{"id":10257,"date":"2025-03-16T15:09:29","date_gmt":"2025-03-16T19:09:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/any-common-desolation-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2025-03-16T15:09:29","modified_gmt":"2025-03-16T19:09:29","slug":"any-common-desolation-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/any-common-desolation-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Any Common Desolation \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Love-World-Poems-Gratitude\/dp\/1635863864\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?fit=320%2C450&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"cover with-border alignright size-medium\" alt=\"Any Common Desolation\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?w=1067&amp;ssl=1 1067w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?resize=320%2C450&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?resize=600%2C843&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?resize=240%2C337&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/howtolovetheworld.jpg?resize=768%2C1080&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The morning after a relationship of depth and significance long bending under the weight of its own complexity had finally broken with an exhausted thud, I opened the kiln to discover a month\u2019s worth of pottery shattered \u2014 two pieces had exploded, the shrapnel ruining the rest. All that centering, all that glazing, all the hours of pressing letterforms into the wet clay \u2014 all of it in shiny shards. And meanwhile spring was breaking outside and a little girl in bright blue rain boots was jumping in a puddle, smashing the reflections of the clouds with savage joy. <\/p>\n<p>And I thought, this is all there is: breaking, breaking apart, breaking open. <\/p>\n<p>Breaking alive. <\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_82889\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Almanac-Birds-Divinations-Uncertain-Days\/dp\/1961341433\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=680%2C1052&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"1052\" class=\"size-full wp-image-82889\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=320%2C495&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=600%2C929&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=240%2C371&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=768%2C1188&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Woodpecker1.jpg?resize=993%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 993w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Card from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Almanac-Birds-Divinations-Uncertain-Days\/dp\/1961341433\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>An Almanac of Birds: 100 Divinations for Uncertain Days<\/em><\/a>, also available as a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.redbubble.com\/shop\/ap\/169130127\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stand-alone print<\/a> and as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.redbubble.com\/i\/greeting-card\/Bird-Divination-Ivory-billed-Woodpecker-almanacofbirds-org-by-mariapopova\/169130127.5MT14\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">greeting cards<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It is not an easy assignment, being alive. Coming awake from the stupor of near-living that lulls us through our days, awake to the knowledge that on the other side of the neighborhood ICE trucks are handcuffing people and on the other side of the planet children are dying in gunfire, while outside the first birds of spring are singing and everywhere people are falling in love and in some faraway mountain village a shepherd is singing under a thousand stars. And somehow, somehow, all of it has to cohere into a single world in which we, in all our incohesion, must live this single life. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/ellen-bass\/\">Ellen Bass<\/a> reckons with all of this in her splendid poem \u201cAny Common Desolation,\u201d originally published in The Academy of American Poets\u2019 <a href=\"https:\/\/poets.org\/poem-a-day\" target=\"_blank\">poem-a-day<\/a> newsletter and later included in James Crews\u2019s lifeline of an anthology <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/How-Love-World-Poems-Gratitude\/dp\/1635863864\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\"><strong><em>How to Love the World: Poems of Gratitude and Hope<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/search.worldcat.org\/title\/1159045177\" target=\"_blank\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>), shared here with Ellen\u2019s blessing. <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Any Common Desolation&quot; by Ellen Bass (read by Maria Popova)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tqIAcFvZFHo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>ANY COMMON DESOLATION<br \/><em>by Ellen Bass<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>can be enough to make you look up<br \/>at the yellowed leaves of the apple tree, the few<br \/>that survived the rains and frost, shot<br \/>with late afternoon sun. They glow a deep<br \/>orange-gold against a blue so sheer, a single bird<br \/>would rip it like silk. You may have to break<br \/>your heart, but it isn\u2019t nothing<br \/>to know even one moment alive. The sound<br \/>of an oar in an oarlock or a ruminant<br \/>animal tearing grass. The smell of grated ginger.<br \/>The ruby neon of the liquor store sign.<br \/>Warm socks. You remember your mother,<br \/>her precision a ceremony, as she gathered<br \/>the white cotton, slipped it over your toes,<br \/>drew up the heel, turned the cuff. A breath<br \/>can uncoil as you walk across your own muddy yard,<br \/>the big dipper pouring night down over you, and everything<br \/>you dread, all you can\u2019t bear, dissolves<br \/>and, like a needle slipped into your vein \u2014<br \/>that sudden rush of the world.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with Henry James on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/10\/17\/henry-james-the-beast-in-the-jungle\/\">how to stop waiting and start living<\/a> and Hermann Hesse on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/07\/06\/hermann-hesse-wonder-butterflies\/\">how to be more alive<\/a>, then revisit Ellen\u2019s magnificent poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/11\/28\/how-to-apologize-ellen-bass\/\">\u201cHow to Apologize.\u201d<\/a> And if you are looking to break your poetry open, I couldn\u2019t recommend her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ellenbass.com\/events\/living-room-craft-talk-series\/\">Living Room Craft Talks<\/a> more heartily.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The morning after a relationship of depth and significance long bending under the weight of its own complexity had finally broken with an exhausted thud, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10258,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10257","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10257"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10257\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}