{"id":2419,"date":"2023-05-10T08:06:03","date_gmt":"2023-05-10T12:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/d-h-lawrence-on-death-and-the-best-lifelong-preparation-for-it-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2023-05-10T08:06:03","modified_gmt":"2023-05-10T12:06:03","slug":"d-h-lawrence-on-death-and-the-best-lifelong-preparation-for-it-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/d-h-lawrence-on-death-and-the-best-lifelong-preparation-for-it-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"D.H. Lawrence on Death and the Best Lifelong Preparation for It \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Complete-Poems-Penguin-Twentieth-Century-Classics\/dp\/0140186573\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"320\" height=\"491\" class=\"cover with-border alignright size-medium jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"The Last Wonder: D.H. Lawrence on Death and the Best Lifelong Preparation for It\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?w=1514&amp;ssl=1 1514w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=320%2C491&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=600%2C920&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=240%2C368&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=768%2C1177&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=1002%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1002w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?resize=1336%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1336w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/dhlawrence_poems.jpg?fit=320%2C491&amp;ssl=1&amp;is-pending-load=1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cTo study philosophy is to learn to die,\u201d Montaigne wrote in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2012\/12\/12\/montaigne-on-death-and-the-art-of-living\/\">his most famous essay<\/a> as he reckoned with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/01\/07\/how-to-live-montaigne\/\">how to live<\/a>. Indeed, we spend our lives learning to die while trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/04\/30\/annie-dillard-for-the-time-being\/\">bear our mortality<\/a>, using our religions and our materialism to look away from the great unknown, to fill with myths and negations what is undeniably the supreme mystery on the other edge of existence. We may know <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/01\/10\/alan-lightman-death\/\">what happens to our physical being when we die<\/a>, but what happens to consciousness at the boundary of life remains the ultimate enigma.<\/p>\n<p>A revelatory new <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/doi\/10.1073\/pnas.2216268120\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> has found, through electrogram recordings, heightened brain activity and connectivity at the transition to death: Upon being taken off life-support equipment, patients exhibit a surge of gamma waves \u2014 an indication of amplified rather than diminished consciousness. This finding, refuting the classic conception of death as a fade-out of consciousness, calls to mind a lovely line from a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/d-h-lawrence\/\">D.H. Lawrence<\/a> poem composed at the end of his life, depicting death as \u201cthe last wonder.\u201d <\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_78733\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"891\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78733 jetpack-lazy-image\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?w=1068&amp;ssl=1 1068w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=320%2C419&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=600%2C787&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=240%2C315&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=768%2C1007&amp;ssl=1 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=680%2C891&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=680%2C891&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"891\" class=\"size-full wp-image-78733\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?w=1068&amp;ssl=1 1068w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=320%2C419&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=600%2C787&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=240%2C315&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/dhlawrence.jpg?resize=768%2C1007&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">D.H. Lawrence<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In a different poem from his final years, Lawrence examines the uneasy relationship between our self-knowledge as creatures capable of infinite emotional experience and our knowledge of our creaturely finitude:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Know thyself, and that thou art mortal.<br \/>But know thyself, denying that thou art mortal:<br \/>a thing of kisses and strife<br \/>a lit-up shaft of rain<br \/>a calling column of blood<br \/>a rose tree bronzey with thorns<br \/>a mixture of yea and nay<br \/>a rainbow of love and hate<br \/>a wind that blows back and forth<br \/>a creature of beautiful peace, like a river<br \/>and a creature of conflict, like a cataract:<br \/>know thyself, in denial of all these things \u2014<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_80244\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"230\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80244 jetpack-lazy-image\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=320%2C108&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=600%2C203&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=240%2C81&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=768%2C259&amp;ssl=1 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=680%2C230&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\"\/><noscript><img data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=680%2C230&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"230\" class=\"size-full wp-image-80244\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=320%2C108&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=600%2C203&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=240%2C81&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/death.jpg?resize=768%2C259&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Surge in brain activity and connectivity at near-death (S4) after ventilator removal (S2). (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pnas.org\/doi\/10.1073\/pnas.2216268120\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source<\/a>.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In consonance with Montaigne, Lawrence picks up the urgency of befriending our mortality in the poem I thought of upon encountering these new findings about the dying-living brain:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>THE SHIP OF DEATH<\/strong><br \/><em>by D.H. Lawrence<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Have you built your ship of death, or have you?<br \/>Oh build your ship of death, for you will need it.<\/p>\n<p>Now in the twilight, sit by the invisible sea<br \/>Of peace, and build your little ship<br \/>Of death, that will carry the soul<br \/>On its last journey, on and on, so still<br \/>So beautiful, over the last of seas.<\/p>\n<p>When the day comes, that will come.<br \/>Oh think of it in the twilight peacefully!<br \/>The last day, and the setting forth<br \/>On the longest journey, over the hidden sea<br \/>To the last wonder of oblivion.<\/p>\n<p>Oblivion, the last wonder!<br \/>When we have trusted ourselves entirely<br \/>To the unknown, and are taken up<br \/>Out of our little ships of death<br \/>Into pure oblivion.<\/p>\n<p>Oh build your ship of death, be building it now<br \/>With dim, calm thoughts and quiet hands<br \/>Putting its timbers together in the dusk,<\/p>\n<p>Rigging its mast with the silent, invisible sail<br \/>That will spread in death to the breeze<br \/>Of the kindness of the cosmos, that will waft<br \/>The little ship with its soul to the wonder-goal.<\/p>\n<p>Ah, if you want to live in peace on the face of the earth<br \/>Then build your ship of death, in readiness<br \/>For the longest journey, over the last of seas.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with Rebecca Elson\u2019s superb poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/04\/10\/antidotes-to-fear-of-death-rebecca-elson\/\">\u201cAntidotes to Fear of Death\u201d<\/a> and Richard Dawkins on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/07\/25\/richard-dawkins-death\/\">the luckiness of death<\/a>, then revisit D.H. Lawrence on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/11\/02\/anais-nin-d-h-lawrence\/\">the key to living fully<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cTo study philosophy is to learn to die,\u201d Montaigne wrote in his most famous essay as he reckoned with how to live. 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