{"id":2738,"date":"2023-06-01T23:05:05","date_gmt":"2023-06-02T03:05:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/how-to-connect-with-others-using-the-five-senses\/"},"modified":"2023-06-01T23:05:05","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T03:05:05","slug":"how-to-connect-with-others-using-the-five-senses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/how-to-connect-with-others-using-the-five-senses\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Connect with Others Using the Five Senses"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"135488\" class=\"elementor elementor-135488\">\n<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f6d27ea elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f6d27ea\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-81e6388\" data-id=\"81e6388\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b706b2 elementor-drop-cap-yes elementor-drop-cap-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4b706b2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;drop_cap&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p>My new book, <a href=\"\/books\/life-in-five-senses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World<\/em><\/a>, just hit the shelves. What a joy it was to write this book!<\/p>\n<p>The most important\u2014and unexpected\u2014discovery I made while working on it: We can use our five senses to strengthen our connections to others.<\/p>\n<p>The more I learned about my five senses, the more I wanted to discuss them with other people. I kept saying things like, &#8220;The smell of charcoal always makes me think of summer. How about you?&#8221; or &#8220;Did you know that elephants can hear the movement of clouds?&#8221; Sensory experiences provide a great way to connect with other people, because we all share them.<\/p>\n<p>My five senses helped me grow closer to the people I loved by helping me observe the details of their actual presence\u2014so beloved but so easy to take for granted. What\u2019s familiar is easy to ignore.<\/p>\n<p>By noticing more of the sensations associated with the people we love\u2014the smell of a shampoo, the feel of a hug, the sound of a voice\u2014we can deepen our appreciation for people and make our memories more vivid.<\/p>\n<p>In <em>Life in Five Senses<\/em>, I describe many sensory activities that can help you connect with others. Some of my favorites include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Write a <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/podcast\/326-write-a-tastes-timeline\/\">taste timeline of your life<\/a> and reminiscence about those tastes with people who shared them (my sister Elizabeth and I had a terrific time talking about the tastes of our childhood)<\/li>\n<li>Build and share a nostalgic playlist or <a href=\"\/articles\/audio-apothecary\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Audio Apothecary<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Create a <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/podcast\/387-five-senses-portrait\/\">five-senses portrait<\/a> of someone important to you<\/li>\n<li>Host a taste party where friends, family, or co-workers compare varieties or brands of different foods (apples, chips, ice cream, tea)<\/li>\n<li>Plan an activity with another person to tap into a <a href=\"\/quiz\/the-five-senses-quiz\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">neglected sense<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"\/articles\/five-senses-gift-ideas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Give a gift<\/a> that comforts or delights the five senses<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text );font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif;font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size );letter-spacing: var( --e-global-typography-text-letter-spacing )\"><br \/>To learn more about these activities and how tapping into our senses can lead to a richer life, order my new book, <\/span><a href=\"\/books\/life-in-five-senses\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text );font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif;font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size );letter-spacing: var( --e-global-typography-text-letter-spacing )\">Life in Five Senses<\/em><\/a><span style=\"color: var( --e-global-color-text );font-family: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-family ), Sans-serif;font-size: var( --e-global-typography-text-font-size );letter-spacing: var( --e-global-typography-text-letter-spacing )\">, or download the audiobook.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/section><\/div>\n<p>The post <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/articles\/connect-using-the-five-senses\/\">How to Connect with Others Using the Five Senses<\/a> appeared first on <a rel=\"nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\">Gretchen Rubin<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My new book, Life in Five Senses: How Exploring the Senses Got Me Out of My Head and Into the World, just hit the shelves. 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