{"id":1657,"date":"2023-03-17T13:27:50","date_gmt":"2023-03-17T17:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/may-sarton-on-how-to-cultivate-your-talent-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2023-03-17T13:27:50","modified_gmt":"2023-03-17T17:27:50","slug":"may-sarton-on-how-to-cultivate-your-talent-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/may-sarton-on-how-to-cultivate-your-talent-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"May Sarton on How to Cultivate Your Talent \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/House-Sea-Journal-May-Sarton\/dp\/0393313905\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"320\" height=\"484\" class=\"cover alignright size-medium jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"May Sarton on How to Cultivate Your Talent\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?resize=320%2C484&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?resize=600%2C907&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?resize=240%2C363&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?resize=768%2C1161&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?resize=1016%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1016w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/maysarton_thehousebythesea.jpg?fit=320%2C484&amp;ssl=1&amp;is-pending-load=1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cTalent is insignificant. I know a lot of talented ruins,\u201d James Baldwin bellowed in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/02\/08\/james-baldwin-advice-on-writing\/\">his advice on writing<\/a>. \u201cBeyond talent lie all the usual words: discipline, love, luck, but most of all, endurance.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>There is a reason we call our creative endowments <em>gifts<\/em> \u2014 they come to us unbidden from an impartial universe, dealt by the unfeeling hand of chance. The degree to which we are able to rise to our gifts, the passionate doggedness with which we show up for them day in and day out, is what transmutes talent into greatness. It is the responsibility that earns us the right of our own creative force. <\/p>\n<p>That is what the great poet, novelist, and playwright <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/may-sarton\/\">May Sarton<\/a> (May 3, 1912\u2013July 16, 1995) explores in an entry from her altogether magnificent journal <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/House-Sea-Journal-May-Sarton\/dp\/0393313905\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>The House by the Sea<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.worldcat.org\/title\/2964402\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>).<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_80066\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/House-Sea-Journal-May-Sarton\/dp\/0393313905\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"592\" height=\"754\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80066 jetpack-lazy-image\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=592&amp;ssl=1 592w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C408&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C306&amp;ssl=1 240w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 592px) 100vw, 592px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=592%2C754&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=592%2C754&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"592\" height=\"754\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80066\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=592&amp;ssl=1 592w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C408&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/MaySarton_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C306&amp;ssl=1 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 592px) 100vw, 592px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">May Sarton<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>With an eye to a young writer she was mentoring, Sarton reflects:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>One must believe in one\u2019s talent to take the long hard push and pull ahead, but a talent is like a plant\u2026 It may simply wither if it is not given enough food, sun, tender care. And to give it those things means working at it every day.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Echoing Mary Oliver\u2019s admonition that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/10\/12\/mary-oliver-upstream-creativity-power-time\/\">\u201cthe most regretful people on earth are those who felt the call to creative work, who felt their own creative power restive and uprising, and gave to it neither power nor time,\u201d<\/a> Sarton adds:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>A talent grows by being used, and withers if it is not used. Closing the gap between expectation and reality can be painful, but it has to be done sooner or later. The fact is that millions of young people would like to write, but what they dream of is the published book, often skipping over the months and years of very hard work necessary to achieve that end \u2014 all that, and luck too. We tend to forget about luck.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement this fragment of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/House-Sea-Journal-May-Sarton\/dp\/0393313905\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>The House by the Sea<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.worldcat.org\/title\/2964402\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>) \u2014 which also gave us Sarton on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/01\/01\/may-sarton-the-house-by-the-sea\/\">how to live openheartedly in a harsh world<\/a> \u2014 with poet Naomi Shihab Nye\u2019s advice on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/07\/11\/naomi-shihab-nye-writing\/\">writing, discipline, and the two driving forces of creative work<\/a>, Jennifer Egan on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/09\/07\/jennifer-egan-on-writing\/\">the most important discipline in creative work<\/a>, and Maria Konnikova on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/12\/08\/the-biggest-bluff-maria-konnikova\/\">the psychology of luck<\/a>, then revisit Sarton\u2019s spare, splendid <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/02\/12\/meditation-in-sunlight-may-sarton-amanda-palmer\/\">poem about the relationship between presence, solitude, and love<\/a>, her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2017\/12\/01\/may-sarton-canticle-6-considerations\/\">ode to the art of being alone<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2016\/10\/17\/may-sarton-journal-of-a-solitude-depression\/\">her cure for despair<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTalent is insignificant. 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