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Life is about trade-offs. After all, you can\u2019t spend money like a drunken sailor and simultaneously build a substantial nest egg, nor can you stuff your face with junk food and expect to lose weight. (At least I haven\u2019t found a way.) This principle applies to most choices in life. The fact is when you opt to do one thing, you\u2019ve chosen to forgo another \u2014 without even knowing it. So, what are you willing to give up to get what you want?<\/p>\n

What Are You Willing to Sacrifice to Get What You Want?<\/h3>\n

Here\u2019s a list of choices that you make every day. Are you aware of the trade-offs that you\u2019re making? After all, you can\u2019t be in two places at the same time. (Even though the following list is depicted as an either-or choice, your actual behavior lies somewhere in between.)<\/p>\n

Self-esteem.<\/span> <\/strong>Do you try to make yourself proud<\/em> or seek the acceptance of others?<\/p>\n

Outlook. <\/strong><\/span>Do you believe anything\u2019s possible<\/em> or feel like you\u2019re doomed from the start?<\/p>\n

Desires. <\/strong><\/span>Do you invest for the future<\/em> or seek instant gratification<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Integrity. <\/strong><\/span>Do you do what\u2019s right<\/em> or what\u2019s easy?<\/p>\n

Personal responsibility. <\/strong><\/span>Do you fend for yourself<\/em> or depend on others for support?<\/p>\n

Risk appetite. <\/strong><\/span>Do you explore new opportunities<\/em> or let your fears stop you?<\/p>\n

Embrace change.<\/strong><\/span> Do you challenge the status quo<\/em> or rest on your laurels?<\/p>\n

Priorities. <\/strong><\/span>Do you make family time<\/em> or \u201cme time\u201d your priority?<\/p>\n

Gratitude.<\/span> <\/strong>Do you appreciate the wonderful things<\/em> in your life or take things for granted<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Work. <\/strong><\/span>Do you strive for excellence<\/em> or opt for perfection<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Goal setting. <\/strong><\/span>Do you create stretch goals<\/em> or lower the bar so that it\u2019s easy to clear?<\/p>\n

Success mindset.<\/strong><\/span> Do you pursue success one small step<\/em> at a time<\/em>\u00a0or chase get-rich-quick schemes?<\/p>\n

Work ethic. <\/strong><\/span>Do you work hard<\/em><\/a> or do just enough to get by?<\/p>\n

Winning strategy. <\/strong><\/span>Do you create<\/em> win-win<\/a> relationships<\/em> or try to win at all costs?<\/p>\n

Personal development. <\/strong><\/span>Do you invest<\/em> in your personal growth<\/em> or expect others to spoon-feed you?<\/p>\n

Personal growth. <\/strong><\/span>Do you welcome negative feedback<\/em> or view critique as a slap in the face?<\/p>\n

Generosity.<\/span> <\/strong>Do you act selflessly<\/a><\/em> or selfishly?<\/p>\n

Relationships.<\/span> <\/strong>Do you possess quality, in-depth relationships<\/em> or pursue casual friendships?<\/p>\n

Open-minded. <\/strong><\/span>Do you consider yourself receptive to new ideas<\/em> or are you closed-minded?<\/p>\n

Frame of mind. <\/strong><\/span>Do you live for today<\/em> or are you a prisoner of your past?<\/p>\n

Rewards. <\/strong><\/span>Do you recognize when enough is enough<\/em> or continually seek more?<\/p>\n

Values. <\/strong><\/span>Do you abide by your principles<\/em> or compromise your personal standards?<\/p>\n

It is important to note that every choice you make will affect you today<\/em> as well as tomorrow \u2014 <\/em>but the long-term impact may not always be clear. In fact, even though you may benefit today, your choice may come back to bite you one day.<\/p>\n

Your life is determined by the sum of the choices that you make.<\/p>\n

Make Good Choices\u2026Your Life Depends on It<\/h3>\n

So, what are you willing to give up to get what you want? There\u2019s no correct answer to that question \u2014 what\u2019s right for one person may not be right for you. That said, everything worthwhile in life requires an element of sacrifice. You might deny yourself something you\u2019ve always wanted so that you can save for your future. You might have to work long hours to further your career even though you\u2019d rather spend time with your family. Or you might pass up a second helping of cake because you know it\u2019s not good for you. (Oh no!) The point being, you can\u2019t have your cake and eat it too.<\/p>\n

While most choices that you make may be small \u2014 and don\u2019t attract a lot of attention \u2014 over time, the cumulative impact of those choices is significant. Make good choices and judge your successes by the sacrifices made to achieve them.<\/p>\n

Check out Frank\u2019s latest book,\u00a0The Path to a Meaningful Life<\/i><\/a>.<\/p>\n

What Would You Give Up to Get What You Want?<\/h3>\n

Please leave a\u00a0comment<\/a>\u00a0and tell us what you think or\u00a0share it with someone who can benefit from the information.<\/b><\/p>\n

Additional Reading:
Make Good Choices<\/a>
20 Choices that Will Determine Your Destiny<\/a>
Are You Blurring the Line Between Right and Wrong?<\/a>
Choices Are Easy. The Tough Part Is Living with Them<\/a>
Will You Choose the Right Path?<\/a>
Change Your Priorities: Change Your Life<\/a>
Would You Do Something Unethical If You Could Get Away with It?<\/a><\/p>\n

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