{"id":1680,"date":"2023-03-19T04:13:50","date_gmt":"2023-03-19T08:13:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/whats-your-neglected-sense-gretchen-rubin\/"},"modified":"2023-03-19T04:13:50","modified_gmt":"2023-03-19T08:13:50","slug":"whats-your-neglected-sense-gretchen-rubin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/whats-your-neglected-sense-gretchen-rubin\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s Your Neglected Sense? | Gretchen Rubin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Introducing my new quiz: <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/quiz\/the-five-senses-quiz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Five-Senses Quiz: What\u2019s Your Neglected Sense?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re all familiar with the five senses\u2014what could be called the Aristotelian Senses or the Kindergarten Senses: seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting, and touching.<\/p>\n<p>In recent times, <a href=\"https:\/\/bigthink.com\/surprising-science\/think-you-have-only-5-senses-its-actually-a-lot-more-than-that\/\">researchers have identified many additional senses,<\/a> such as proprioception, equilibrioception, and interoception. While every sense contributes to our experience, and is fascinating in its own right, these more subtle senses run in the background. Typically we notice them only when they break down.<\/p>\n<p>We pay a lot of attention, however, to the Big Five.<\/p>\n<p>However, even with the Big Five, I\u2019ve noticed, many of us have foreground senses and background senses; we appreciate some senses, but neglect others.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">With an <em>appreciated<\/em> sense, we pay attention; we seek new experiences; we enjoy talking and learning about that\u00a0 sense.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">With a <em>neglected<\/em> sense, we\u2019re much less interested; we rarely turn to it for pleasure or comfort, we don\u2019t spend time exploring or cultivating it. We may be more concerned with avoiding the negative than appreciating the positive.<\/p>\n<p>One of my aims in writing my new book, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/books\/life-in-five-senses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Life in Five Senses<\/a><\/em>, was to identify, and learn to appreciate, my own neglected sense.<\/p>\n<p>It was very useful to get this insight into myself, because I was able to use this self-knowledge as a shortcut to a richer life.<\/p>\n<h3>Why identify your neglected sense?<\/h3>\n<p>By tapping into a neglected sense, I discovered a new source of comfort, calm, and creativity; I ventured on fresh experiences that delighted me, and perhaps most important, I found opportunities to engage with other people.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I learned that identifying your neglected sense. . .\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Helps explain why you\u2019re attracted to certain purchases, practices, and habits\u2014and why you\u2019re <i>not <\/i>attracted<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Gives you clues about the types of activities that you might find or more or less appealing<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Suggests new experiences you might enjoy\u00a0<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Provides new ways to connect with others<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Explains why you might experience conflict with other people\u2014and suggest how you might resolve those conflicts<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">Gives you a new tool to add to your self-care toolbox<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>However, it\u2019s not always easy to identify a neglected sense. To help you identify yours, I\u2019ve created a free, quick quiz.<\/p>\n<p>The quiz will identify your most neglected sense and provide a list of concrete ideas for tapping into this sense to have more fun, love, energy, and calm.<\/p>\n<h3><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/quiz\/the-five-senses-quiz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Take the Five-Senses Quiz: What\u2019s Your Most Neglected Sense?<\/strong><\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Now more than ever, it\u2019s easy to get stuck in our heads or behind a screen, and forget to engage with the world around us. It\u2019s also easy to fall into ruts of experience. Tapping into a neglected sense can awaken our mindfulness and revive our sense of excitement, connection, and wonder.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, even apart from our different mix of appreciated and neglected senses, we all inhabit different sensory worlds.<\/p>\n<p>We each live in our own body, the one assigned to us by fate and shaped by our history; each of us engages with the world through our own particular complement of senses, whatever those might be.<\/p>\n<p>For some people, a sensation may feel overwhelming, while another barely registers. As writer Zora Neale Hurston observed, \u201cEvery man\u2019s spice-box seasons his own food.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Acknowledging that people experience sensations in different ways can help us all be more understanding\u2014not to dismiss people\u2019s objections to sights, sounds, smells, tastes, or touches, but instead to respect them so that we can create sensory environments in which everyone can feel comfortable.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Introducing my new quiz: The Five-Senses Quiz: What\u2019s Your Neglected Sense? 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