{"id":4363,"date":"2023-10-01T02:35:49","date_gmt":"2023-10-01T06:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/ursula-k-le-guin-on-change-menopause-as-rebirth-and-the-civilizational-value-of-elders-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2023-10-01T02:35:49","modified_gmt":"2023-10-01T06:35:49","slug":"ursula-k-le-guin-on-change-menopause-as-rebirth-and-the-civilizational-value-of-elders-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/ursula-k-le-guin-on-change-menopause-as-rebirth-and-the-civilizational-value-of-elders-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Ursula K. Le Guin on Change, Menopause as Rebirth, and the Civilizational Value of Elders \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Dancing-Edge-World-Thoughts-Places\/dp\/0802135293\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"320\" height=\"474\" class=\"cover alignright size-medium jetpack-lazy-image\" alt=\"Ursula K. Le Guin on Change, Menopause as Rebirth, and the Civilizational Value of Elders\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?resize=320%2C474&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?resize=600%2C888&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?resize=240%2C355&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?resize=768%2C1137&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?resize=1038%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1038w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/leguin_dancing.jpg?fit=320%2C474&amp;ssl=1&amp;is-pending-load=1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cGod is Change,\u201d Octavia Butler <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/06\/22\/octavia-butler-god\/\">wrote<\/a>, wresting the poetic truth from the scientific fact that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/04\/07\/the-more-loving-one-auden-universe-in-verse\/\">entropy is the ruling law of the universe<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>We know that everything changes, that everything passes, transitions from one state to another, from one stage to another \u2014 and yet, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/05\/22\/alan-lightman-accidental-universe-impermanence\/\">our irrational longing for permanence<\/a>, we try and try to hedge against change, denounce it as deterioration, dread it as a prelude to death. <\/p>\n<p>Nowhere is this dread more acute than in the changes incurred by the body, that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/05\/10\/sweat-bill-hayes\/\">crucible of the soul<\/a>. And no one has offered a greater salve for it than <strong>Ursula K. Le Guin<\/strong> (October 21, 1929\u2013January 22, 2018) in one of the essays from her altogether indispensable 1989 collection <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Dancing-Edge-World-Thoughts-Places\/dp\/0802135293\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>Dancing at the Edge of the World: Thoughts on Words, Women, Places<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.worldcat.org\/title\/dancing-at-the-edge-of-the-world-thoughts-on-words-women-places\/oclc\/17917308&amp;referer=brief_results\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>), which also gave us her reflections on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/11\/21\/ursula-k-le-guin-where-do-you-get-your-ideas\/\">writing and where ideas come from<\/a>.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_81014\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"357\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81014 jetpack-lazy-image\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C168&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C315&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C126&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C403&amp;ssl=1 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C357&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=680%2C357&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"357\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81014\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=320%2C168&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=600%2C315&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=240%2C126&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/ursulakleguin_TheMarginalian.jpg?resize=768%2C403&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Ursula K. Le Guin<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Living through one of the profoundest changes a human body-soul can undergo \u2014 menopause, long cottoned in the euphemism \u201cchange of life\u201d \u2014 she writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The woman who is willing to make that change must become pregnant with herself, at last. She must bear herself, her third self, her old age, with travail and alone. Not many will help her with that birth.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Although biologically particular to female bodies, Le Guin goes on to observe, menopause is a lens on the universal experience of change and our civilizational bias against old age. With her characteristic largehearted, vast-minded, mischievous wisdom, she writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>If a space ship came by from the friendly natives of the fourth planet of Altair, and the polite captain of the space ship said, \u201cWe have room for one passenger; will you spare us a single human being, so that we may converse at leisure during the long trip back to Altair and learn from an exemplary person the nature of the race?\u201d \u2014 I suppose what most people would want to do is provide them with a fine, bright, brave young man, highly educated and in peak physical condition\u2026 There would surely be hundreds, thousands of volunteers, just such young men, all worthy. But I would not pick any of them. Nor would I pick any of the young women who would volunteer, some out of magnanimity and intellectual courage, others out of a profound conviction that Altair couldn\u2019t possibly be any worse for a woman than Earth is. <\/p>\n<p>What I would do is go down to the local Woolworth\u2019s, or the local village marketplace, and pick an old woman, over sixty, from behind the costume jewelry counter or the betel-nut booth. Her hair would not be red or blonde or lustrous dark, her skin would not be dewy fresh, she would not have the secret of eternal youth. She might, however, show you a small snapshot of her grandson, who is working in Nairobi. She is a bit vague about where Nairobi is, but extremely proud of the grandson. She has worked hard at small, unimportant jobs all her life, jobs like cooking, cleaning, bringing up kids, selling little objects of adornment or pleasure to other people.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/01\/16\/what-is-love-carson-ellis-mac-barnett\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/whatislove_ellis_barnett14.jpg?w=1200&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/data:image\/gif;base64,https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" class=\" jetpack-lazy-image\"\/><noscript><img data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/whatislove_ellis_barnett14.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Art by Carson Ellis from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/01\/16\/what-is-love-carson-ellis-mac-barnett\/\"><em>What Is Love<\/em><\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>With an eye to our troubled cultural model of aging \u2014 something Le Guin would address several years later in her <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/10\/21\/ursula-le-guin-dogs-cats-dancers-beauty\/\">exquisite meditation on the art of growing older<\/a> \u2014 she adds:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The trouble is, she will be very reluctant to volunteer. \u201cWhat would an old woman like me do on Altair?\u201d she\u2019ll say. \u201cYou ought to send one of those scientist men, they can talk to those funny-looking green people. Maybe Dr. Kissinger should go. What about sending the Shaman?\u201d It will be very hard to explain to her that we want her to go because only a person who has experienced, accepted, and acted the entire human condition \u2014 the essential quality of which is Change \u2014 can fairly represent humanity. \u201cMe?\u201d she\u2019ll say, just a trifle slyly. \u201cBut I never did anything.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>But it won\u2019t wash. She knows, though she won\u2019t admit it, that Dr. Kissinger has not gone and will never go where she has gone, that the scientists and the shamans have not done what she has done. Into the space ship, Granny.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with Simone de Beauvoir on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/07\/31\/simone-de-beauvoir-coming-of-age\/\">how to grow old without letting life become a parody of itself<\/a>, Bertrand Russell on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2018\/07\/03\/how-to-grow-old-bertrand-russell\/\">the key to growing old contentedly<\/a>, and Grace Paley\u2019s almost unbearably wonderful <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2015\/09\/03\/grace-paley-aging\/\">instruction on the art of growing older<\/a>, then revisit Le Guin on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2018\/01\/30\/ursula-k-le-guin-walking-on-the-water\/\">storytelling and the power of language<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2018\/11\/29\/ursula-k-le-guin-the-dispossessed-suffering\/\">suffering and getting to the other side of pain<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2015\/10\/21\/telling-is-listening-ursula-k-le-guin-communication\/\">the magic of real human conversation<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/12\/03\/ursula-k-le-guin-poetry-penguins\/\">the poetry of penguins<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cGod is Change,\u201d Octavia Butler wrote, wresting the poetic truth from the scientific fact that entropy is the ruling law of the universe. 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