{"id":10973,"date":"2025-06-23T16:59:04","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T20:59:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/three-poems-for-trusting-time-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2025-06-23T16:59:04","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T20:59:04","slug":"three-poems-for-trusting-time-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/three-poems-for-trusting-time-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Three Poems for Trusting Time \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>If you want to befriend time \u2014 which is how you come to befriend life \u2014 turn to stone. <\/p>\n<p>Climb a mountain and listen to the conversation between eons encoded in each stripe of rock. <\/p>\n<p>Walk a beach and comb your fingers through the golden dust that was once a mountain. <\/p>\n<p>Pick up a perfect oval pebble and feel its mute assurance that time can grind down even the heaviest boulder, smooth even the sharpest edge. <\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_76830\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/05\/12\/sophie-blackall-things-to-look-forward-to\/\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?resize=680%2C808&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"808\" class=\"size-full wp-image-76830\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?resize=320%2C380&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?resize=600%2C713&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?resize=240%2C285&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/sophieblackall_thingstolookforwardto_Pebbles.jpg?resize=768%2C912&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Art by Sophie Blackall from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/05\/12\/sophie-blackall-things-to-look-forward-to\/\"><em>Things to Look Forward to<\/em><\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Rising forty feet above the rocky cliffs of Carmel is a great poem of gravity and granite that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/robinson-jeffers\/\">Robinson Jeffers<\/a> (January 10, 1887\u2013January 20, 1962), poet laureate of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/06\/14\/the-beginning-and-the-end-robinson-jeffers\/\">the co-creation of time and mind<\/a>, composed with his wife Una and their twin sons.<\/p>\n<p>A decade before Carl Jung built his famous stone tower in Zurich and conceptualized the realized self as an elemental stone, Jeffers apprenticed himself to a local stonemason to build <a href=\"https:\/\/www.torhouse.org\" target=\"_blank\">Tor House<\/a> and Hawk Tower. As this rocky planet was being unworlded by its first world war, he set about making \u201cstone love stone.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Seeing stonecutters as \u201cforedefeated challengers of oblivion\u201d and poets as stonecutters of the psyche, he went on hauling enormous slabs of granite up from the shore, carrying time itself, cupping <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/09\/18\/chronodiversity\/\">its twelve consolations<\/a> in his mortal hands, writing about what he touched and what touched him.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=680%2C1010&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"1010\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85448\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=320%2C475&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=600%2C891&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=240%2C356&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=768%2C1140&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/RobinsonJeffers_HawkTower.jpg?resize=1034%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1034w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hawk Tower<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>OH, LOVELY ROCK<\/strong><br \/><em>by Robinson Jeffers<\/em><\/p>\n<p>We stayed the night in the pathless gorge of Ventana Creek, up the east fork.<br \/>The rock walls and the mountain ridges hung forest on forest above our heads, maple and redwood,<br \/>Laurel, oak, madrone, up to the high and slender Santa Lucian firs that stare up the cataracts<br \/>Of slide-rock to the star-color precipices.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0We lay on gravel and kept a little camp-fire for warmth.<br \/>Past midnight only two or three coals glowed red in the cooling darkness; I laid a clutch of dead bay-leaves<br \/>On the ember ends and felted dry sticks across them and lay down again. The revived flame<br \/>Lighted my sleeping son\u2019s face and his companion\u2019s, and the vertical face of the great gorge-wall<br \/>Across the stream. Light leaves overhead danced in the fire\u2019s breath, tree-trunks were seen: it was the rock wall<br \/>That fascinated my eyes and mind. Nothing strange: light-gray diorite with two or three slanting seams in it,<br \/>Smooth-polished by the endless attrition of slides and floods; no fern nor lichen, pure naked rock\u2026as if I were<br \/>Seeing rock for the first time. As if I were seeing through the flame-lit surface into the real and bodily<br \/>And living rock. Nothing strange\u2026 I cannot<br \/>Tell you how strange: the silent passion, the deep nobility and childlike loveliness: this fate going on<br \/>Outside our fates. It is here in the mountain like a grave smiling child. I shall die, and my boys<br \/>Will live and die, our world will go on through its rapid agonies of change and discovery; this age will die,<br \/>And wolves have howled in the snow around a new Bethlehem: this rock will be here, grave, earnest, not passive: the energies<br \/>That are its atoms will still be bearing the whole mountain above: and I, many packed centuries ago,<br \/>Felt its intense reality with love and wonder, this lonely rock.\n<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>A generation later, another great poet displaced from the bedrock of belonging by another world war tried to make sense of being human by turning to stone:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>STONE<\/strong><br \/><em>by Charles Simic<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Go inside a stone<br \/>That would be my way.<br \/>Let somebody else become a dove<br \/>Or gnash with a tiger\u2019s tooth.<br \/>I am happy to be a stone. <\/p>\n<p>From the outside the stone is a riddle:<br \/>No one knows how to answer it.<br \/>Yet within, it must be cool and quiet<br \/>Even though a cow steps on it full weight,<br \/>Even though a child throws it in a river,<br \/>The stone sinks, slow, unperturbed<br \/>To the river bottom<br \/>Where the fishes come to knock on it<br \/>And listen.<\/p>\n<p>I have seen sparks fly out<br \/>When two stones are rubbed.<br \/>So perhaps it is not dark inside after all;<br \/>Perhaps there is a moon shining<br \/>From somewhere, as though behind a hill \u2014<br \/>Just enough light to make out<br \/>The strange writings, the star charts<br \/>On the inner walls.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>And although we are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/08\/17\/turning-to-stone-marcia-bjornerud\/\">\u201ccreatures shaped by the planet\u2019s rocky logic,\u201d<\/a> we are also creatures shaped by the myriad mercies of time, saved over and over by the leap beyond logic that is trusting time. <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Forgiveness&quot; by Maria Popova (read by Nick Cave)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/lXfvRVrPPbE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>FORGIVENESS<\/strong><br \/><em>by Maria Popova<\/em><\/p>\n<p>May the tide<br \/>never tire of its tender toil<br \/>how over and over<br \/>it forgives the Moon<br \/>the daily exile<br \/>and returns to turn<br \/>mountains into sand<br \/>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0as if to say,<br \/>you too can have<br \/>this homecoming<br \/>you too possess<br \/>this elemental power<br \/>of turning<br \/>the stone in the heart<br \/>into golden dust.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to befriend time \u2014 which is how you come to befriend life \u2014 turn to stone. Climb a mountain and listen to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10974,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10973","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10973","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10973"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10973\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10974"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10973"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10973"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10973"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}