up an article, or just need to catch up on laundry and prep dinner, I can give myself a good 1.5-2 hours of semi-uninterrupted time by making them a healthy snack\u2026 followed by sending them outside and then allowing them to watch a bit of tv afterwards.<\/p>\n<p>Barring an accidental injury or quarrel, I can almost guarantee my kids won\u2019t bother me (much) for that time. And that\u2019s a win\/win situation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-create-a-work-space-for-yourself\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Create_a_Work_Space_for_Yourself\"\/>7.\u00a0Create a Work Space for Yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Whether you work from home, or motherhood <em>is<\/em> your job, if you\u2019re visible to your kids\u2026 chances are they will expect you to drop everything and pay attention to them.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how old they get, they aren\u2019t easily able to grasp the concept that you being present doesn\u2019t always mean you\u2019re free.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you are home because you\u2019ve made a commitment to raising them. Being there for the important stuff.<\/p>\n<p>But you are also a wife. A friend. A daughter, sister or cousin. A woman.<\/p>\n<p>You had an identity before kids.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"stay at home mom schedule with school age | stay at home mom schedule app | stay at home mom cleaning schedule\" class=\"wp-image-26894\" style=\"width:450px;height:338px\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-65x49.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-220x165.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-133x100.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-358x269.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-533x400.jpg 533w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space.jpg\" alt=\"stay at home mom schedule with school age | stay at home mom schedule app | stay at home mom cleaning schedule\" class=\"wp-image-26894\" style=\"width:450px;height:338px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-65x49.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-220x165.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-133x100.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-358x269.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/own-work-space-533x400.jpg 533w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">It is perfectly normal to give yourself some work space that can help you be more productive.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>So that can\u2019t just suddenly vanish when you choose to become a stay at home mom. Or at least, it shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>It is perfectly normal to give yourself some space.<\/p>\n<p>Physical space.<\/p>\n<p>A no kid zone.<\/p>\n<p>This can be a home office. A sewing room. A workout space.<\/p>\n<p>It can be anything you need it to be in order to be productive\u2026 because being productive will make you feel accomplished.<\/p>\n<p>Satisfied.<\/p>\n<p>Be very clear with your children, that when you are in that space, you are \u201cnot there\u201d. It\u2019s as if you were at work or at the food store.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, emergencies are a different story\u2026 but point out that you\u2019d prefer to not be interrupted and that they should try and work things out on their own.<\/p>\n<p>You can even make it easier on them by having an allocated snack drawer that they can help themselves to.\u00a0 Or perhaps you can set up a craft for them to do independently\u2026 they will be so proud when they show you the finished masterpiece!<\/p>\n<p>Think outside the box.<\/p>\n<p>Again, age will play a factor. Afterall, it\u2019s not so easy to tell a toddler they can\u2019t barge in to give mommy a hug.<\/p>\n<p>I get it.\u00a0 You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n<p>But conditioning them to respect boundaries is a good life lesson\u2026 and one that\u2019s worth a try at any age.<\/p>\n<p><em>PS, video monitors can still allow you to keep tabs on them from behind closed doors.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts-on-the-stay-at-home-mom-schedule\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thoughts_on_the_Stay_At_Home_Mom_Schedule\"\/>Final Thoughts on the Stay At Home Mom Schedule<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>Look. Nobody can ever really understand what\u2019s like to be a stay at home parent until they\u2019ve done it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a labor of love and one that often goes unnoticed\u2026 especially by our kids.<\/p>\n<p>The little things we do every day, tirelessly molding our children into the adults they will become, is more often than not lost on them. And to our spouses who work outside the home.<\/p>\n<p>The stay at home mom schedule operates 24\/7. You are never off the clock and never get sick leave. You rarely get vacation time.<\/p>\n<p>But here\u2019s the catch.<\/p>\n<p>In order to be the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/raise-successful-kids\/\">best mom you can to these kids<\/a>, you have to run a well-oiled machine.<\/p>\n<p>You need a schedule that is not only meant to keep you all on point, but to also keep you from becoming overwhelmed.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For the most part\u2026 kids won\u2019t break. They are more resilient than you know.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/mom-guilt\/\">Do not feel guilty<\/a> about making them accountable.<\/p>\n<p>Or giving them responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>Set boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>Be honest with them.<\/p>\n<p>And, above all, carve out a bit of time for yourself to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/meditation-vs-mindfulness\/\">catch your breath<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It will all be ok.<\/p>\n<p id=\"h-helpful-resources\" style=\"font-size:25px\"><strong>Helpful Resources<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you are a visual person and would benefit from a stay at home mom schedule template, or chart, check out these sites. You can even sort by age of child on a few of them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Stay At Home Mom Templates<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Work from Home Mom Templates<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Finally, if you want to level up your parenting skills, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/short-positive-parenting-review\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">then check out this resource that will show you how to get your kids to listen WITHOUT yelling, nagging, or losing control<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide\" style=\"grid-template-columns:23% auto\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns=\" http:=\"\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9453 size-full\" data-lazy-srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-65x65.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-220x220.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-450x450.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-510x510.jpg 510w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-1024x1024.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9453 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-65x65.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-220x220.jpg 220w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-450x450.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/nicoel-profile-pic-510x510.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size\"><strong>Nicole Krause<\/strong> has been writing both personally and professionally for over 20 years. She holds a dual B.A. in English and Film Studies. Her work has appeared in some of the country\u2019s top publications, major news outlets, online publications, and blogs. 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