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Remember that scene from Basic Instinct<\/em> where Sharon Stone\u2019s character crosses her legs? Or Fabio on those covers of romance novels? Oh!\u2014<\/em>the allure, the boldness, the sexual confidence.\u00a0<\/p>\n

These portrayals of erotic self-assurance can leave you thinking, \u201cWow!<\/em>\u201d On the flip side, though, they can make anyone feel a little lost or even behind the curve.<\/p>\n

The good news is, sexual confidence is less about crossing legs, showing off your manly physique, or even your bedroom performance. It\u2019s more about the internal\u2014being comfortable with your body, knowing your own self-worth, knowing how to communicate your desires, and having a healthy attitude towards sex.<\/p>\n

Sure, it has to do with sexual activities and relationships. However, it also extends to how you carry yourself.<\/p>\n

\u201cYour brain, your largest and most important sexual organ, is where desire and arousal begin<\/em>,\u201d Dr. Amy Killen<\/strong>, a leading anti-aging and regenerative physician and the trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s The Science of Great Sex<\/em>, explains. And with her expertise, along with that of other Mindvalley trainers, it\u2019s possible to build and boost your sexual confidence.<\/p>\n

What Does Sexual Confidence Look Like?<\/h2>\n

Imagine feeling completely at ease with yourself, emanating a glow that comes from a deep-seated sense of self-acceptance and understanding of your desires and boundaries. That<\/em> is the essence of sexual confidence.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be mistaken; it does<\/em> have to do with sexual activities and relationships. But it also extends to how you carry yourself.<\/p>\n

It manifests differently in everyone, of course. But shaping your personal understanding of this concept is like carving out a unique path in a dense forest\u2014a bit daunting but wholly necessary.<\/p>\n

For women<\/h3>\n

Feeling good about yourself can sometimes be tough, especially when it comes to private, intimate moments.\u00a0<\/p>\n

One thing that can help a lot is liking small things about yourself\u2014like enjoying your own smile, the look of your eyes, or the shape of your lips. Actually, a study<\/a> from 2018 said that these little things can matter more than being happy with your whole body.<\/p>\n

Building on that, it\u2019s really important to push away the hard standards often seen in movies or ads. It\u2019s okay to not meet everyone\u2019s expectations and just be yourself.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Layla Martin<\/strong>, the founder of the VITA\u2122 Coaching Method and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Neo-Tantra<\/em> Quest, knows a lot about this. She suggests, \u201cWhen you change the emotional tone, you start having positive feelings towards your body and sexuality, and this builds a deeper confidence<\/em>.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n

What does that mean in simple terms? Loving and respecting yourself can lead to better experiences and choices in your intimate life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, feeling sexually confident isn\u2019t about changing your body. It\u2019s about loving what is uniquely yours, having the courage to awaken your inner sex goddess<\/a>, and being yourself in intimate moments, free from the pressure of outside voices.<\/p>\n

For men<\/h3>\n

Feeling good about yourself isn\u2019t always straightforward, especially with so many mixed messages from society about how men \u201cshould\u201d be. It\u2019s like walking on a tightrope between being the tough, \u201cmacho\u201d guy and being open to showing vulnerability.<\/p>\n

According to a big study<\/a> in Europe on sexual confidence, most people\u2014nearly 94%\u2014believe that it\u2019s vital for a man to have sexual confidence to have good sex. Moreover, feeling good in the bedroom can lead to being more satisfied in life in general.<\/p>\n

Interestingly, about 79% said being able to satisfy their partner was a big factor in a man\u2019s sexual confidence. Also, one in three people linked it to physical stuff, like having a strong erection and reaching orgasm.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u201cAll lack of confidence comes from being stuck in your head instead of being present in the moment<\/em>,\u201d as the late Psalm Isadora<\/strong>, a sexuality and intimacy expert, said. (Unfortunately, Psalm passed away in 2017 but her teachings are still available on Mindvalley\u2019s Tantra Touch<\/em> Quest.)\u00a0<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a great and gentle reminder that to reclaim your sexual power<\/a>, you must be in the here and now, rather than getting lost in doubts or fears.<\/p>\n

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