{"id":12377,"date":"2026-02-06T20:48:51","date_gmt":"2026-02-07T00:48:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/voluntary-stories-seths-blog\/"},"modified":"2026-02-06T20:48:51","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T00:48:51","slug":"voluntary-stories-seths-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/voluntary-stories-seths-blog\/","title":{"rendered":"Voluntary stories | Seth&#8217;s Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The narrative we run in our head is a choice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It might or might not be based on objective reality and verified history. Doesn\u2019t matter, it\u2019s still a choice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are millions of ways we can remind ourselves about the events of our lives and the systems we live in. But in this moment (and the next) we\u2019ll choose just one or two to rehearse and allow it to alter our decisions, outlook and interactions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So the key question is simple:<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Is it helping?<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s clear that the story is a choice. You can change it. Not all at once, not easily, but of course, we change our focus. This takes effort, and it\u2019s worthwhile.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And since we can change it, it\u2019s a tool. If it\u2019s not helping, we can change it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">200 years ago, Jeremy Bentham wrote a pamphlet on how we use words to tell ourselves stories. It\u2019s archaic and dense, so few read it any longer. I asked Claude to give us a summary.<\/p>\n<p class=\"byline\">\n\t\t\t\t<span class=\"date\">February 6, 2026<\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script>\n\t\t\/\/ Delaying FB pixel script to load after 4 seconds to not affect on initial page load.\n\t\tsetTimeout( function () {\n\t\t\t!function ( f, b, e, v, n, t, s ) {\n\t\t\t\tif ( f.fbq ) {\n\t\t\t\t\treturn;\n\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\tn = f.fbq = function () {\n\t\t\t\t\tn.callMethod ? n.callMethod.apply( n, arguments ) : n.queue.push( arguments )\n\t\t\t\t};\n\t\t\t\tif ( !f._fbq ) {\n\t\t\t\t\tf._fbq = n;\n\t\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\tn.push = n;\n\t\t\t\tn.loaded = !0;\n\t\t\t\tn.version = '2.0';\n\t\t\t\tn.queue = [];\n\t\t\t\tt = b.createElement( e );\n\t\t\t\tt.async = !0;\n\t\t\t\tt.src = v;\n\t\t\t\ts = b.getElementsByTagName( e )[0];\n\t\t\t\ts.parentNode.insertBefore( t, s )\n\t\t\t}( window, document, 'script',\n\t\t\t\t'https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js' );\n\t\t\tfbq( 'init', '221651354884486' );\n\t\t\tfbq( 'track', 'PageView' );\n\t\t}, 4000 );\n\t<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The narrative we run in our head is a choice. 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