{"id":10393,"date":"2025-04-04T15:28:30","date_gmt":"2025-04-04T19:28:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/11-active-listening-exercises-to-become-a-better-listener\/"},"modified":"2025-04-04T15:28:30","modified_gmt":"2025-04-04T19:28:30","slug":"11-active-listening-exercises-to-become-a-better-listener","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/11-active-listening-exercises-to-become-a-better-listener\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Active Listening Exercises to Become A Better Listener"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<p>Have you ever witnessed a conversation in which one person constantly interrupts or talks over the speaker? How well was the speaker\u2019s message being understood by the listener? How much message do you think the listener retained after walking away?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Not only does this common listening error convolute the speaker\u2019s message for those who are listening, it also costs the interrupter the opportunity to learn something new.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In such a situation, the interrupter is not practicing active listening, which means he is simply replying to the message rather than taking the time to understand it.<\/p>\n<p>Active listening is a useful skill for any adult to develop because it helps one absorb what other people are saying rather than just what one wants to or thinks they hear. This listening skill is fundamental to building trust, connection, and rapport.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone <a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/smart-goals-listening-skills\/\" data-lasso-id=\"54919\">could use some brushing up on their communication skills<\/a>, so in this article, we will look at 11 active listening exercises and how you can use them to your advantage in your personal and professional interactions.<\/p>\n<p>But first, let\u2019s take a deeper look at active listening.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-active-listening\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Is_Active_Listening\"\/><a\/>What Is Active Listening?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>The term \u201cActive Listening\u201d was coined in 1957\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/wholebeinginstitute.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Rogers_Farson_Active-Listening.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">by psychologists Carl Rogers and Richard Farson<\/a>. This<a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/soft-skills-list\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u00a0soft skill\u00a0<\/a>is learned by making the conscious decision to put one&#8217;s thoughts aside and absorb and understand what someone is saying without passing judgment.<\/p>\n<p>This involves paying close attention, avoiding the urge to interrupt, and having the patience to learn what the speaker is saying. <strong>The unique thing about active listening is that the goal is to understand instead of just listening.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a data-lasso-id=\"54922\" href=\"https:\/\/www.annualreviews.org\/doi\/10.1146\/annurev-orgpsych-012420-091013\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Research shows<\/a> that three qualities define active listening:<\/p>\n<p>Active listeners use verbal and nonverbal cues and behaviors, such as making eye contact, maintaining an open posture, and displaying appropriate facial expressions, to signal undivided attention.<\/p>\n<p>Active listeners can communicate comprehension by paraphrasing what the speaker has said and asking clarifying questions. The \u201cactive\u201d component involves interacting with the speaker to uncover details that might not have been shared initially.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, active listening involves showing positive intention by maintaining an interested, non-judgmental attitude.<strong> <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It is important to note that a nonjudgmental attitude doesn\u2019t mean one must agree with what the speaker is saying; it just acknowledges the speaker\u2019s perspective. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Active listening demonstrates respect for the speaker&#8217;s worth, considering his or her perspectives and ability to reach reasonable conclusions.<\/p>\n<p>In return for understanding what other people want you to know, you will be able to offer support and empathy through your habit of active listening. This can help the speaker feel validated and heard. But to be effective, users must maintain active listening as a basic attitude.<\/p>\n<p>If active listening is not a fundamental mindset, your behavior won\u2019t be genuine, which will be easily recognized by those with whom you\u2019re conversing.<\/p>\n<p>Carl Rogers and Richard Farson originally found several benefits to learning this skill, and the positive impacts of active listening have continued to grow. Here are some reasons why active listening is beneficial:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list stk-block-icon-list stk-block stk-a501db8\" data-block-id=\"a501db8\"><svg style=\"display:none\"><defs><g id=\"stk-icon-list__icon-svg-def-a501db8\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" aria-hidden=\"true\" focusable=\"false\" data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"check-circle\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-check-circle fa-w-16\" role=\"img\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M504 256c0 136.967-111.033 248-248 248S8 392.967 8 256 119.033 8 256 8s248 111.033 248 248zM227.314 387.314l184-184c6.248-6.248 6.248-16.379 0-22.627l-22.627-22.627c-6.248-6.249-16.379-6.249-22.628 0L216 308.118l-70.059-70.059c-6.248-6.248-16.379-6.248-22.628 0l-22.627 22.627c-6.248 6.248-6.248 16.379 0 22.627l104 104c6.249 6.249 16.379 6.249 22.628.001z\"\/><\/svg><\/g><\/defs><\/svg><\/p>\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list__ul stk-block-icon-list--column\">\n<ul class=\"stk-block-icon-list__group\">\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-e207217\" data-block-id=\"e207217\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\"><a data-lasso-id=\"54923\" href=\"https:\/\/compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/full\/10.1111\/spc3.12651\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Clinical evidence shows<\/a> active listening is among the most effective catalysts for personal development and improvement.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-ed8c365\" data-block-id=\"ed8c365\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">It can help with group development.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-d416756\" data-block-id=\"d416756\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Active listening can alter people\u2019s attitudes toward themselves and others, influencing their values and beliefs.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-21ca45f\" data-block-id=\"21ca45f\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">This skill can help improve your productivity and ability to persuade and negotiate with others.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-486c459\" data-block-id=\"486c459\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Active listening can help you avoid conflict and misunderstandings.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>The good thing about this soft skill is that it can be developed with time and practice. It is about focusing and seeing things from new perspectives to expand or challenge one&#8217;s knowledge.<\/p>\n<p>With these benefits in mind, let\u2019s look at some active listening exercises you can practice to become a more effective listener.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-active-listening-exercises-for-adults-to-become-better-listeners\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Active_Listening_Exercises_for_Adults_to_Become_Better_Listeners\"\/>11 Active Listening Exercises for Adults to Become Better Listeners<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-silence-isn-t-always-golden\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Silence_Isnt_Always_Golden\"\/><a\/>1. Silence Isn\u2019t Always Golden<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Participants should break into groups of two or three for this exercise and have one dedicated speaker. Instruct the speaker to tell a significant story about their life, like a big accomplishment or challenge they have overcome.<\/p>\n<p>As they speak, have the listeners remain silent and maintain a straight facial expression.<\/p>\n<p>After the speaker tells their story, debrief by asking what this felt like for each person. Some questions to consider may include:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list stk-block-icon-list stk-block stk-33fb996\" data-block-id=\"33fb996\"><svg style=\"display:none\"><defs><g id=\"stk-icon-list__icon-svg-def-33fb996\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" data-prefix=\"fas\" data-icon=\"arrow-circle-right\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-arrow-circle-right fa-w-16\" role=\"img\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M256 8c137 0 248 111 248 248S393 504 256 504 8 393 8 256 119 8 256 8zm-28.9 143.6l75.5 72.4H120c-13.3 0-24 10.7-24 24v16c0 13.3 10.7 24 24 24h182.6l-75.5 72.4c-9.7 9.3-9.9 24.8-.4 34.3l11 10.9c9.4 9.4 24.6 9.4 33.9 0L404.3 273c9.4-9.4 9.4-24.6 0-33.9L271.6 106.3c-9.4-9.4-24.6-9.4-33.9 0l-11 10.9c-9.5 9.6-9.3 25.1.4 34.4z\"\/><\/svg><\/g><\/defs><\/svg><\/p>\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list__ul stk-block-icon-list--column\">\n<ul class=\"stk-block-icon-list__group\">\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-01ba7de\" data-block-id=\"01ba7de\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Did the speaker feel heard despite the fact that the listener wasn\u2019t engaging?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-e0a6afa\" data-block-id=\"e0a6afa\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Did they think discouraged while telling their story?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-79cd989\" data-block-id=\"79cd989\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">How was the speaker\u2019s non-verbal communication impacted?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-511e7d7\" data-block-id=\"511e7d7\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Was the silence uncomfortable?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-354811f\" data-block-id=\"354811f\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">How did the listener feel when the pressure to contribute was eliminated?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-88e17ff\" data-block-id=\"88e17ff\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Did the speaker feel more freedom to say whatever he\/she wanted?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>This exercise can help demonstrate the difference that active listening makes for both the listeners and the speakers. It can help listeners understand the value of offering appropriate feedback when someone is speaking.<\/p>\n<p>This activity can easily be applied to everyday life when conversing. It is a great reminder to interact with anyone taking the time to communicate with you to allow them to feel heard.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-cue-the-nonverbals\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Cue_the_Nonverbals\"\/><a\/>2. Cue the Nonverbals<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>For this activity, each participant will need paper and a pen. Have everyone create a list of non-verbal cues that listeners often display. Then, each player will act out one of the behaviors they identified while the other players decipher the meaning.<\/p>\n<p>While one person displays a nonverbal behavior, have everyone else write down the message.<\/p>\n<p>Some non-verbal cues may include:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list stk-block-icon-list stk-block stk-bbc4fdc\" data-block-id=\"bbc4fdc\"><svg style=\"display:none\"><defs><g id=\"stk-icon-list__icon-svg-def-bbc4fdc\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" data-prefix=\"far\" data-icon=\"hand-point-right\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-hand-point-right fa-w-16\" role=\"img\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M428.8 137.6h-86.177a115.52 115.52 0 0 0 2.176-22.4c0-47.914-35.072-83.2-92-83.2-45.314 0-57.002 48.537-75.707 78.784-7.735 12.413-16.994 23.317-25.851 33.253l-.131.146-.129.148C135.662 161.807 127.764 168 120.8 168h-2.679c-5.747-4.952-13.536-8-22.12-8H32c-17.673 0-32 12.894-32 28.8v230.4C0 435.106 14.327 448 32 448h64c8.584 0 16.373-3.048 22.12-8h2.679c28.688 0 67.137 40 127.2 40h21.299c62.542 0 98.8-38.658 99.94-91.145 12.482-17.813 18.491-40.785 15.985-62.791A93.148 93.148 0 0 0 393.152 304H428.8c45.435 0 83.2-37.584 83.2-83.2 0-45.099-38.101-83.2-83.2-83.2zm0 118.4h-91.026c12.837 14.669 14.415 42.825-4.95 61.05 11.227 19.646 1.687 45.624-12.925 53.625 6.524 39.128-10.076 61.325-50.6 61.325H248c-45.491 0-77.21-35.913-120-39.676V215.571c25.239-2.964 42.966-21.222 59.075-39.596 11.275-12.65 21.725-25.3 30.799-39.875C232.355 112.712 244.006 80 252.8 80c23.375 0 44 8.8 44 35.2 0 35.2-26.4 53.075-26.4 70.4h158.4c18.425 0 35.2 16.5 35.2 35.2 0 18.975-16.225 35.2-35.2 35.2zM88 384c0 13.255-10.745 24-24 24s-24-10.745-24-24 10.745-24 24-24 24 10.745 24 24z\"\/><\/svg><\/g><\/defs><\/svg><\/p>\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list__ul stk-block-icon-list--column\">\n<ul class=\"stk-block-icon-list__group\">\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-1a9fbeb\" data-block-id=\"1a9fbeb\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Slouching in a chair with crossed arms<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-5893e6c\" data-block-id=\"5893e6c\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Sitting on the edge of a chair<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-88b798e\" data-block-id=\"88b798e\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-bcf0724\" data-block-id=\"bcf0724\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-ad75f4c\" data-block-id=\"ad75f4c\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-2160327\" data-block-id=\"2160327\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-8b5ac3b\" data-block-id=\"8b5ac3b\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Resting your face in one hand<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-9614f18\" data-block-id=\"9614f18\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-9ebb617\" data-block-id=\"9ebb617\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">Tapping your fingers on a table<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-cf0ac88\" data-block-id=\"cf0ac88\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-9cc85f5\" data-block-id=\"9cc85f5\"\/>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>After each round, ask the participants to share how each nonverbal cue made them feel. Then, talk about how a nonverbal cue could communicate a message that is even stronger than words. Have participants share their past experiences of how nonverbal cues have impacted their communication.<\/p>\n<p>This exercise helps participants identify nonverbal communication cues and can help trigger people\u2019s memories during future conversations so they avoid displaying these behaviors.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-listen-and-repeat\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Listen_and_Repeat\"\/><a\/>3. Listen and Repeat<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>People are often eager to \u201cget a word in\u201d when listening to someone else talk. For this activity, divide a group into pairs and have each person tell their partner about something that is important to them for about three minutes while the other person listens quietly.<\/p>\n<p>After the speaker has finished, have the listener paraphrase what they heard in their own words.<\/p>\n<p>The speaker can then clarify, correct, or confirm the listener\u2019s interpretation.<\/p>\n<p>This game has a few objectives. First, it can help listeners build patience as they cannot interrupt the speaker. Second, it can help train participants to stop thinking about what they want to say in response and focus solely on the speaker\u2019s message. In doing so, they will be able to demonstrate an understanding of what the speaker said.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-i-respect-your-viewpoint\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_I_Respect_Your_Viewpoint\"\/><a\/>4. I Respect Your Viewpoint<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>This activity aims to help people practice restraint in reacting to others\u2019 opposing viewpoints and keep an open mind.<\/p>\n<p>This should not involve an argument or confrontation\u2013it should be a friendly conversation to help players get into the habit of listening unbiasedly, even when speaking with someone who has a different viewpoint than your own.<\/p>\n<p>For this exercise, you will need two people with opposing viewpoints on a subject. Each participant must patiently listen to the other\u2019s point of view and try to learn and truly understand how their partner reached their conclusions.<\/p>\n<p>After each participant explains their point of view, the other person is then given a chance to ask relevant questions to help further their understanding of the opposing viewpoint. Some questions that demonstrate active listening could include:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list stk-block-icon-list stk-block stk-4e7d7cb\" data-block-id=\"4e7d7cb\"><svg style=\"display:none\"><defs><g id=\"stk-icon-list__icon-svg-def-4e7d7cb\"><svg xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" data-prefix=\"far\" data-icon=\"hand-point-right\" class=\"svg-inline--fa fa-hand-point-right fa-w-16\" role=\"img\" viewbox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path fill=\"currentColor\" d=\"M428.8 137.6h-86.177a115.52 115.52 0 0 0 2.176-22.4c0-47.914-35.072-83.2-92-83.2-45.314 0-57.002 48.537-75.707 78.784-7.735 12.413-16.994 23.317-25.851 33.253l-.131.146-.129.148C135.662 161.807 127.764 168 120.8 168h-2.679c-5.747-4.952-13.536-8-22.12-8H32c-17.673 0-32 12.894-32 28.8v230.4C0 435.106 14.327 448 32 448h64c8.584 0 16.373-3.048 22.12-8h2.679c28.688 0 67.137 40 127.2 40h21.299c62.542 0 98.8-38.658 99.94-91.145 12.482-17.813 18.491-40.785 15.985-62.791A93.148 93.148 0 0 0 393.152 304H428.8c45.435 0 83.2-37.584 83.2-83.2 0-45.099-38.101-83.2-83.2-83.2zm0 118.4h-91.026c12.837 14.669 14.415 42.825-4.95 61.05 11.227 19.646 1.687 45.624-12.925 53.625 6.524 39.128-10.076 61.325-50.6 61.325H248c-45.491 0-77.21-35.913-120-39.676V215.571c25.239-2.964 42.966-21.222 59.075-39.596 11.275-12.65 21.725-25.3 30.799-39.875C232.355 112.712 244.006 80 252.8 80c23.375 0 44 8.8 44 35.2 0 35.2-26.4 53.075-26.4 70.4h158.4c18.425 0 35.2 16.5 35.2 35.2 0 18.975-16.225 35.2-35.2 35.2zM88 384c0 13.255-10.745 24-24 24s-24-10.745-24-24 10.745-24 24-24 24 10.745 24 24z\"\/><\/svg><\/g><\/defs><\/svg><\/p>\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list__ul stk-block-icon-list--column\">\n<ul class=\"stk-block-icon-list__group\">\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-a26dfd8\" data-block-id=\"a26dfd8\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">What brought you to that conclusion?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-c25f105\" data-block-id=\"c25f105\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-548b077\" data-block-id=\"548b077\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">What do you mean by that?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-01d2bea\" data-block-id=\"01d2bea\"\/>\n<li class=\"wp-block-stackable-icon-list-item stk-block-icon-list-item stk-block stk-1dcbd63\" data-block-id=\"1dcbd63\">\n<div class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__content\"><span class=\"stk--svg-wrapper\"\/><span class=\"stk-block-icon-list-item__text\">What I\u2019m hearing you say is\u2026<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Completing this activity should help you improve your ability to have meaningful conversations by encouraging you to listen to learn about a different perspective actively.<\/p>\n<p>To listen effectively, keep an open mind and don\u2019t focus on your thoughts or feelings about the topic\u2014pay attention to what your partner is saying so you can effectively hear what they\u2019re saying. Using this skill in future conversations can help reduce conflict and increase understanding.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-the-drawing-game\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_The_Drawing_Game\"\/><a\/>5. The Drawing Game<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>This activity is good practice for future situations where a listener can\u2019t respond to the speaker, perhaps in a lecture or if the speaker is recorded.<\/p>\n<p>For this activity, have a leader give verbal instructions to participants detailing how to draw something without allowing the listeners to ask any questions. The object of the picture can be anything, but the more instructions involved, the better.<\/p>\n<p>Some instructions could be, \u201cdraw three squares with one star on top of the first square, then draw a circle next to the star\u2026\u201d and so on. This activity will demonstrate how important it is to listen clearly when someone is trying to communicate something to you, and you can\u2019t ask questions in return.<\/p>\n<p>Ensure the game is challenging enough that participants must concentrate very well to follow the instructions and correctly draw the picture. The activity can become increasingly difficult with every instruction, so they won\u2019t correctly complete the exercise unless the participants actively listen.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-right-vs-wrong\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Right_vs_Wrong\"\/><a\/>6. Right vs. Wrong<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>Active listening is important in this activity because players identify truths and lies on a subject. This translates into real life, as active listeners must pay attention and listen with a discerning ear when gathering information from others.<\/p>\n<p>This activity requires one speaker and a small group of listeners. The speaker can pick any subject that interests the group and then talk about it for about one minute.<\/p>\n<p>The speaker needs to be knowledgeable about the topic because they\u2019re tasked with telling the group several facts about it\u2013but the catch is that the speaker will also make a handful of false statements about it.<\/p>\n<p>The players must listen carefully to catch the untrue statements the speaker says. The speaker should only say each sentence once, so it\u2019s essential for the players to listen very carefully.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on the topic, players may need to concentrate on paying attention, using their brain capacity to think about the subject, and listening for factual information. Try choosing the topic as a group so everyone can recognize the sentence errors.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-storytime\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Storytime\"\/><a\/>7. Storytime<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>For this activity, one person narrates a story while everyone else listens. Once the story is over, each participant is given a set of questions about it, ranging from easy to complex. The group has to answer the questions based on the story they heard.<\/p>\n<p>This activity will show if each person listened well enough to understand and remember the story they were just told.<\/p>\n<p>Another way to play this game is to play a short video or podcast and then have the participants rewrite the story in their own words, including as many details as possible.<\/p>\n<p>This activity translates into everyday life because it provides active listening practice to \u201d teach back\u201d the story. The teach-back learning method helps people understand the information they\u2019re given.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Intentional_Contradiction\"\/>8. Intentional Contradiction\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>You can also use the intentional contradiction activity, a more adult-appropriate version of the classic kids game called Simon Says. You and your team can practice your active listening skills in a small or large group, making this activity applicable in different settings.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Plus, you can use this activity as an icebreaker, too!\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how to play intentional contradiction:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\" style=\"list-style-type:1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pick a team leader and let your team form a circle around the leader. You can also have one leader per round, giving others a chance to \u201clead\u201d the activity.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>The leader gives the team two actions when certain items are mentioned. For example, the leader will tell the team that when they say \u201cwater,\u201d the participants must raise their left hand, while the participants must put their right foot forward when the leader says \u201ctea.\u201d The leader also needs to do these actions when they say those terms.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>The goal of the activity is contradiction, so the participants need to do the opposite\u2014put their right foot forward when the word \u201cwater\u201d is mentioned and raise their left hand when the word \u201d tea\u201d is mentioned.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>So, the leader can start just speaking the words and doing the actions as instructed, and the participants need to do the opposite. Whoever doesn\u2019t contradict the team leader, exits the game (or doesn\u2019t become team leader for X rounds). Or the leader can weave a story and do the actions when the words \u201cwater\u201d and \u201ctea\u201d are mentioned.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The participants need to listen actively and closely and pay attention so they can contradict the leader\u2019s actions and win (be the last team member standing to become the next leader or win a prize).\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Train_of_Words\"\/>9. Train of Words\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>This activity reminds me of a version of the kids\u2019 game \u201ctelephone\u201d or \u201cChinese whispers.\u201d It focuses on active listening as a skill because the participant(s) need to pay close attention and practice their summarizing skills.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The active listening activity is called the train of words or the listening chain, and here\u2019s how you set it up:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\" style=\"list-style-type:1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Let all the participants sit or stand in a circle.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Choose the first participant who is interested in a topic. You can let them choose a topic on their own or let them draw a post-it note (with a topic) from a hat.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>They must whisper a sentence or two about the topic to the person to their left (or right \u2013 decide if you want to go clockwise or anticlockwise around the circle).<\/li>\n<li>The second person then whispers the sentence or two to the next person, and so on until the circle is complete.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>The last person needs to tell everyone what was shared with them, and it is about 99% likely that the original sentence&#8217;s meaning will be distorted to an extent.\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>A variation of this listening game is to have the participants spread out across a large hall. One person goes to the next and shares the story that the first participant told the second team member.<\/p>\n<p>At the end, have the participants form a circle and let the last participant share the story they heard as accurately as possible.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Background_Noise_Listening\"\/>10. Background Noise Listening<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s usually easier to listen and pay attention when it&#8217;s quiet, but when background noise is added to the mix, it really tests your listening skills. That\u2019s exactly the purpose of this active listening activity.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This activity requires a large group; alternatively, you can record and\/or play background noise over a sound system.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how to do this activity:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\" style=\"list-style-type:1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>In a group of 15 to 20 participants, choose six to eight to be the noisemakers. Instruct them to make as much noise as possible, potentially even starting with less noise and upping the ante.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Choose a speaker who\u2019ll talk about an interesting topic.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Once the speaker starts speaking, the noisemakers need to make noise while the rest of the participants try to listen to what the speaker is saying. The listeners can take notes of what the speaker is saying, or you can make the activity more challenging and have the listeners close their eyes so they can\u2019t infer meaning from the speaker\u2019s non-verbal cues.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>At the end, ask the listeners to share what they heard.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"11_Blindfold_Obstacle_Course\"\/>11. Blindfold Obstacle Course<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h3>\n<p>The blindfold obstacle course, or blindfold walk, is another excellent active listening exercise since it teaches communication and listening skills.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You can use an ample indoor or outdoor space for the activity, and obstacles are a must.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Here are the instructions for the blindfold obstacle course or walk:\u00a0<\/p>\n<ol start=\"1\" style=\"list-style-type:1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Choose an area with natural obstacles or put obstacles in the space the participants need to navigate.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>Pair up the participants.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>One person in each pair needs to be blindfolded.\u00a0<\/li>\n<li>The person who isn\u2019t blindfolded will instruct the blindfolded team member on how to navigate the obstacle course safely.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The point is that you want the blindfolded to safely navigate the course without obstacles and the non-blindfolded to instruct and guide their partners clearly.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts-on-active-listening-exercises\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Final_Thoughts_on_Active_Listening_Exercises\"\/><a\/>Final Thoughts on Active Listening Exercises<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"\/><\/h2>\n<p>So there you have it, 11 active listening exercises that you can do to help you sharpen your listening skills. <\/p>\n<p>Hopefully, you can integrate some of these activities into your schedule so you can work on becoming an active listener and help others do the same.<\/p>\n<p>For more activities for successful listening, check out these articles:<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:22% auto\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/connie-profile-pic.png\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1000\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/connie-profile-pic.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/noscript><\/figure>\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-normal-font-size\"><strong><em>Connie Mathers <\/em><\/strong><em>is a professional editor and freelance writer. She holds a Bachelor&#8217;s Degree in Marketing and a Master\u2019s Degree in Social Work. When she is not writing, Connie is either spending time with her daughter and two dogs, running, or working at her full-time job as a social worker in Richmond, VA.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults.jpg\" data-lasso-id=\"54927\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" alt=\" Discover simple yet powerful exercises to sharpen your active listening skills and improve your relationships. These practical tips will help you become a better communicator in both personal and professional settings.  Active Listening Skills | Improve Communication | Listening Exercises Tips | Relationship Building Techniques | Effective Listening Strategies | Communication Growth | Personal Development Ideas | Professional Listening Skills | Becoming A Better Listener\" class=\"wp-image-34800\" style=\"width:637px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults.jpg 735w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults-683x1024.jpg\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.developgoodhabits.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/active-listening-exercise-adults-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\" Discover simple yet powerful exercises to sharpen your active listening skills and improve your relationships. These practical tips will help you become a better communicator in both personal and professional settings.  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