{"id":12413,"date":"2026-02-13T20:52:51","date_gmt":"2026-02-14T00:52:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/how-to-use-determination-day-to-get-failed-resolutions-back-on-track\/"},"modified":"2026-02-13T20:52:51","modified_gmt":"2026-02-14T00:52:51","slug":"how-to-use-determination-day-to-get-failed-resolutions-back-on-track","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/how-to-use-determination-day-to-get-failed-resolutions-back-on-track\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Use Determination Day to Get Failed Resolutions Back on Track"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"60396\" class=\"elementor elementor-60396\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7415ea04 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7415ea04\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-32257b7c\" data-id=\"32257b7c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0830562 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0830562\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">An earlier version of this article appeared on February 15, 2022<br \/>\n<\/h2>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18fc5946 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"18fc5946\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p>Research shows that by February 28\u2014what might be called \u201cDiscouragement Day\u201d\u2014many people have abandoned their New Year\u2019s resolutions. \u00a0<u><\/u><u><\/u><\/p>\n<p>Instead of a time to feel discouraged, it can be a time to re-evaluate, to do the hard work of asking ourselves, \u201cIf something isn\u2019t working, why not?\u201d <u><\/u><u><\/u><\/p>\n<p>If you started working on\u00a0an aim in January and have slowed down or stopped,\u00a0<strong>consider<\/strong><span class=\"m_7061423829295146037gmail-apple-converted-space\"><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/span><span class=\"m_7061423829295146037gmail-apple-converted-space\"><b>using <\/b><\/span><strong>February 28 <\/strong><strong>as &#8220;Determination Day.&#8221; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You can succeed by failing<\/strong>; if you\u2019ve found that one approach doesn\u2019t work, that\u2019s useful information. Now you can try something else, and stay determined to meet your aim.<u><\/u><u><\/u><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c39bc37 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"c39bc37\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=1jAnVW8TCxI&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f620426 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f620426\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h2>A key reason resolutions fail<\/h2>\n<p>Many resolutions fail because they&#8217;re too vague to act on. &#8220;Get healthier&#8221; or &#8220;be more organized&#8221; sound good, but they don&#8217;t tell you what to do today.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>A well-defined resolution should answer three questions: What exactly am I doing? How will I know I&#8217;m doing it? How often will I do it?<\/p>\n<p>Instead of &#8220;exercise more,&#8221; try &#8220;walk 26 minutes every morning before work.&#8221; Instead of &#8220;read more,&#8221; try &#8220;read for 30 minutes before bed on weeknights.&#8221; The specific version gives you something concrete to schedule, track, and adjust.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/resource\/habit-how-to-getting-specific\/\">Download a free worksheet<\/a> to help you craft a specific resolution.<\/p>\n<h2>How to get back on track<\/h2>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve clarified what you&#8217;re aiming for, consider how to adjust your approach:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Consider what didn&#8217;t work for you, and why.<\/strong> Did you resolve to write in the morning but you&#8217;re <a href=\"\/2021\/09\/are-you-a-lark-or-an-owl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">not a morning person<\/a>? Read before bed when you can&#8217;t keep your eyes open? Exercise on your own when you might benefit from the accountability of a partner or class?\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reflect on the benefits.<\/strong>\u00a0To keep ourselves energized, it\u2019s useful to think of a habit\u2019s rewards. Regular exercise boosts energy throughout the day, improves nighttime sleep, and makes it easier to sit through endless video calls.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Identify new strategies.<\/strong> Schedule time to write at night after everyone&#8217;s in bed (<a href=\"\/2016\/12\/want-to-keep-a-new-years-resolution-how-to-make-it-right-for-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Strategy of Distinctions<\/a>). Read in the morning with your first cup of coffee (<a href=\"\/2014\/11\/video-try-pairing-one-of-the-easiest-ways-to-strengthen-habits\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Strategy of Pairing<\/a>). Talk to a friend on the phone on your daily walk (<a href=\"\/2009\/10\/tips-to-hold-yourself-accountable-for-keeping-your-resolutions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Strategy of Accountability<\/a>). Look over my list of <a href=\"\/2014\/07\/my-new-book-about-habit-formation-as-distilled-in-21-sentences\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">21 Strategies for Habit Change<\/a> for more ideas to try.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Make an investment.<\/strong> Beautiful tools or gear can make your habit more convenient or more enjoyable to keep, and for some people, investing in an activity makes them more likely to stick with it. Would investing in a better pair of athletic shoes, <a href=\"https:\/\/the-happiness-project.com\/collections\/home-goods\/products\/hay-pc-portable-lamp\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a reading light<\/a>, or high-quality headphones make your habit more pleasant?<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u201cDon\u2019t let the perfect be the enemy of the good<\/strong>.\u201d Thank you, Voltaire. If you can&#8217;t face cleaning out the attic, tackle one bureau drawer. If you break your resolution today, try again tomorrow. Give yourself permission to <a href=\"\/podcast-episode\/podcast-29-why-elizabeth-and-i-lower-the-bar-use-the-clean-slate-to-change-habits-and-try-to-stop-wasting-food\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">lower the bar<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>When to quit your resolution<\/h2>\n<p>Determination Day doesn&#8217;t mean doubling down no matter what. Sometimes the best move is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reels\/C3bIZP8xIsu\/\">letting go of something that isn&#8217;t not working<\/a>. If you&#8217;ve tried multiple approaches and an aim consistently makes you miserable, that&#8217;s important information. <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/articles\/3-reasons-to-give-up-your-new-years-resolution\/\">Quitting can free up energy for other aims<\/a> that serve you better.<\/p>\n<h2>Getting back on track<\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;re still excited about your aims or resolutions and want to get back on track, explore the <a href=\"\/getting-started-habits\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Habits Hub<\/a>\u00a0to find new strategies to experiment with, or use <a href=\"https:\/\/thehappierapp.com\/?utm_campaign=article-determination-day&amp;utm_source=gr&amp;utm_medium=web\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the <i>Happier<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/16.0.1\/72x72\/2122.png\" alt=\"\u2122\" class=\"wp-smiley\" style=\"height: 1em;max-height: 1em\" \/><\/i> app<\/a>\u00a0to add new habit-building tools to your toolkit.<\/p>\n<p>There are still 10 months in the year\u2014plenty of time for you to make progress.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<p>The post <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/articles\/slowing-down-on-your-resolutions-use-determination-day-to-re-evaluate\/\">How to Use Determination Day to Get Failed Resolutions Back on Track<\/a> appeared first on <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\">Gretchen Rubin<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><script async defer src=\"https:\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An earlier version of this article appeared on February 15, 2022 Research shows that by February 28\u2014what might be called \u201cDiscouragement Day\u201d\u2014many people have abandoned [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12058,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-habits"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12413","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12413"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12413\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12058"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}