{"id":9227,"date":"2024-10-31T06:52:26","date_gmt":"2024-10-31T10:52:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/15-signs-you-are-being-used-by-someone\/"},"modified":"2024-10-31T06:52:26","modified_gmt":"2024-10-31T10:52:26","slug":"15-signs-you-are-being-used-by-someone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/15-signs-you-are-being-used-by-someone\/","title":{"rendered":"15 Signs You Are Being Used by Someone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>Someone is using you and taking advantage of your good nature \u2013 and you\u2019re finally waking up to it.\u00a0And it really stings.<\/p>\n<p>Taking advantage of another person to achieve or accomplish one&#8217;s own goal is nothing new in the history of humanity, but it doesn\u2019t hurt the person impacted any less.\u00a0Knowing how to spot the signs that someone is using you can help you speak up and prevent it from happening in future relationships.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"more-100569\"\/><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2-1-they-ignore-your-schedule\">1. They Ignore Your Schedule<\/h3>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"friend indifferent towards another friend Signs You Are Being Used By Someone \" class=\"wp-image-128671\" style=\"width:717px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5.png 1000w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-900x630.png\" alt=\"friend indifferent towards another friend Signs You Are Being Used By Someone \" class=\"wp-image-128671\" style=\"width:717px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_5-5.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>One of the most common signs someone is using you is that they <a title=\"The 17 Most Common (And Heart-breaking) Signs He\u2019s Just Not That Into You\" href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/12\/relationships\/hes-not-into-you\">only spend time with you when it\u2019s convenient for them<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>Users will make plans when it works for them without considering your personal life or schedule.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"3-2-they-ask-to-borrow-money-without-re-paying\">2. They Ask to Borrow Money without Re-Paying<\/h3>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-132579\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8.png 1000w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-900x630.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-132579\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Untitled-design-8-8.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<p>Friends are great for support and can help each other through tough times. However, if someone you know asks for money frequently without any intention of paying it back, they are using you for your money.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"4-3-they-are-self-centered\">3. They Are Self-Centered<\/h3>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"man and woman arguing signs of a selfish husband\" class=\"wp-image-124966\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Add-a-little-bit-of-body-text-2-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Add-a-little-bit-of-body-text-2-900x630.png\" alt=\"man and woman arguing signs of a selfish husband\" class=\"wp-image-124966\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<p>When you spend time with someone who takes advantage of you and is comfortable using you, they won\u2019t give a second thought to what is going on in your life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll notice their <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/06\/emotional-abuse\/reacttive-abuse\">narcissistic<\/a> and self-centered behavior seems to be all about them. They only turn to you when they need something.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"5-4-they-dont-listen\">4. They Don&#8217;t Listen<\/h3>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-132691\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14.png 1000w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-900x630.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-132691\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/ou-14.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<p>Have you ever spent time with a friend or a loved one that does not seem to listen to a word you say? <\/p>\n<p>Do you feel they are around you for personal gain \u2013 not because they want to be with you? <\/p>\n<p>Trust your gut. Those who <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/10\/relationships\/good-listener\">don\u2019t listen to others<\/a> are typically self-serving and will disregard your wants and needs to fulfill their own.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"6-5-their-love-is-conditional\">5. Their Love is Conditional<\/h3>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"couple arguing, why are people so mean\" class=\"wp-image-112577\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Add-a-little-bit-of-body-text-2-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Add-a-little-bit-of-body-text-2-900x630.png\" alt=\"couple arguing, why are people so mean\" class=\"wp-image-112577\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<p>Lifelong friends, romantic partners, and family members should love you unconditionally. <\/p>\n<p>However, if you feel their love is conditional, they take advantage of your good nature and kindness toward them. It\u2019s a <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/11\/relationships\/one-sided-friendship\">one-way relationship<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"8-6-they-play-nice-when-its-convenient\">6. They Play Nice When It&#8217;s Convenient<\/h3>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" alt=\"woman frustrated with guy Signs You Are Being Used By Someone \" class=\"wp-image-128672\" style=\"width:740px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7.png 1000w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-900x630.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"630\" src=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-900x630.png\" alt=\"woman frustrated with guy Signs You Are Being Used By Someone \" class=\"wp-image-128672\" style=\"width:740px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-900x630.png 900w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-300x210.png 300w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7-768x538.png 768w, https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/Add_a_little_bit_of_body_text_6-7.png 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Do you know someone who <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/02\/relationships\/guy-hot-and-cold\" title=\"Does Your Guy Run Hot And Cold? 11 Reasons Why And How To Handle It\">runs hot and cold<\/a>, acting like your best friend one day and ignoring you the next? <\/p>\n<p>If you have a friend who only plays nice when it is suitable for them and when they are getting their way, then it\u2019s clear they are more selfish and self-serving than you thought.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"9-7-they-show-a-lack-of-effort\">7. They Show a Lack of Effort<\/h3>\n<p>Friendships and romantic partnerships are two-way streets. To keep a relationship thriving, both people involved must make an effort. <\/p>\n<p>If you know someone who isn\u2019t interested in making an effort when initiating plans, sending texts, or making phone calls, they aren\u2019t as committed to the relationship as you.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p><strong>More Related Articles<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/09\/emotional-abuse\/female-narcissist\">27 Of The Most Glaring Traits Of A Female Narcissist<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/11\/self-improvement\/live-for-yourself\"\/><a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/02\/relationships\/leading-someone-on\">Are You Unintentionally Leading Someone On? 14 Wake-Up Call Signs You Are\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/08\/self-improvement\/why-am-i-so-unhappy\">Why Am I So Unhappy? 15 Top Reasons You\u2019re Miserable<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"10-8-they-use-you-to-feel-good-about-themselves\">8. They Use You to Feel Good About Themselves<\/h3>\n<p>Have you ever noticed that someone in your life contacts you only when feeling down or bad about themselves? They are emotional vampires, using you to feel better about themselves. <\/p>\n<p>When someone uses you this way, they seek validation and affirmation to boost their ego. Once they feel better about themselves, they leave you holding their emotional garbage.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"11-9-they-become-increasingly-manipulative\">9. They Become Increasingly Manipulative<\/h3>\n<p>It is not uncommon for users to be <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/08\/emotional-abuse\/put-manipulator-in-place\">highly manipulative<\/a> but also charming and charismatic. <\/p>\n<p>For this reason, getting caught up in relationships with people who are self-serving and only serve one partner is easy. <\/p>\n<p>Is someone in your life increasingly manipulative, encroaching on your personal space and time, and <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/05\/relationships\/healthy-boundaries-in-relationships\">not respecting boundaries<\/a>? <\/p>\n<p>It may be time to take a step back and reevaluate the relationship.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"12-10-you-are-only-contacted-at-night\">10. You Are Only Contacted at Night<\/h3>\n<p>While this is most common among romantic partnerships, it can happen in any relationship. <\/p>\n<p>When an individual is calling you or texting you only at night (especially if they are in another committed relationship), they are likely trying to use you for emotional, mental, or sexual support.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"13-signs-you-are-being-used-by-a-woman\">Signs You Are Being Used By a Woman<\/h2>\n<p>Being used by a woman can be detrimental to anyone&#8217;s ego, especially if you are interested in a woman in a romantic way. <\/p>\n<p>However, you can also be used by a woman in a <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/03\/relationships\/platonic-relationship\">platonic relationship<\/a> or in your family.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>While not everyone is alike, here are a few signs that you might be in a situation where you are being used and taken advantage of by a woman:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>She ignores your calls<\/strong>, texts, and attempts at communication unless she needs something for you<\/li>\n<li><strong>She expects something in return<\/strong> when she calls you, spends time with you, or visits with you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>She is not afraid to ask you<\/strong> to purchase her meals, food, and other personal items<\/li>\n<li><strong>There is no spark from her<\/strong> when you are romantically involved, even if you are putting forth your best efforts.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"14-11-they-dont-introduce-you\">11. They Don&#8217;t Introduce You<\/h3>\n<p>If you are in a <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/02\/relationships\/feelings-for-someone-else\" title=\"9 Must-Do Actions If You\u2019re In A Long-Term Relationship But Have Feelings For Someone Else\">long-term relationship with someone<\/a> or have known another individual for years as friends, you might expect to meet their family and friends at some point. <\/p>\n<p>If someone you know avoids introducing you to those in their life, it may be a red flag that this person isn\u2019t invested in you.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"15-12-they-break-commitments-and-promises\">12. They Break Commitments and Promises<\/h3>\n<p>Whenever a friend or a loved one breaks promises and commitments, it can damage the bond and trust you have built with one another. <\/p>\n<p>However, this is a common tactic for users or individuals with <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/06\/emotional-abuse\/reacttive-abuse\">narcissistic<\/a> and manipulative personalities.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"16-13-they-show-no-gratitude\">13. They Show No Gratitude<\/h3>\n<p>Even if you have been friends with an individual who has been a user for decades, they rarely show gratitude. You may often find yourself taken aback by how brazen users can be and how unappreciative they are.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"17-14-they-don%E2%80%99t-respect-personal-boundaries\">14. They Don\u2019t Respect Personal Boundaries<\/h3>\n<p>Whether you are in a romantic or platonic relationship with someone who is using you, they are not likely to respect your boundaries. <\/p>\n<p>Even if you have spelled them out clearly, the user acts surprised (or even irritated) when you point out their offense. They feel entitled to cross the line, believing you\u2019ll let it go.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"18-15-they-lie-often\">15. They Lie (Often)<\/h3>\n<p>This behavior is the hallmark of a user. Those who use and manipulate others will not think twice about lying directly to your face. <\/p>\n<p>If you suspect your friend or partner is habitually using you and lying to you, it\u2019s time to move on. If there\u2019s no trust, there\u2019s no foundation for a relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"19-signs-you-are-being-used-by-a-man\">Signs You Are Being Used By a Man<\/h2>\n<p>Being used in a relationship or by a man with whom you have a platonic relationship, you know how soul-crushing the experience can feel. <\/p>\n<p>However, there are a few signs to look out for that can help you better spot and potentially avoid any man with intentions to <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/03\/relationships\/married-man-using\" title=\"17 Hard-To-Admit Signs a Married Man Is Using You\">use or take advantage of you<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>Some of the most common signs that a man is using you include:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Avoidance is common<\/strong> among men who use others for their own personal or financial gain.<\/li>\n<li><strong>He comes around only when lonely<\/strong> or unsatisfied in his current relationship or home life.<\/li>\n<li><strong>He doesn\u2019t introduce you to family<\/strong> members and friends even when you have been dating as an exclusive couple for months or even years.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Asking for financial support<\/strong> or assistance to enhance his own life without ever reciprocating.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"20-what-to-do-when-you-are-being-used-by-someone-\">What to Do When You Are Being Used by Someone?\u00a0<\/h2>\n<p>If you discover someone is using you, you may feel hurt, betrayed, and even angry. It is completely natural to have strong and painful feelings when someone takes advantage of you and your love and trust.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>However, removing yourself from the relationship and situation is best if someone uses you. Keep the following tips in mind once you are familiar with how to know if someone is using you:<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Set boundaries:<\/strong> Set <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/08\/self-improvement\/boundaries-quotes\">personal boundaries<\/a> and remain as independent as possible when meeting others, whether romantically or platonically.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Learn more upfront: <\/strong>Spend time getting to know people before committing to relationships.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Build support:<\/strong> Build a support group of loved ones and friends that you can trust when breaking away from a user.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Cut contact:<\/strong> In some cases, going cold turkey and cutting all communication is the only way to restart one&#8217;s life after being manipulated or used.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Being used never feels <a href=\"https:\/\/liveboldandbloom.com\/02\/relationships\/narcissist-be-faithful\" title=\"Is It Possible For A Narcissist To Be Faithful?15 Answers You Need To Know\">good, but it is possible to avoid it by knowing how to spot the tactics of users, manipulators, and narcissists<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The more familiar you are with the behaviors of these people, the less likely you are to fall victim to their tactics. <\/p>\n<p>When you become aware of signs, you can steer clear of those who are self-serving and manipulative without second-guessing or questioning yourself.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Someone is using you and taking advantage of your good nature \u2013 and you\u2019re finally waking up to it.\u00a0And it really stings. 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