{"id":6443,"date":"2024-02-09T22:12:36","date_gmt":"2024-02-10T02:12:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/my-visits-to-the-met-reminded-me-of-this-profound-truth\/"},"modified":"2024-02-09T22:12:36","modified_gmt":"2024-02-10T02:12:36","slug":"my-visits-to-the-met-reminded-me-of-this-profound-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/my-visits-to-the-met-reminded-me-of-this-profound-truth\/","title":{"rendered":"My Visits to the Met Reminded Me of This Profound Truth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>For more than four years, I\u2019ve been visiting the Metropolitan Museum every day. (I skip when it\u2019s closed or I\u2019m traveling.)<\/p>\n<p>I started this practice for my book <em><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/books\/life-in-five-senses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Life in Five Senses<\/a><\/em>. I hoped this daily visit would help me to learn more about my five senses and myself, and how an experience changes with familiarity.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d planned to make daily Met visits for one year, but I love going so much that I can\u2019t imagine ever stopping.<\/p>\n<p>And to me, it\u2019s important to go every day. It\u2019s so different to do something <em>every day<\/em> rather than <em>some <\/em>days or even <em>most<\/em> days. As Andy Warhol observed, \u201cEither <em>once only<\/em>, or <em>every day<\/em>. If you do something once it\u2019s exciting, and if you do it every day it\u2019s exciting.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve gained so much from the daily visits, and on a recent visit, I was reminded, yet again, of a vital and transcendent truth.<\/p>\n<p>The days are long, but the years are short. Gather ye rosebuds while ye may. Nothing gold can stay.<\/p>\n<div class=\"field field--body\">\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><em><span class=\"long-line\">Nature\u2019s first green is gold,<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">Her hardest hue to hold.<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">Her early leaf\u2019s a flower;<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">But only so an hour.<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">Then leaf subsides to leaf.<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">So Eden sank to grief,<\/span><\/em><br \/><em><span class=\"long-line\">So dawn goes down to day.<\/span><\/em><br \/><span class=\"long-line\"><em>Nothing gold can stay.<\/em>\u00a0 <\/span><span class=\"long-line\">\u2014Robert Frost<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>I\u2019ve learned to appreciate each beautiful object in the Met, every time I visit\u2014<em>and not to assume that it will be there tomorrow<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s funny: Before I went to the Met every day, I expected that the Met would seem like a bulwark against time. So many treasures preserved and safe in their cases; each masterpiece standing in the same place, every time I looked for it.<\/p>\n<p>For someone like me, who loves familiarity, routine, and re-reading, re-watching, and re-looking, this constancy was immensely appealing.<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s not what I\u2019ve found.<\/p>\n<p>The Met changes <em>all the time<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, special exhibitions come and go, but I assumed that the permanent collection was, well, more or less permanent.<\/p>\n<p>At first, when I noticed changes, I thought my memory was playing tricks. Hadn\u2019t the bullfighter painting been placed on a different wall? Where was that beautiful ceramic piece? One of my favorite galleries is American Wing Gallery 771\u2014but wasn\u2019t the display of portraits slightly different?<\/p>\n<p>Slowly, I started to realize how much artwork slides around or disappears at the Met.<\/p>\n<p>Certain collections\u2014such as Chinese art, Japanese art, contemporary art\u2014rotate very often. There was a hanging scroll of a carp that I loved, and visited many times, and then\u2014gone.<\/p>\n<p>Also, entire sections vanish without warning. (Well, probably I miss the warnings.) One day, I walked in, and the Rockefeller Wing, which I love, was closed for renovation\u2014for years. This was especially jarring, because it held an Oracle Figure (<em>kafigeledjo<\/em>) that I viewed on almost every visit. Now that piece is out of sight\u2014perhaps forever, if it doesn\u2019t go back on display at the re-opening.<\/p>\n<p>The same thing happened with the Ancient Near Eastern and Cypriot Art Galleries. One day, I turned a corner and\u2014poof. Closed. Ditto, the European Paintings 1300-1800 Galleries.<\/p>\n<p>Then one day, just as I was thinking wistfully about how much I wanted to visit<em> Portrait of a Carthusian<\/em>, to look at the \u201cfly\u201d sitting on the painted frame, I passed by the top of the Great Hall Steps and saw that the European Paintings were on view again.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-225x300.jpg\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136373 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136373\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6803-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p>I raced through the galleries to get a sense of what had changed. <em>So much<\/em>. Paintings hung in different rooms, in different contexts, and with better light. The El Grecos had moved upstairs from the Robert Lehman collection. The Vermeers were here, too.<\/p>\n<p>But would I still be able to see my favorites? I hurried from one room to another. With relief, I spotted <em>Ancient Rome<\/em> and <em>Modern Rome<\/em>, <em>The Fortune-Teller<\/em>, <em>Hermann von Wedigh III<\/em>, and<em> The Penitence of Saint Jerome Triptych<\/em> (I like the way a demon tries to catch Saint Anthony the Hermit\u2019s attention by pulling on his book, like a little kid).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-225x300.jpg\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136375 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136375\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6806-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019d written about some artworks in <em>Life in Five Senses<\/em>, I felt as though these were \u201cmine\u201d in some way, so I was relieved to see <em>The Penitent Magdalen <\/em>and<em> The Harvesters<\/em>. And <em>Portrait of a Woman with a Man at a Casement<\/em>, which always made me laugh.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-225x300.jpg\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136376 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136376\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6798-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p>I was thrilled to see that a series of Hubert Robert paintings had been moved from the first floor; my favorite is <em>The Bathing Pool<\/em>, and it\u2019s much easier to examine it closely in this new spot.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-225x300.jpg\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136377 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136377\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6800-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<p>There were also many unfamiliar paintings, and it was exciting to have so much to see and explore. But it made me sad, too. I\u2019d loved these rooms the way they were, and now I could never return to that previous configuration.<\/p>\n<p>Each time I go to the Met, I think about how extraordinarily fortunate I am: to live within walking distance to the Met; to have the time, health, and freedom to visit; to be the beneficiary of so many people\u2019s time, energy, money, learning, and genius; and to be in a place full of people from all over the world, who are enjoying beauty together in peaceful companionship. I never take the Met for granted.<\/p>\n<p>And I no longer take any individual artwork for granted, either.<\/p>\n<p>I never hurry past my beloved <em>God Horus Protecting King Nectanebo II <\/em>without stopping to look. One day, it may disappear\u2014and even if something beautiful takes its place,\u00a0 nothing can replace those pure, stern lines.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing gold can stay.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-225x300.jpg\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136378 lazyload\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-136378\" src=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/IMG_6807-1152x1536.jpg 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\"\/><\/noscript><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For more than four years, I\u2019ve been visiting the Metropolitan Museum every day. (I skip when it\u2019s closed or I\u2019m traveling.) 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