{"id":12663,"date":"2026-03-26T22:05:19","date_gmt":"2026-03-27T02:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-tim-ferriss-show-transcripts-qa-with-tim-the-upcoming-ai-tsunami-and-building-offline-advantage-book-recommendations-spotting-psychedelic-red-flags-courage-as-a-learnable-skill-and\/"},"modified":"2026-03-26T22:05:19","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T02:05:19","slug":"the-tim-ferriss-show-transcripts-qa-with-tim-the-upcoming-ai-tsunami-and-building-offline-advantage-book-recommendations-spotting-psychedelic-red-flags-courage-as-a-learnable-skill-and","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-tim-ferriss-show-transcripts-qa-with-tim-the-upcoming-ai-tsunami-and-building-offline-advantage-book-recommendations-spotting-psychedelic-red-flags-courage-as-a-learnable-skill-and\/","title":{"rendered":"The Tim Ferriss Show Transcripts: Q&#038;A with Tim \u2014 The Upcoming AI Tsunami and Building Offline Advantage, Book Recommendations, Spotting Psychedelic Red Flags, Courage as a Learnable Skill, and More (#859)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Please enjoy this transcript of <a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/2026\/03\/26\/qa-with-tim-ai-tsunami\/\">another in-between-isode<\/a>, with one of my favorite formats: the good old-fashioned Q&amp;A.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/2026\/03\/26\/qa-with-tim-ai-tsunami\/#:~:text=SELECTED%20LINKS%20FROM%20THE%20EPISODE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Books, people, tools, and resources mentioned in the interview<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/2026\/03\/26\/qa-with-tim-ai-tsunami-transcript\/#Q&amp;A-ai-tsunami-legal-conditions-transcript\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Legal conditions\/copyright information<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"podcast-player\">\n<div class=\"podcast-player-inner-wrap\">\n<p>Q&amp;A with Tim \u2014 The Upcoming AI Tsunami and Building Offline Advantage, Book Recommendations, Spotting Psychedelic Red Flags, Courage as a Learnable Skill, and More<\/p>\n<p><noscript><iframe src=\"https:\/\/www.art19.com\/shows\/58dacbdc-646e-4585-9914-19c3de11d1ba\/episodes\/0faa3224-9c73-4a68-b6ac-0e4aed23ced8\/embed?type=micro\" style=\"width: 100%; height: 30px; border: 0 none;\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/noscript><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Additional podcast platforms<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Listen to this episode on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/859-q-a-with-tim-the-upcoming-ai-tsunami\/id863897795?i=1000757505507\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Apple Podcasts<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/episode\/6m8NLk77N1nDmYm8Gzej2Y?si=aN7lhYB7QLSEanWU7hXBDQ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Spotify<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/overcast.fm\/+AAKebsAZcqY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Overcast<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcastaddict.com\/podcast\/2031148#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Podcast Addict<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/pca.st\/timferriss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Pocket Casts<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/castbox.fm\/channel\/id1059468?country=us\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Castbox<\/a>,\u00a0<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/music.youtube.com\/playlist?list=PLuu6fDad2eJyWPm9dQfuorm2uuYHBZDCB\">YouTube Music<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/music.amazon.com\/podcasts\/9814f3cc-1dc5-4003-b816-44a8eb6bf666\/the-tim-ferriss-show\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon Music<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.audible.com\/podcast\/The-Tim-Ferriss-Show\/B08K58QX5W\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Audible<\/a>, or on your favorite podcast platform.<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p>Transcripts may contain a few typos. With many episodes lasting 2+ hours, it can be difficult to catch minor errors. Enjoy!<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n<p><strong>Tim Ferriss: <\/strong>All right. Hello, everybody. Thanks for making it. We\u2019ve got lots of questions that were pre-submitted. There\u2019s a lot to cover, and I will begin with saying there are many, many questions about AI. It is certainly the topic of the hour and I would like to provide a few caveats and I\u2019ll do that by leading in with a question. How many of you invested in or even know of, Diamond Rio? Diamond Rio? Anyone? MPMan F10? Come on, now. You guys must remember MPMan F10. These are MP3 players that predated the iPod. And Jobs famously changed it from \u201cspeeds and feeds\u201d into \u201c1,000 songs in your pocket.\u201d Also, had the industrial design engineering supply chain wizardry, along with his marketing genius, of course, all to bring to bear on this thing called the iPod, which then produced, you guessed it, some of you wizened, gray-haired folks, but youngsters not realizing iPod leads to podcasting.<\/p>\n<p>Yes. That was the genesis of this podcasting term. And the reason I bring this up is that I do not consider myself a bleeding edge investor or even in a lot of instances, a bleeding edge user. I like to be on the dull edge. And I would say that the iPod is a great example of that because if you looked at some of the technological trend lines, you looked at a few different pieces of hardware that had somewhat de-risked solid-state MP3 players. The timing was right for something to be taken from very, very niche and unwieldy to mainstream. And certainly, we\u2019ve seen that unfold. And I view AI very similarly. And in some respects, it is very amenable to that approach because things are changing so incredibly quickly. If you hated a model three weeks ago, it might do exactly what you need today.<\/p>\n<p>And with all of that, I just want to say I do not view myself as an AI expert. I think if you\u2019re looking for someone who seems to be the Nostradamus of AI, you should read up on Leopold Aschenbrenner. You can look up \u201cSituational Awareness: The Decade Ahead.\u201d It was penned and published online June 2024. And the number of actual hits, predictive hits that Leopold had is staggering. It is just really about as close to clairvoyant as you could possibly be. So Leopold Aschenbrenner, and you check him out, if you\u2019re looking for what\u2019s coming. If you\u2019re looking for what I have observed personally as a muggle, someone who is non-technical, I\u2019m not writing white papers, but I get to watch a very large audience and I have a lot of friends I can lean on, many of whom are technical, I can fill you in. All right. That\u2019s a whole lot of preamble. So let\u2019s hop into it.<\/p>\n<p>All right. First question is from Hugo. \u201cIn a world full of tools, systems, and AI, what human abilities or habits are becoming more valuable, not less?\u201d So I\u2019ll try to keep this pretty short. I would say the relational, the tactile, anything IRL, in real life, that can be extended also to, for instance, in my case, informational advantage, offline informational advantage. A lot of the LLMs are slicing and dicing the internet. One might argue all of them are doing that. And whether you are looking at longevity in professional terms, if you\u2019re looking at longevity in creative terms, I think putting on the lens of looking at what you can do in IRL that currently, now that certainly robotics are on the edge of some type of Cambrian explosion, so who knows, maybe it\u2019s iRobot three years from now, but for now, the kind of offline differentiator is a big deal.<\/p>\n<p>And I would say the relational side, certainly the harnessing of awe, wonder, et cetera, nature immersion, which sounds like I\u2019m suggesting everybody disappear off into a commune in the woods or become homesteaders or something. That\u2019s not what I\u2019m saying. But for instance, the fact that I have people I can text for very narrow types of expertise, even though they have the access of a generalist, allows me to have an informational advantage because none of that is online. Conversely, if you\u2019re using ChatGPT or Claude to try to assess a given public company as a good or a bad investment or somewhere in between, you can rest assured that many, many people, perhaps even millions of people have already done this, and therefore you\u2019re going to be reading more or less the same thing as many others. So that\u2019s my stab at that first question. A lot of this is going to boomerang back in future notes. Let me take a sip of my sipping ketones. Excuse me.<\/p>\n<p>This was sent to me by a scientist and he was like, \u201cMix 10 milliliters into 250 milliliters of water. DO NOT CHUG,\u201d in all caps, written with a marker on this experimental container of ketones. So, we\u2019ll see. If I start seizuring, it\u2019ll make for a great short on social media.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>All right. Next question I\u2019m going to take a stab at is, this is from Jeff. \u201cWith a pre-throat clearing, not financial advice \u2018disclaimer\u2019 already granted to you by virtue of this question, where should a small investor be looking to invest in public markets as AI continues to eat our white collar jobs in the coming months and years?\u201d All right. I know I indirectly already gave the caveat. I am not giving any investment advice because that is a terrible thing to do if you\u2019re not a registered financial advisor and all that stuff. I\u2019m none of those things.<\/p>\n<p>So this is for informational purposes only. Number one, you shouldn\u2019t gamble, and I do kind of view it as gambling, or invest anything you cannot afford to lose completely because AI is moving so incredibly quickly and there\u2019s a lot of whipsaw reactivity in the markets. ChatGPT comes out with something that connects to some type of industry in an oblique way and suddenly six public stocks lose billions and tens of billions of dollars of market cap. There\u2019s a lot of craziness. So as certainly has been said before me, the markets can remain irrational longer than you can remain solvent. So don\u2019t play with anything you\u2019re not willing to lose. There are people talking about what\u2019s been termed halo trades, trying to look for things that are less likely to get disrupted or destroyed, kind of the Warren Buffett approach to non-tech investing by and large, seize candy, railways, et cetera.<\/p>\n<p>But I would say that, initially sparked by conversations with Kevin Rose, and I hesitate to even mention this, but I do think Google is in a very interesting position, Alphabet, the artist formerly known as Google. Alphabet is in an interesting position to, in some respects, kind of own the full stack. Engineers aren\u2019t going to like that I\u2019m using that term, but they have distribution, they have hardware in terms of TPUs. They have incredible, unparalleled access to information. They\u2019ve got Demis Hassabis and DeepMind internally. They\u2019ve got the ability to spin things out like Waymo. There\u2019s just so much going on within Alphabet that I find it very fun and terrifying to take a close look at. And I say that also because it is completely unclear, I would say, how exactly Google compensates for or plans for shifting to some type of ad revenue from AI generated responses or an AI-based, LLM-based platform versus what we use today in the browser, right?<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s inevitably going to happen. So the bull case is very exciting for Google and the bear case is also pretty compelling, I would say. But as I\u2019m looking at stuff out there, I tend not to screw around in the public markets. I just don\u2019t feel like I have any advantage whatsoever compared to everybody else who\u2019s fine slicing things. But in conversations with friends and looking at it pretty closely, I do think Alphabet\u2019s pretty interesting. So there you have it. I\u2019m not saying invest in it. You could really lose money and it might be that they lose for a while until they win. It could be they lose completely. So there is that.<\/p>\n<p>Next question\u2019s from David. \u201cWhat are the top three things you should never use AI for?\u201d I would say any skill you want to preserve in your head, you should probably not use AI for. So I use AI for editing right now. You very quickly end up on a slippery slope. So if I create a rough draft as I did with the self-help trap, for instance, I would then take that, feed it into these models, and give them a personality. You are an editor from <em>The New Yorker<\/em>. This is your name, right? Maybe it\u2019s a famous editor or the person who worked with Robert Caro, whatever it might be. I mean, that\u2019s, again, not to compare myself to those people, but I want a good editor.<\/p>\n<p>Give me feedback on this rough draft. What the model will do, because I want to keep you using the model, of course, is it will give you all the feedback and then it will say, \u201cWould you like me to incorporate all of these changes and draft a version that uses all these things?\u201d And that\u2019s where I have deliberately hesitated. I\u2019ve also played around with it, and frankly, it\u2019s very good, but therein lies the danger because if you want to preserve your ability to synthesize, and this will tie into questions shortly about creativity, I do think that it makes some sense to exercise caution, and there are already scientists and researchers looking at the negative cognitive impacts of depending on AI, much like your ability to navigate has probably deteriorated since using Google Maps. And I would say net, each individual is more enhanced, augmented using these tools.<\/p>\n<p>But if you do want to keep certain muscles strong and able, that\u2019s where I would hesitate. And look, you can always change your mind later, but if you lose it, it\u2019s a hell of a lot harder to reclaim it. So that\u2019s where I am at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, CJ. CJ\u2019s question. \u201cDo you, Tim, think AI is capable of creativity in the sense that humans are?\u201d Well, I would argue here, and I\u2019ve read all these books on creativity, I\u2019ve looked at some research, which tends to be pretty soft, I would say. If I were being less generous, hand wavy about creativity or flow. I mean, I feel like a lot of these are poorly defined. So we could even go so far as to say, I don\u2019t think we understand what creativity is in humans, right?<\/p>\n<p>Could machines have the equivalent of the muse visit them? Is there a way to engineer that? When we create these metaphors for ourselves, are we really just using poetry or abstraction to try to verbalize something that\u2019s actually pretty discreet and replicable if you just operate from a sort of bottoms up approach with reinforcement learning and this, that, and the other thing? Maybe. I just don\u2019t know.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The second question that CJ had though is the one that I think is worth not necessarily spending more time on, but I would underline this because I underline it for myself. \u201cAs a writer and with the explosion of AI-generated content out there now, how do you rise above the noise?\u201d All right. It\u2019s pretty simple and I will answer that by way of a story. I was spending time, a little bit of time, drinking a Paloma with a very well-known photographer. He is one of the most commercially successful photographers in the world, and he was laughing and telling a story of how he gets approached by photographers.<\/p>\n<p>They could be amateur, but very often they\u2019re professionals who want to know how they can become better photographers and they\u2019re asking all of these gear related questions. And his answer is, just put more interesting stuff in front of the camera, make what\u2019s in front of the camera more interesting. And the equivalent of that, at least for me as a nonfiction writer, is doing interesting things. Go out in the world, do interesting things, or observe interesting things in real life and write about those things, do experiments, et cetera. I mean, there are many ways to skin this cat. It could be, let\u2019s just say, <em>Travels with Charley<\/em>, amazing book by John Steinbeck, road trip in a makeshift RV with his dog, Charley.<\/p>\n<p>All right. Incredible book. And as it stands right now, I think it\u2019s a ways off that a humanoid robot is going to get into a car with a canine companion, robotic or flesh and bone, and do something like this. Anything that is analysis-based is relegated to the machines at this point. They\u2019re so good. The AI, broadly speaking, LLMs being one manifestation of that, are just too good. They\u2019re so good. And we\u2019ll talk about how I use some of those tools a little bit later. So do interesting things and write about them. That\u2019s the short answer. All right. There are certain questions where I don\u2019t feel like I have good answers or informed answers. I could make up some bullshit and spin a yarn and make something that seems to hold water, but I\u2019m not going to do that. So I\u2019m going to \u2014 I apologize if I\u2019m skipping some of your questions, but I don\u2019t want to give you any type of false confidence in my answers.<\/p>\n<p>All right. So this is a question from Maneal. \u201cHow are you keeping up with all the new AI tools? Where do you keep your focus? Have you set up OpenClaw, and if so, what\u2019s your workflow?\u201d Okay. So, I am not keeping up with AI developments. People who do this full-time as the C-suite executive teams of the best known companies in the world have trouble keeping up. So I am definitely not keeping up or trying to keep up. I feel like as soon as I\u2019m doing that, I\u2019ve already lost. So, it\u2019s not how do I win the game, it\u2019s choosing the right game, which might sound cliched, but does that mean I\u2019m ignoring everything? No. With something like OpenClaw, due to security concerns, I let friends of mine be the first \u2014 elect to be some of the first monkeys shot into space. So I\u2019m going to read from a friend of mine who I texted, right? This is about this question right before we started recording.<\/p>\n<p>All right. So about OpenClaw, he played around with OpenClaw. His name is Chris Hutchins. He\u2019s been on the podcast. He has a podcast called <em>All the Hacks<\/em>, which he has used to explore some really fascinating stuff. If you\u2019re a points nerd or like travel, it\u2019s a good one. He goes a lot further than that. But one of his episodes is \u201cI Built an AI Assistant That Works While I Sleep,\u201d and he explains what he did with OpenClaw. However, here\u2019s what he texted to me. \u201cIn the last week, Claude\u2019s desktop app has shipped a bunch of features that do a lot of what OpenClaw can do in a more user-friendly way, schedule tasks, remote access, et cetera. So that could be a good beginner way to start. But with all AI projects, I suggest going in with a use case.\u201d This is, again, Chris texting, and then he documented his whole journey with building a basic app through OpenClaw, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, and leveling up his knowledge each time. We\u2019ll link to that episode in the show notes. You can find it pretty easily.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s what he added to that. \u201cFor OpenClaw, I\u2019d say you absolutely don\u2019t need a fancy computer. I ran it on a 2012 Mac mini for the first few weeks, but if you have an old computer and you want to set it up and test it out at home, great, but until you feel confident, one, don\u2019t give it access to things like email, credit cards, et cetera.\u201d And there are some hilariously tragic stories of this gone awry that you can find on your own. Okay, that was my director\u2019s commentary. \u201cTwo, don\u2019t install random skills you find on the internet. Three, go to Claude, ChatGPT, et cetera, and get advice about how to set it up securely. Four, every time I\u2019ve gotten stuck, I\u2019ve been able to use Claude Code in the OpenClaw Directory to fix things.\u201d So there you have it. That is by virtue of texting Chris Hutchins, an answer on OpenClaw.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And what I could also do is give some examples of, internally, how we\u2019re using stuff. So I have an employee who is very interested in these tools and I have wanted to encourage that as long as we\u2019re not completely demolishing our own security from the inside out. So he\u2019s played a lot with Claude Code and other things. And I asked him for some use cases that I could share with you. So I will pull those up right now. All right. And this alludes to a term, defines a term that Chris used. All right. So one thing I did \u2014 this is my employee. \u201cOne thing I did earlier today was build a skill, quote, unquote, \u201cskill,\u201d fancy name for a text file. In this case, inside Claude that will generate the PDF and Word versions of an IO, that\u2019s an insertion order for a podcast sponsor, if I only give it the missing items from the IO, for instance, company name, official company name,\u201d da, da, da, da.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt fills it out automatically and creates a PDF. It\u2019s a small save in time,\u201d but this is something he repeats a lot, \u201cand there may be a better way to do it, like a template and HelloSign or something.\u201d I also have been working on a project doing a 20-year, roughly 20-year retrospective deep dive and analysis of all my angel investing, right? Are the stories I tell myself about my report card accurate? Are they completely false? Are they somewhere in between, et cetera, et cetera. And for that project, coming back to his text here, it\u2019s been really crazy to just tell it, quote, \u201cHere\u2019s an API key,\u201d and it will figure out how to connect to a given service like Gmail. And if you have an API key for a product, you can easily start using it in Claude as it will simply write itself a script. And one of the wildest things, and this is \u2014 I\u2019m paraphrasing here, but it can ingest an absurd amount of data and convert it into something useful, and it can also enrich data in some very interesting ways, right?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>So if I\u2019m trying to figure out, okay, via email introductions, who introduced the winners, who introduced the losers, who introduced the zombies that just can\u2019t seem to die after years of struggling, or take off for that matter? And then is there a signal, say, looking at the education levels, the schools, the alma maters of founders? What about single founders versus two founders versus three founders? Things like this. Location, geography, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, is there any signal to any of this?<\/p>\n<p>Another example, which might apply to more of you, the Google Calendar integration has also been helpful. In other words, updating a calendar entry from Claude or creating multiple at a time, so using Claude to add calendar entries. Now, in my case, I have a bunch of different calendars and different people on my team add to different calendars. One thing that helps us a lot, and maybe someday I\u2019ll share this. For right now, I\u2019m probably not going to, but I have a document, a Google Doc that is the 10 commandments of my calendar basically, and it\u2019s rules around formatting, what to include, et cetera. Secondary points of contact, cell phones, time zone always indicated in the headline, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. There are lots of different rules, but he can use that or other people on my team can use that to then automatically check calendar entries through Claude Code and fix them as needed.<\/p>\n<p>So some people have joked that <em>The 4-Hour Workweek<\/em> should be rewritten as <em>The 4-Minute Workweek<\/em>. I think there\u2019s something to it, and there\u2019s a temptation to do an entire section on use of AI in place of virtual assistants and so on. The problem with that is that as soon as the ink had metaphorically dried on that paper, it would already be out of date, so I\u2019m not going to do that, I don\u2019t think. So there you have it, and the API key is a really important component to all of this.<\/p>\n<p>Also, and I\u2019m sure some of you have figured this out, but with Claude Code, and Chris Hutchins alluded to this as well, for debugging, for instance, we did a website redesign and there was an issue with a form, no idea why, and we wanted to fix it very quickly and we weren\u2019t sure how long it would take for support to get back to us. So he was able to dump all the code at the time into the model and just figured out how to fix it, and there are many, many, many other examples of that. Yeah. And many of these things are not quantum leaps, but they are, much like anything else, just automating little paper cuts so they don\u2019t add up ultimately to a huge gash in your calendar.<\/p>\n<p>Okay. Back to work, Tim Ferriss. All right, let\u2019s look at other things. This is a question from Becky. \u201cWhat would you say to someone who wants a career jump? Sometimes I feel I get caught in a loop of same pay range, same experiences, same mid-level opportunities. How can I start increasing my income opportunities and skills this year?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Okay. So I reached out, as I often do, texted a couple of people about this, because this is going to be a huge, huge, mega, mega, meta problem for people moving forward, and it\u2019s going to increasingly, I think, be pervasive. People are going to wonder what they should do next, which then informs upskilling. And there\u2019s a later question so I might as well explore it here related to encodings in the Jim Collins episode, question around encodings. And I might come back to that, but suffice to say, some of these personality tests and things like Enneagram are actually very helpful, and things like StrengthsFinder and so on.<\/p>\n<p>And there are two startups I\u2019m involved with because I recognize just through questions like this from Becky, which are the canary in the coal mine. It\u2019s not really a canary in a coal mine. It\u2019s like there was one whisper, now there are 10, then there were 100, now there are a thousand. This question is coming up more and more, and a lot of folks are going to, in one way or another, need to zig and zag, even though they might not expect it right now, and a lot of that\u2019s going to be due to AI job displacement.<\/p>\n<p>So the two startups that \u2014 and again, I mentioned that I\u2019m an investor in these so I\u2019m biased, but the reason that I invested in these is to answer this question, or more specifically, to help people answer this question. So the first one is called Apt, A-P-T, and you can check that out at tryapt.ai. So Tryapt, T-R-Y-A-P-T.ai. I had the co-founder and CEO create a code, so if any of you guys want to try it, ultimately, it does cost money to get all the results and to get this AI-guided mentor around your strengths and so on, which you discover or uncover through the process of going through this. But you can get 50 percent off with TIM50. That\u2019s the code to use. T-I-M-5-0. All right. So if you want to take a look at that, you can check it out.<\/p>\n<p>The other is Oboe, so OBOE.com, and that is entirely focused on accelerating skill acquisition and learning. So I think these two actually go together really well. You could use Apt first and then Oboe, and I\u2019ve played around with both. There\u2019s a lot that\u2019s going to be coming into both of these, but might be worth checking out. Honestly, if I were to tell you to go buy <em>What Color Is My Parachute<\/em> or something, you might glean something from that, but I feel like in very dynamic times, with so much shifting sand with respect to technology, you probably need something a bit more or benefit from something that is more dynamic and personalized from the get go, as opposed to you having to do lots and lots of heavy lifting with a fixed format. So that\u2019s what I would say, Becky, and definitely let me know what you think, because if something\u2019s broken or if you love something or you hate something, all that stuff can get fixed.<\/p>\n<p>All right, next one. This is from Jeff, and we will do some live questions. These ketones are actually doing something, which is good because it\u2019s 4:00 p.m. and I don\u2019t want to have any caffeine. Yeah, fortunately, it doesn\u2019t taste too much like jet fuel.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>All right. Let me do one more. Jeff. Okay, this is the question.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019ve worked across books, podcasts, and experiments that each attracted their own communities. What have you learned about proactively shaping a community\u2019s culture, not just growing an audience? And how has direct interaction with people changed the way you enter creative flow today?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The last piece is probably the hardest answer, but I can tell you that I think that proactively shaping a community\u2019s culture actually helps you to build an audience, but to what end? Not build an audience like, oh, I\u2019m aiming for two million, three million, 10 million YouTube subscribers. I don\u2019t like renting audience in a way that\u2019s dependent on algorithms, and you can look at a lot of the biggest YouTube channels. Their average views per video have cratered, even though they have huge numbers of subscribers. You see that with engagement on X and other places.<\/p>\n<p>However, one thing that never goes out of style is \u201c1,000 True Fans\u201d by Kevin Kelly. You can read it for free at kk.org, and therefore, I will focus on the proactively shaping a community\u2019s culture. In my case, I think it\u2019s pretty simple. I treat a closed community like I would a dinner party at my house. So somebody walks into my house, and this is a shoes free house, because who wants dog shit and bubble gum on your kitchen floor? I don\u2019t, so the shoes come off at the door. So let\u2019s say somebody comes in and they\u2019re like, \u201cNo, I\u2019m keeping my boots on.\u201d They come in tracking mud all over the place. They sit down at the dinner table, they kick their feet up on the table and start calling people assholes or something. That person\u2019s going to get dragged by their hair out and then they\u2019re never coming back in.<\/p>\n<p>So that\u2019s a bit of maybe a melodramatic example, but zero tolerance policy for broken windows. Even Malcolm Gladwell and others have written about this, but when these minor infractions are permitted, I\u2019m going to pull out a fancy term that tech people like, the Overton window, the broadness of what is now allowable behavior shift? Or I shouldn\u2019t say shift. It\u2019s a fucking window. It\u2019s not supposed to get wider or shorter, but it moves in a more aggressive behavioral direction. So if you allow minor infractions, you\u2019re going to get moderate infractions. You allow those, you\u2019re going to get major infractions.<\/p>\n<p>So from the very first days of, say, the blog, the comments section has guidelines and it\u2019s like, Remember the Fonzie? We\u2019re going to be cool, like that. If you\u2019re an asshole, we\u2019re going to boot you and blacklist you, and you can criticize me but don\u2019t be a dick to other people, and if you are, you\u2019re gone. It\u2019s zero tolerance and you have to enforce that. If you don\u2019t, people are crafty. They\u2019ll learn how to manipulate you because you are asking to be at least abused by not enforcing your own rules. So that\u2019s the first one. You have to excise the cancers and remove the poison. You just have to, because the default state of pretty much the entire internet now, because it\u2019s been allowed and encouraged through various gamifications on social platforms, is just being loud, obnoxious, awful, so you have to set rules to counterveil that.<\/p>\n<p>Also, and Jeff, I think you\u2019ve experienced this, if you have a private community of a hundred people or 200 people or 50, it doesn\u2019t really matter, and you charge $5 a quarter, $5 a year, it doesn\u2019t really matter, but if you have some very nominal costs, people opt in who generally want to contribute and be in an environment of positivity. That\u2019s my experience generally. So having some very, very nominal fee at the door I think is incredibly helpful, and you find that also with events.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve done plenty of live events, don\u2019t really do them anymore for a lot of reasons, but very, very rarely in the past, I would throw these live events for book launch parties, hundred people, 200. If people can RSVP to an event, your abandonment rate or no show rate is going to be sky-high. If you force them to pay $1 to hold their spot, suddenly the no show rate goes down to low single digits. So I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any rocket science here, but the tough part is being willing to enforce, and maybe you give someone a two strikes or out policy, but frankly, I find that that can metastasize.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, I have a lovely dog. It was a stray two months ago, adopted her, and she\u2019s really smart. She\u2019s part Anatolian Shepherd, it would seem, and if she realizes, for instance, that she can pit me against my partner and that she doesn\u2019t actually have to listen to sit until the third time, she\u2019s not going to listen to the first two. She\u2019ll just stare at you defiantly and then sit the third time. Humans are the same way. They\u2019ll do that too. If they know they have two strikes, you\u2019re going to get more bad behavior because they know they can get away with it once.<\/p>\n<p>All right, so there you go, and let\u2019s go to \u2014 we\u2019ve got plenty more questions, but I am going to \u2014 let\u2019s go live to some live questions, and I apologize that there\u2019s so much in the chat, so I\u2019m going to have to \u2014 oh, yeah, the crown means top fans. All right. Well, thank you. Thank you, top fan. All right, let\u2019s throw out some live questions and I\u2019ll give it a shot. If you already posted one, please post again because I can\u2019t scroll up and go through hundreds and hundreds and hundreds.<\/p>\n<p>Favorite color? Green, right there. Green, green, green. Specifically, it\u2019s the color of late morning light, like 11:00 a.m. sunlight around August coming through maple leaves. That is the color, the sort of translucent green. All right.<\/p>\n<p>Future of Varlata. Okay, for those who don\u2019t know. Also Coyote. Coyote continues to do really well. I feel like I have done mostly what I can do with Coyote at this point, and it\u2019s in steady state. The reviews on Amazon and elsewhere are great. It continues to sell well through the distribution channels. I wish in retrospect, earlier on, I had really focused on, even though there are plenty of adults who enjoy it, focusing on families that have at least one or two kids in that eight to 15 range, and that would have helped with escape velocity sooner, but hindsight 20\/20. I\u2019m really, really happy with how it\u2019s turned out.<\/p>\n<p>And then Varlata, honestly, now that the AI tools are getting good enough, about six months ago, I was planning on creating a movie trailer for effectively a script, I\u2019ve got the whole thing in my head, focused on Tyrolean. If anyone \u2014 this is <em>The Legend of Cockpunch<\/em>. Now I think I will, for obvious reasons, lean towards <em>Legends of Varlata<\/em>, but focusing on the relationship between Ty and his father and all sorts of craziness that ensues. So I\u2019ve got a whole movie script in my head and concept art that I haven\u2019t really done anything with from some of the top Magic: The Gathering and D&amp;D artists you can imagine, so we\u2019ll see. We\u2019ll see. I could see screwing around with that this summer.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, shout out to Jeff for keeping the CP community humming. Happy to spend some time there as well. All right.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf I could only pick from the books on the shelves behind you, what book would you want everyone in this group to deep dive into or dive deep into?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Man, I have those books up there for a reason. I have thousands of books. I\u2019ve donated most of them. These are the ones I keep up for me to look at. Give me a second. I\u2019ll tell you. Okay, great. So I\u2019m going to give answers that may not be satisfying to some folks, but that\u2019s okay. I\u2019ll give you one that I suppose you might expect from me. So one is going to be <em>The Effective Executive<\/em> from Peter Drucker, classic, old, short, incredible bang for the buck. However, the other books, I would say, again, talking about what you do in a world of AI, do more interesting things. There\u2019s a book back there called <em>Of Wolves and Men<\/em> by Barry Lopez, who won, I believe it was the Booker or Pulitzer Prize for another of his books called <em>Arctic Dreams<\/em>. <em>Of Wolves and Men<\/em> is one of the best nonfiction books I\u2019ve ever read, and it really shattered the mold. It redefined what, let\u2019s just call it nonfiction nature writing could be. It\u2019s just an incredible, incredible book. So there\u2019s one, but again, this is choose your own adventure, pick and choose.<\/p>\n<p><em>Travels with Charley<\/em> by John Steinbeck, I mentioned it earlier, is hilarious. Also an incredibly accurate and enjoyable, warts and all, ride through the US. What a quirky, weird-ass country. So that\u2019s another one, pretty fast read. And then there are entire shelves back there related to animal tracking and so on, because I\u2019ve done a bunch of that. I don\u2019t think most of you should probably spend a lot of time on that.<\/p>\n<p>If you haven\u2019t read, I\u2019ll simplify the title here, <em>Alice in Wonderland<\/em>, you should go read <em>Alice in Wonderland<\/em>. Read the whole thing, not just quotes from it. I have a collector\u2019s edition back there. And then there are a few actually that I was going to mention for one of the questions you guys submitted as an answer. <em>The 80\/20 Principle<\/em>, Richard Koch, that just never gets old. It just does not get old, and there\u2019s another book of his up there called <em>Living the 80\/20 Principle<\/em>. It might be <em>Living the 80\/20 Way<\/em>, but he really walks the talk, and if you haven\u2019t heard my podcast with Richard Koch, K-O-C-H, he\u2019s also one of the best investors I\u2019ve ever met. He\u2019s had, I don\u2019t know if he\u2019s disclosed the actual amount, but he is \u2014 I know a lot of the world\u2019s best investors and he is quietly way up there in the pantheon. So also a practitioner, he\u2019s on the field, so worth paying attention to him.<\/p>\n<p>All right, Of all the places I\u2019ve traveled to, which have been the most breathtaking? There are so many. Queenstown, New Zealand at the right time of year I think is incredible, but you name it, you name it. I think Upstate New York honestly, The Gunks and that entire region where a lot of <em>The Last of the Mohicans<\/em>, the book certainly, I don\u2019t know about the filming of the movie, but that takes place in that region. You can put me anywhere. I think so many places are beautiful. Take a couple of drawing classes. That makes things much more beautiful overall, like gesture drawing classes. Get some live nudes, keep it interesting. You may get an obese dude with his schwanz all over the place, so just so you know, it\u2019s not automatically going to be a Victoria\u2019s Secret model, but that\u2019s okay. Can\u2019t win them all.<\/p>\n<p>All right. This is from Hilca. All right. I\u2019ll abbreviate a bit because this was a long question. I\u2019m only going to hit the first part here, but, \u201cI\u2019m a bootstrap founder in Replit\u2019s Race to Revenue flying into San Francisco next week to pitch and network for a few days. If you were in my shoes and wanted to squeeze the maximum long-term leverage out of that short trip, what specific things would you do before, during, and after the event to, one, have the right conversations, and two, turn them into real opportunities rather than just great chats?\u201d Okay. \u201cBonus, how has your bootstrapped versus VC changed lately for tech software?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I think it\u2019s just getting cheaper and cheaper to make software, so I think we\u2019re going to see a lot of self-funded startups. Good news, barrier to entry technically, also economically is much lower. Bad news, the barrier to attention and actually getting people to use your stuff has never been higher. So there is that, but I do think that we\u2019re going to see huge self-funded bootstrap companies, assuming that there aren\u2019t just a few gods, AKA, super intelligence AI beasts that eat everything. All right.<\/p>\n<p>But coming back to your question about network, this has also never been more true, I think, in real-life wins. Everything else is too crowded. So there is a talk I gave. I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any video. You don\u2019t need video, frankly, but there was a talk I gave at South by Southwest, we\u2019ll link to this in the show notes, but if you search my name and \u201cHow to Build a World-Class Network in Record Time,\u201d this will pop up. This is a talk I gave, who knows, seven years ago, 10 years ago at South by Southwest describing exactly what I did at South by Southwest 2007 when I launched <em>The 4-Hour Workweek<\/em>. And my entire budget for that book for launch and marketing and so on was spent on a few trips to, I think it was Web Summit, maybe something expo, Blog Expo, and then South by Southwest.<\/p>\n<p>And there\u2019s an approach described in that that I think is very, very effective, and it\u2019s still surprising to me no matter how many times I talk about certain things, people just don\u2019t follow it. If I\u2019m like, \u201cHey\u2026\u201d If I wanted to shill some shitcoin and be like, \u201cIt\u2019s going to the moon,\u201d people would buy it immediately. But if I\u2019m like, \u201cHey, here\u2019s this thing. It actually takes some hard thinking and you need to plan for it, but it\u2019s so much more effective long term than all of this hustle culture bullshit three-card monte that you want to do every day for 10 hours,\u201d it\u2019s like the upfront stuff really matters a lot.<\/p>\n<p>In this case, I really recommend this talk, \u201cHow to Build a World-Class Network in Record Time.\u201d And that sounds like YouTube clickbait, but it\u2019s actually true. A lot of friends, who are still friends of mine almost 20 years later, came from South by Southwest 2007, and a couple of those events I flew to. These were not just transactional interactions. And there is a way to approach this. You definitely need to study any sessions and attendees beforehand.<\/p>\n<p>The good news is \u2014 good news, bad news \u2014 is that \u2014 have the right conversations? You don\u2019t need to worry about. You have no idea how to have the right conversations. Your goal is to meet people who are hopefully world-class at what they do, simpatico with you, meaning you guys will actually get along. Could be extracurricular interests, side hobbies. It could just be the way the two of you are programmed. And there are other kind of general strategies, like talking to moderators of panels instead of the panelists. Everybody floods the panelists. The moderator gets orphaned. And in many cases, the moderator is just as impressive, and certainly the moderator knows everybody on the panel and lots of people on other panels and everywhere else. So there are a couple of tips in that that I would suggest checking out.<\/p>\n<p>All right. Next question\u2019s from Alex. \u201cMy company\u2019s growing quickly. There are a lot of things that I need to be doing to hit escape velocity and be able to hire to manage at the top.\u201d I think that\u2019s manage. It says \u201cmange,\u201d but I assume you don\u2019t want mange. \u201cHow do I choose what not to do?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>All right. Well, the good news is we already talked about a couple. So <em>80\/20 Principle<\/em>, Richard Koch, I would read that. <em>The Effective Executive<\/em>, absolutely read that, and it\u2019s really going to give you frameworks for better discerning yourself what to do and not do. The other, depending on the scope, current scope and scale of the company and then the ambitions, especially if it\u2019s venture-backed, is to read a book called <em>The High Growth Handbook<\/em> by Elad Gil, E-L-A-D G-I-L. Arguably, one of the best certainly, angel investors in the last few decades. I mean, his hit rate is absolutely insane. He\u2019s invested in at least 40 unicorns, also a tremendous founder and operator in his own right. You can check him out. Has a pretty wicked biology background on top of everything else. So those are a few that come to mind.<\/p>\n<p>And then maybe last but not least, it\u2019s been a long time since I read it, but <em>The Blue Ocean Strategy<\/em>, probably worth checking out. Because if you choose to compete in a crowded category, you just have a harder road ahead of you. So creating a category of one in a sense, much like Cirque du Soleil back in the day. I\u2019m expecting you\u2019re not dealing with Eastern European acrobats, but you get the idea.<\/p>\n<p>All right. This is from JC. \u201cWhen exploring somatic or psychedelic healing spaces, what specific questions or observations do you use to quickly distinguish between a highly competent, grounded practitioner and a narcissistic guru?\u201d Tough. A lot of good actors out there.<\/p>\n<p>The first thing that comes to mind, and obviously with all the usual caveats, these things are powerful, you can definitely destabilize yourself, they\u2019re illegal in most places, et cetera, so don\u2019t break any laws, talk to your doctor, blah, blah, blah, but you could ask practitioners or you could ask someone who\u2019s had two trips and they\u2019re suddenly acting like a messiah proselytizing everybody. You could ask them the same question. But specific to clinicians or practitioners, ask them what types of adverse events they\u2019ve seen. What are the most concerning adverse events that they\u2019ve seen?<\/p>\n<p>A simple way to put that is, how do you handle freakouts? What do you do when somebody really loses their shit? And if their answer is, \u201cPeople don\u2019t lose their shit. There aren\u2019t any adverse events,\u201d they\u2019re either lying, delusional, or very inexperienced. Maybe all three. Those are not mutually exclusive. So I find that to be a pretty quick, necessary but not sufficient way to use a particular line of questioning to separate seasoned practitioners who are honest from those who are neither of those things.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, do your own homework. I don\u2019t think anyone who\u2019s new to this, and by new, I mean, they have not been doing it more than a decade, ideally multiple decades, makes the fly list for me. It\u2019s just become too goddamn trendy. So I would just say, probably unfairly, but I would be biased towards people who have been doing this since before Michael Pollan\u2019s exceptional book, <em>How to Change Your Mind<\/em>. That might be the cutoff for before and after.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s go back to live questions.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, <em>Kumar\u00e9<\/em>. Great documentary. Fred recommended. Everybody should watch <em>Kumar\u00e9<\/em>. K-U-M-A-R-E. I won\u2019t ruin the surprise. Check that out. It\u2019s a great film. I liked it so much that way back in the day, there was a startup called quarterly.co, which sent out boxes of goodies to people who subscribed, and I would hand-curate all these things that I really liked. It was kind of like a <em>5-Bullet Friday<\/em>, but on a quarterly basis where you get all my favorite things shipped to you in a box. Very difficult business to make work. But at one point, this also dates me, it tells you how long ago it was, I reached out to the filmmaker who made <em>Kumar\u00e9<\/em> and we figured out a way to make it work that I would ship something like 3,000 USB drives, each of which contain this movie, to my subscribers. That was one of my items that I sent. All right.<\/p>\n<p>All right. Lots of questions about conferences. I don\u2019t have a particular take on conferences these days. I apologize. I\u2019m not tracking it actively. There are always interesting meeting places in person, so I don\u2019t believe that\u2019s outdated. South by Southwest has gotten very large and quite corporate. Doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t have interesting interactions, but I would look for the events ideally that are fewer than a thousand people, fewer than 500 even better, if you can.<\/p>\n<p>All right. It\u2019s from Chris. If I \u201cweren\u2019t an author and podcaster, what other careers or industries would you have pursued?\u201d I wanted to be a comic book penciller for ages, and still do. Some, actually, of my art pads right back over there where I love to do live gesture drawings, honestly. It helps me get out of my head. Somebody will be up there, they\u2019ll hold a pose for like 60 seconds at a time and then change, or two minutes or five minutes at a time. You really can\u2019t get in your head. There\u2019s just not enough time for it. So I really, really enjoy that. But I wanted to be a comic book penciller and was an illustrator through a good part of college, helping to pay for expenses, things like that, illustrating books and so on. So the prospects then were not very attractive financially to do that, especially after my extended family paid a fortune on my education. So I shifted gears, but certainly felt a draw towards that.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat kind of dog is Molly?\u201d Molly is a rescue mutt. She is a Labrador, Bloodhound, and a Pit Bull mix. Then I\u2019m sure there\u2019s a Heinz 57 of other breeds in there.<\/p>\n<p>In terms of training, honestly, I put up some basic training videos on YouTube if you just search my name and dog training, but the books that I have found most helpful are <em>Don\u2019t Shoot the Dog<\/em> by Karen Pryor. I think everybody should read that. I think the back copy says something like, \u201cWhether you want to stop your cat from jumping on the table, train your dog to do X, or convince your mother-in-law to stop nagging you, the instructions are all the same.\u201d It\u2019s something like that. It\u2019s pretty funny. But Karen Pryor brought clicker training, audible cueing of that type, from marine mammal training, dolphins, orcas, et cetera, to dog training, or at least she\u2019s one of the people responsible for that. Really fantastic book on behavioral change and shaping behavior overall.<\/p>\n<p>And then listen to my podcast with Susan Garrett. Susan Garrett, G-A-R-R-E-T-T, is impressive because she has won, I want to say, I don\u2019t know, five to 10 national dog agility championships, even though she herself is much older than most of the human competitors who have to kind of run alongside their dogs, and she really, really knows her stuff. So those would be, I would say, two places that you can start, two or three places. All right.<\/p>\n<p>All right. Well, very kind comment here. \u201cAll of your works hold so many lessons on protection and nourishment, the root of being a father.\u201d I feel that way. Thank you. My friends have been, my closest friends are like, \u201cYeah, you know what? You\u2019re going to be a great dad.\u201d So that\u2019s part of the reason why I\u2019m headed that way, even though word on the internet is that I\u2019ve self-helped optimized myself into being single and miserable. That\u2019s not true. So all those trolls can suck a dick. It makes me feel like I\u2019m drinking tequila. Beware of those ketones, guys.<\/p>\n<p>All right. More on my thoughts, this is from Cindy, on Enneagram, dating, and business peeps. I think Enneagram, look, it might be tech-friendly astrology, but I\u2019ve seen it used at Shopify. I\u2019ve seen it used at Dropbox. I\u2019ve seen it used by more than one person to meet very good matches in intimate relationships, and I think there\u2019s something to it. I mean, it is a tool. I would say that I try to be as tool-agnostic as possible, but I found the Enneagram, and there are other options, of course, as one good option for identifying your own blind spots for, say, your partner, and this could be someone you work with, a superior, subordinate, colleague, what your likely blind spots are, where you\u2019re likely to be oversensitive, and therefore how you might want to handle things internally, like meetings, decision-making, conflict resolution. And that\u2019s pretty interesting, and it has been tested on a pretty large scale within places like Shopify and Dropbox, unlike many other things.<\/p>\n<p>So I find it interesting and the app that I mentioned earlier, tryapt.ai, code Tim50 for 50 percent off. I don\u2019t get any affiliate kickback or anything. That\u2019s just to save you guys some money. They incorporate the Enneagram, so, pretty interesting. I was telling them, I was like, \u201cHey, once you figure out this kind of business career mentoring side, you could very easily have a matchmaking capability built into it.\u201d All right.<\/p>\n<p>Quantum computing I find fascinating, amazing, and terrifying in equal measure. I have not done much in the quantum computing world. I have looked at maybe how certain cryptocurrencies are more prepared to be quantum-resistant than others. I\u2019ve looked at stuff like that. I mean, not to mention all of our other fancy passwords that we currently use and security, but I have not really gone super deep. I feel like that\u2019s an area, much like fusion, where you really want to be as technical as possible wading into those waters. I did a podcast with Steve Jurvetson ages ago, who was one of the first investors in D-Wave, but yeah, I mean, people are talking about AI, but man, when quantum actually hits \u2014\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And the joke has been with fusion, for instance, that fusion is always 30 years away. I don\u2019t think that\u2019s true anymore. Now, I could be proven wrong, but I also think that\u2019s true with quantum where people are like, \u201cYeah, yeah, yeah, that shit\u2019s never going to work.\u201d I\u2019m like, \u201cAh, we\u2019ll see.\u201d Look at Google\u2019s \u2014 excuse me. Look at Alphabet\u2019s investments into quantum computing. It does raise some questions. Very interesting and also pretty scary to imagine what post-quantum looks like. All right.<\/p>\n<p>Bear with. This is a good question. \u201cHow do you maintain so many friends despite your countercultural ideologies?\u201d My friends and I, I think, have maybe implicitly, and this is maybe survivorship bias, but agreed that as long as you\u2019re civil, you can disagree on all sorts of stuff, and I surround myself with friends who are going to push back. And this includes my oldest friends. This isn\u2019t just like fancy friends that I\u2019ve accumulated since the podcast or anything. This also applies to my oldest friends from high school and college.<\/p>\n<p>So I would also say that most of my friends are pretty adaptable in light of new information, but if some \u2014 I don\u2019t spend a lot of time around blowhards who are like, \u201cI\u2019m an X, I\u2019m a Y. I\u2019m a liberal and that person\u2019s a neocon,\u201d or, \u201cI\u2019m a conservative and that person\u2019s a libtard,\u201d or whatever. I don\u2019t hang out with those folks because that, while I recognize that level of simplicity is appealing in a very chaotic, messy world, it\u2019s not particularly an accurate reflection of reality and the gradations in between extremes and it\u2019s certainly not very helpful unless you are playing the political game and that\u2019s just a quiver, an arrow in the quiver that you have to use.<\/p>\n<p>But otherwise, I just stay away from that stuff, which doesn\u2019t mean I don\u2019t \u2014 I certainly don\u2019t steer away from controversy, but I ask myself, \u201cIs this\u2026\u201d And this applies to watching news or social media.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And I know I\u2019ve said this before, but I haven\u2019t had any social media apps on my phone for probably three or four years. And the way I feel about the news in <em>The 4-Hour Workweek<\/em> is probably 10x more intense now in terms of my selective ignorance around mainlining \u201cnews.\u201d Because if it\u2019s not relevant to your life and if you are not going to make a decision differently or take action because of it, or maybe avoid action because of it, if there isn\u2019t some kind of follow-up, you don\u2019t need it is my general feeling.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s going to become not just a, maybe, perceived luxury. I\u2019ve been doing this for decades now, and I wouldn\u2019t consider myself ineffective in the world, but it\u2019s going to become a survival imperative. If you want to remain sane, you can\u2019t doomscroll 24\/7. There\u2019s no way. You can\u2019t doomscroll even a few hours a day. So I\u2019ve seen some crazy, crazy physiological data from people on and off of social media, like blood tests and mental health assessments and so on, like HAM-D, CAPS-5, all this kind of stuff. It\u2019s not good, guys.<\/p>\n<p>So I\u2019m getting up on my soapbox now, but yeah, and we were talking about that no-asshole rule. Just because someone disagrees with you does not mean they\u2019re an asshole, but if someone is really throwing sharp elbows for no reason, it\u2019s like they\u2019re out. I very freely have an inflow and outflow of friends. There are certain friends who have remained in the inner sanctum, and I for them too because they reserve the same right, for years and decades and decades now, but it\u2019s like \u2014 and people are allowed to have off days, but it\u2019s like if someone has suddenly adopted being an asshole as part of their personality or identity in service of \u201ckeeping it real\u201d or something, I don\u2019t have time for that. All right.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see. Somebody asked about podcast interviewing a female screenwriter. Yeah, sure. Depends on the screenwriter, but was actually reaching out to two female screenwriters not too long ago. Don\u2019t think I heard back. So what are you going to do? But let\u2019s see.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, this is a comment by Tim. \u201cThis sounds super simple, but my longest, latest relationships share a common sense of humor. Married for 33 years and that\u2019s foundational. Same goes for oldest and longest-lasting friendships.\u201d Yeah, 100 percent. Humor is just reflective of so many other qualities, and there\u2019s a difference between humor and just like a kind of cynicism, quippy cynicism. I\u2019m not so much into that, but if there\u2019s a fast banter and people also are good at making fun of themselves, not all the time, but in the right dose, it generally bodes well.<\/p>\n<p>What inspired my most recent blog post? @FugacityLabs. This is on \u201cThe Self-Help Trap: What I Learned from 20+ Years of \u2018Optimizing\u2019 Myself,\u201d optimizing on quotation marks. Might\u2019ve been improving. We split test a bunch of different headlines. But what prompted that is just seeing how, at worst, miserable, at best, constantly anxious or self-doubting so many people are in the self-help, self-development world, and I feel like we are all sitting on a slightly too-warm stovetop of baseline anxiety due to the technological tectonic plates that we\u2019re dealing with, and certainly the kind of algo-driven personalized feeds that will just pour gasoline on your limbic system. And coming back to what we can control, it\u2019s like, okay, sure, I can suggest people delete social media apps off of their phones. Realistically, most people are not going to do that. And there are some upsides. If you have the ability to moderate with these tools, you can stay connected with friends, et cetera, et cetera. Although I become more and more dubious of those defenses.<\/p>\n<p>If people were able to, instead of just looking at screen time by app to see what actual usages, the use cases that they\u2019re spending time on with a given app, I think that would be very illuminating. In any case, in lieu of that, what else can you do? What other levers can you pull? And I think the in-real-life relational component is the lever that makes all other levers easier in a way. So that\u2019s what prompted writing that blog post. All right.<\/p>\n<p>Very nice question. How can we help you, whether here or in the Discord book forum? Just try to be \u2014 go first with people, to quote Gabby Reece. I interviewed Gabby with Laird Hamilton, one of the kings of big-wave surfing, and I think her billboard answer was, \u201cGo first. Just smile and say \u2018hi\u2019 first. Just do that.\u201d I\u2019d say helping the world to be just one percent brighter in some tiny way. Tip the breeze, like leave a $20 as a tip once a month somewhere. I know that\u2019s not necessarily trivial money for folks, but it\u2019s, like, give somebody an absurd tip. If they\u2019re really good, really kind. Or it doesn\u2019t even \u2014 like have a nice tea tip of a $10, right? Something like that. It doesn\u2019t need to be money. You get the idea. All right.<\/p>\n<p>Do I have any news to share about <em>The No Book<\/em>? Yeah. I\u2019m going to put on my diving goggles and get back into it in the next probably month or two, pretty soon. I have a couple of other things, and I\u2019ll have \u2014 I foresee at least one big announcement related to other projects coming up in the next few months, but going back in. Wish me luck.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see. Okay. Let me think about \u2014 this is a question from John. \u201cStill love the 17 questions.\u201d People can find those 17 questions. I think they\u2019re in <em>Tools of Titans<\/em>, maybe <em>Tribe of Mentors<\/em>, but also on tim.blog. There\u2019s a PDF with the 17 questions I most often ask myself.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve got one. A question that I would probably add is some version of \u2018What is the most generous interpretation of this?\u2019\u201d I have been trained since a wee little lad to be pretty anger forward, let\u2019s just say, if I were a wine. Very anger-forward. And the way that shows up, there are, to get fancy, myriad ways this shows up. One is that some days I can just feel like the entire world is conspiring to make me annoyed. And obviously that\u2019s not true, right? But if it seems like someone is ripping you off, right? Which does happen. Most of the time, it\u2019s probably just a misunderstanding.<\/p>\n<p>So what\u2019s the most generous interpretation? If you feel like your significant other did something to annoy you, or they always do X, they never do Y, like, okay, well, what\u2019s the most generous interpretation of this? And I\u2019m borrowing this from other people, but I feel like that is a very helpful question. And you could pair that with a bunch of other ones. I think Krista Tippett, great podcaster by the way, but Krista Tippett, one of the OGs, <em>On Being<\/em>, I believe, is her podcast. And I believe it\u2019s Krista. I might be misattributing, but at least I\u2019m not saying Oscar Wilde or Abe Lincoln that she said, \u201cAnger is pain shown in public,\u201d something like that. So you can apply that to yourself too if you\u2019re a little anger-forward. And that doesn\u2019t mean naval gaze, and you have to do 12 years of therapy to figure it out, but what is the most generous interpretation of this, whatever this might be? I would add that to my questions.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s see. Okay. \u201cIf you go to a city and you have two days, what are your go-to activities?\u201d Bicycle tour. Bike tour, for sure. One of the best ways to meet locals, figure out what\u2019s fun that isn\u2019t just a glossy photo posted on Instagram or a super expensive three Michelin star restaurant. Bicycle tour. Also hang out with \u2014 you don\u2019t have to actually stay at a hostel, but go talk to the manager of a hostel or somebody who works the front desk and has been there for a couple of years. They\u2019ll have lots of great recommendations.<\/p>\n<p>Okay. Where does accumulating wealth fall on my scale of overall success? Zero. It\u2019s like, look \u2014 I mean, a lot of wealthy people make a lot of excuses as to why they need to keep making money like, \u201cWell, I could give money now, but if I compound at such and such, compound on an annual growth rate and da da da, and then I\u2019ll give it away when I\u2019m dead basically, or yada, yada, yada.\u201d I just don\u2019t buy it. Working dogs who have been chasing a rabbit around a track their whole lives in sixth gear get very good at chasing something at sixth gear, so they want to continue doing that.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not holding myself up as some enlightened being. I\u2019ve just had the benefit of seeing so many people crash and burn or just end up with this existential malaise because when they actually pause for a second, if they do pause, and sometimes life forces you to pause with a divorce or medical emergency. They have this maybe sense of hollowness or certainly not a sense of fulfillment. I\u2019ve just seen that so many times. It\u2019s like, \u201cAccumulating wealth, who cares?\u201d It\u2019s just like, how many people can give you the full name of Alexander the Great? It\u2019s like nobody\u2019s going to remember you. Nobody\u2019s going to remember me. Nobody\u2019s going to remember us. It\u2019s okay. It\u2019s totally fine. It\u2019s actually very freeing. It\u2019s like everybody should read, I think it\u2019s Percy Shelley, <em>Ozymandias<\/em>. I\u2019ll let you guys \u2014 yeah, Percy Shelley, \u201cOzymandias.\u201d Everybody should find this. O-Z-Y-M-A-N-D-I-A-S. So good. Everybody should read \u201cOzymandias.\u201d All right.<\/p>\n<p>All right, what do I prioritize instead of wealth? Relationships. And this sounds so trite, but it\u2019s like there are people who say that and then you go visit them, and you\u2019re like, \u201cHoly shit, their kids hate them, and they never see their best friends.\u201d Or their \u201cbest friends\u201d are constantly a different roster because, as Arthur Brooks would put it, \u201cThey\u2019re deal friends, not real friends,\u201d right?<\/p>\n<p>But I mean, the past year review really helps to make this point for me over and over again. And if you don\u2019t know what the hell I\u2019m talking about, just search my name and \u201cpast year review.\u201d But thinking about it\u2019s like, okay, who are the 10 most important people in your life? Did you spend as much time as you would like to spend with them last year? If the answer\u2019s no, invest in those 10 before you invest in anyone else, right? And track the results. Then you look back, and look at the number of peak positive experiences, energetically, emotionally, whatever it is, over that quarter, that year. It\u2019s not something you have to do all the time. And you\u2019re like, \u201cOh, yeah, doubling down on those 10 really made my year so much better. Blocking out time with those people in advance made it so much better. Okay, let\u2019s do more of that.\u201d So yeah, that\u2019s about it. Yeah. It might have been Tara Brach who talked about the angers, fear on the outside. Who knows? Some smart person who\u2019s a lot chiller than I am said that.<\/p>\n<p>All right, David, here we go. \u201cAs a soon-to-be father, I\u2019m thinking a lot about parenthood. If you started a family, what would be the top three values or lessons you\u2019d hope to instill in your children?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I have thought about this a lot and I\u2019ve been able to watch what has worked and what has not worked. I think optimism, resourcefulness, and lots of physical activity. Lots of physical activity. You got to run that dog. A tired dog is a happy dog. So yeah, optimism. I think Mike Maples Jr. was the first person who really underscored this. He has a bunch of kids who have turned out well. Optimism\u2019s kind of number one. It\u2019s like the mother quality that enables all else.<\/p>\n<p>Resourcefulness, I would say, I think Maya Angelou actually said courage is sort of the mother quality because everything else at its breaking point depends on it. So I had something which is like no failure only feedback. Just encouraging them to try stuff. Positive reinforcement. Try stuff, try stuff. I mean, this applies to dog training too, but some of my friends who have never had dogs get all pissed off and get their knickers in a twist when I compare kids to dogs. I know they\u2019re not the same, but you know what? Shaping behavior is pretty similar across mammals. Anyway, optimism, courage\/try a bunch of shit, it\u2019s fine. It\u2019s just feedback. And then resourcefulness. And I think if you have optimism and you\u2019re willing to try a bunch of stuff, AKA, use courage in certain ways, then I think resourcefulness is a byproduct of that. So those would be the things I would focus on, and lots and lots and lots and lots of physical activity, together as a family, right?<\/p>\n<p>Okay. Let\u2019s see. Rachel, \u201cThought I\u2019d throw out an odd question this time. Have you ever been on a treasure hunt or geocache? What\u2019s the weirdest, coolest, most unexpected thing you\u2019ve found out in the wilderness? Could be something natural or unnatural.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, a black bear stole a leg from my elk last year. That was pretty annoying. And we found it chewed into all sorts of mangled contortions. That was a bummer. I don\u2019t want to have sloppy seconds after a bear has gotten into your elk leg, just pro-tip. I\u2019ve been on treasure hunts and geo cashes.<\/p>\n<p>I would say the thing that comes to mind, which is somewhat unrelated to your question, is that if people are like, \u201cWhat\u2019s the most interesting way you\u2019ve lost money?\u201d Because I do get my face ripped off then and again, part of the early stage investing game. I invested in treasure hunters, very famous treasure hunters who were searching for sunken Spanish galleons full of gold bars and all sorts of stuff. And ultimately, one of the people involved just absconded with all of the investor money, and it turned into this like, <em>Where in the World Is Carmen Sandiego<\/em>? fucking debacle, but makes for a story. So once again, don\u2019t bet money you cannot afford to lose, especially when it involves Spanish galleons.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, good lordy, lordy, lordy. Let\u2019s see. This is coming back to encoding. Cindy. \u201cYou and Jim Collins talked about encoding.\u201d This is a term that Jim uses, which is somewhat comparable to strengths, like what are your innate strengths, right? So we spoke about that. \u201cI\u2019d love if you\u2019d go deeper on the topic, share more about how it resonated with you personally and give additional practical advice on how people currently locked into work or career situations can progress with a plan towards living fully within their encoded selves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I find that asking your best friends, could be family members, could also be employees. 360 reviews can be very brutal. You can listen to my conversation with Joe Gebbia, co-founder of Airbnb about how brutal that can be. It doesn\u2019t have to be brutal, though. I would say that a couple of questions come up that I have asked close friends, some of my best friends, people who know me really well. When have you seen me at my best, or when do you see me at my best? But it\u2019s good to have practical examples or concrete examples from the past, not just like, \u201cWhen you tend to do this, you tend to do that.\u201d It\u2019s like, \u201cNo, give me an example. When have you seen me at my best? When have you seen me at my worst? What stories or memories come to mind?\u201d Then, \u201cWhat is easier for me than for other people? What do you see in me that I find easier than most people?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Jim didn\u2019t like that question, because he wanted it all to be internally, individually referenced, but this is how I do it. I actually do find that aspect helpful, because then you\u2019re not only finding strengths, you\u2019re finding strengths that allow you to potentially compete. And I just like having both, if I can. And then you could ask you to what \u2014 this is very closely related to the last one, but, \u201cWhat strength or ability do I discount in myself?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s certain things. A friend of mine was making a point about something related to startups recently. And I was like, \u201cYeah, I mean, it doesn\u2019t strike me as particularly special because A, B, and C.\u201d And he\u2019s like, \u201cThat\u2019s the problem.\u201d He\u2019s like, \u201cYou can\u2019t see it because you\u2019re the fish swimming in the water.\u201d And I was like, \u201cHuh, okay.\u201d And then I bounced it off a few other people, and they\u2019re like, \u201cYeah, that\u2019s like a fucking weird superpower of yours, and I don\u2019t understand it.\u201d And I was like, \u201cOh, never really realized.\u201d So, \u201cWhat strengths or ability do I discount on myself?\u201d This is you using that question for somebody else, or not harness, right? It could be discounting, could just be like, \u201cWhat strength or ability am I not using that I have?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And one question that can infer a lot of the answers to these others also is if I weren\u2019t doing X, whatever your current gig is, like, \u201cWhat could you see me doing?\u201d Right? And I feel like if you ask enough people who know you well enough and who aren\u2019t going to bullshit you, who will also be willing to answer questions about your weaknesses, right? In other words, example given, \u201cWhen have you seen me at my worst?\u201d If they can\u2019t answer that, they\u2019re not going to give you fully candid advice. So I would say those are a few of the approaches that I\u2019ve used, and I\u2019ve found them very helpful.<\/p>\n<p>Geocaching. A lot of people here into geocaching. Yeah, I mean, sure, it\u2019d be fun. I\u2019ve also dreamed about doing orienteering courses, which I think could be super, super fascinating.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This is the last question. I think it\u2019s a good one to end on. \u201cIs courage external or internal? How do you teach it to kids?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I think courage is learned. You have to practice it. And if you\u2019re not afraid, it\u2019s not courage, right? If someone\u2019s fearless, they\u2019re, by definition, not using courage. You have to be afraid of something. So you can edge yourself, and you can edge kids into that, right? It\u2019s not like, \u201cHey, you\u2019ve never been in the water before. Let\u2019s take you up to do cliff diving.\u201d It\u2019s like, no, no. Yeah. I mean, that\u2019s unhelpful fear with severe consequences. It\u2019s like you can stare-step into it.<\/p>\n<p>But I don\u2019t think courage is a decision. I don\u2019t think courage is something you get from reading a book. I don\u2019t think courage is something that you can develop abstractly. I think you have to prove to yourself that you have it, and the only way your subconscious will believe it is if you are actually doing things that are uncomfortable. That\u2019s it, which means it is learnable.<\/p>\n<p>And there may be some set point that contributes to it in one way or another, right? If you\u2019re Alex Honnold, and your amygdala is basically asleep, it\u2019s like, \u201cOkay, well, right, that explains a few things.\u201d But it\u2019s also something that you can very sequentially sort of expose yourself to, just like you would to build a tan or to get stronger in the gym. I think it\u2019s through action, right? It\u2019s like progressive resistance that you develop courage, and it\u2019s very \u2014 I\u2019ve seen my friends do this with their kids and this is also why the physical activity is very, very helpful to prove to kids, or help them prove to themselves that they can do hard things, right? Like, okay, sure. You could wait until they can sit down with calculus and try to figure that out. Or you could be like, \u201cYeah, that thing that you\u2019re nervous about doing,\u201d like hitting a baseball, climbing a whatever, 5\u20199\u2033 in an indoor climbing gym. \u201cYeah, okay. Well, let\u2019s get after it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>All right. I will stop there guys. I appreciate, somebody asked, \u201cWhen is Alex Honnold coming on the podcast?\u201d I had him on about six months before he free soloed El Cap. So if you want to listen to Alex Honnold before he got media-polished, my podcast is a good way to start. Great guy, but it was before he got polished for prime time. 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