{"id":10713,"date":"2025-05-17T16:20:58","date_gmt":"2025-05-17T20:20:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/marie-howes-spare-stunning-poem-the-maples-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2025-05-17T16:20:58","modified_gmt":"2025-05-17T20:20:58","slug":"marie-howes-spare-stunning-poem-the-maples-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/marie-howes-spare-stunning-poem-the-maples-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Marie Howe\u2019s Spare, Stunning Poem \u201cThe Maples\u201d \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/New-Selected-Poems-Marie-Howe\/dp\/1324075031\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"479\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?fit=320%2C479&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"cover alignright size-medium\" alt=\"How Should You Live Your Life: Marie Howe\u2019s Spare, Stunning Poem \u201cThe Maples\u201d\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?w=802&amp;ssl=1 802w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?resize=320%2C479&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?resize=600%2C898&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?resize=240%2C359&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/mariehowe_newandselected.jpg?resize=768%2C1149&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cJudging whether life is or is not worth living amounts to answering the fundamental question of philosophy,\u201d Albert Camus wrote in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/11\/07\/camus-myth-of-sisyphus-suicide\/\">one of the most sobering opening pages in literature<\/a>. So here you are, having answered affirmatively, consciously or not, now facing the second fundamental question that ripples out of the first: How shall you live?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the sharpest, most recurrent shock of being alive is the realization that no one can give you a ready-made answer \u2014 not your parents or your teachers, not scripture or Stoicism, not psychotherapy or psilocybin, not the old dharma teacher or the new pope. Only life itself. Only what Seamus Heaney called <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/01\/19\/seamus-heaney-commencement\/\">\u201cyour own secret knowledge,\u201d<\/a> which you may spend your life learning, but which is always whispering to you if you get still enough and quiet enough to discern its voice through the clangor of confusion and the din of shoulds.<\/p>\n<p>In this sense, Nietzsche was right to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2015\/09\/30\/nietzsche-find-yourself-schopenhauer-as-educator\/\">caution<\/a> that \u201cno one can build you the bridge on which you, and only you, must cross the river of life.\u201d In another, he was wrong in depicting life as a river you stand on the banks watching and waiting to cross without getting wet. No: You are the water. You are a molecule afloat among all the other molecules of everything else alive, the flow of life living itself through you, an answer complete unto itself.<\/p>\n<p>This is why I\u2019ll take, over all the world\u2019s philosophy combined, Marie Howe\u2019s spare and stunning poem \u201cThe Maples,\u201d found in her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/New-Selected-Poems-Marie-Howe\/dp\/1324075031\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>New and Selected Poems<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/search.worldcat.org\/title\/1379265778\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>) \u2014 that benediction of a book that won her the Pulitzer Prize \u2014 read here by sapling-poet Rose Hanzlik to the sound of Debussy: <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;The Maples&quot; by Marie Howe (read by Rose Hanzlik)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cmQqSjxyNPA?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>THE MAPLES<\/strong><br \/><em>by Marie Howe<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I asked the stand of maples behind the house,<br \/>How should I live my life?<\/p>\n<p>They said, shhh shhh shhh\u2026<\/p>\n<p>How should I live, I asked, and the leaves seemed to ripple and gleam.<\/p>\n<p>A bird called from a branch in its own tongue,<br \/>And from a branch, across the yard, another bird answered.<\/p>\n<p>A squirrel scrambled up a trunk<br \/>then along the length of a branch.<\/p>\n<p>Stand still, I thought,<br \/>See how long you can bear that.<\/p>\n<p>Try to stand still, if only for a few moments,<br \/>drinking light\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0breathing<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Couple with two kindred answers to the same question in the same medium \u2014 Mary Oliver\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/09\/18\/i-go-down-to-the-shore-mary-oliver\/\">\u201cI Go Down to the Shore\u201d<\/a> and Anna Belle Kaufmann\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/02\/03\/emily-levine-cold-solace-anna-belle-kaufman\/\">\u201cCold Solace\u201d<\/a> \u2014 then revisit Marie\u2019s timeless <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/04\/04\/marie-howe-hymn\/\">hymn to being human<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cJudging whether life is or is not worth living amounts to answering the fundamental question of philosophy,\u201d Albert Camus wrote in one of the most [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10511,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10511"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}