{"id":4590,"date":"2023-10-17T12:27:02","date_gmt":"2023-10-17T16:27:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/3-things-you-shouldnt-let-people-say-to-you\/"},"modified":"2023-10-17T12:27:02","modified_gmt":"2023-10-17T16:27:02","slug":"3-things-you-shouldnt-let-people-say-to-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/3-things-you-shouldnt-let-people-say-to-you\/","title":{"rendered":"3 Things You Shouldn&#8217;t Let People Say to You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"articleBody\">\n<p>Has anyone ever said something that affected you negatively? Did you feel like your self-worth or self-esteem was lost because of it? If yes, then you would agree that there are things you shouldn\u2019t let people say to you.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Never Accept These Painful Things People Say to You\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QlTIqNCQorU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p><strong>Here are three things you shouldn\u2019t accept or let people say to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ezoic-autoinsert-video ezoic-under_first_paragraph\"\/><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-640x360-999998-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-640x360-999998-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-426x240-999998-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-426x240-999998-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-384x216-999998-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_first_paragraph-384x216-999998-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"0--you-are-not-good-enough-\">#1 <strong>You are not good enough<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>One question I couldn\u2019t answer for more than a decade ago was, \u201care you good enough\u201d? The primary reason I had no answer to this question was that I had accepted that I wasn\u2019t good enough at the things I did or would like to do. It became difficult to take simple compliments like \u201cAnthony, you did great!\u201d \u201cYou are good at this.\u201d All I could see was that I was not good enough in anything I did. As a result, I developed a low self-confidence.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ezoic-autoinsert-video ezoic-under_second_paragraph\"\/><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-640x360-999997-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-640x360-999997-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-426x240-999997-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-426x240-999997-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-384x216-999997-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-under_second_paragraph-384x216-999997-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><\/p>\n<p>If you still accept these words from anyone, here\u2019s something that you need to know. You don\u2019t have to be good enough to be or do anything worthwhile.<\/p>\n<p>A young lady who took part in America has got talent competition showcased her talent in playing the violin while she dances. After an excellent performance, one of the judges told her that \u201cyou aren\u2019t good enough to fly through the air while playing the violin at the same time.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>The thought that she wasn\u2019t good enough to go after her dreams made her depressed for a while. However, she refused to let the opinions of the judges limit her and went on with her goal. That lady is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCyC_4jvPzLiSkJkLIkA7B8g\">Lindsey Sterling<\/a>, a famous American hip-pop violinist known for dancing and playing her violin at the same time. <\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ezoic-autoinsert-video ezoic-mid_content\"\/><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-640x360-999996-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-640x360-999996-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-426x240-999996-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-426x240-999996-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-384x216-999996-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-mid_content-384x216-999996-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><\/p>\n<p>Had Lindsey accepted that she wasn\u2019t good enough as the judges told her and let those words limit her, she would have never achieved success doing what she loves.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sylvester Stallone recognized this in the famous movie\u00a0<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=mk82j1jQw_8\">Rocky Balboa<\/a> when he said:<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p> \u201c<strong>You grew up so good, but somewhere along the line you changed, you stop being you, you let people stick a finger in your face and tell you, you\u2019re no good.\u201d\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><cite> <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=mk82j1jQw_8\">Rocky Balboa<\/a> <\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You stopped being great because you let people\u2019s negative opinion of you become your reality instead of focusing on improving yourself. If someone says you aren\u2019t good enough to be or do anything you want, know this;<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"3 Things You Must Never Let Anyone Say to You\" class=\"wp-image-6257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-696x696.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-1068x1068.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176-420x420.jpg 420w, https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/3-Things-You-Must-Never-Let-ANyone-Say-to-You-2962965449-1569685015176.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Related: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/books-to-help-build-self-confidence\/\" target=\"_blank\">Best Selling Books to Help Build Your Confidence<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t have to be good enough to feel good enough because anything worth being or doing is worth doing badly until you get it right.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"1--you-cant-do-it-\">#2 <strong>You can\u2019t do it<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Has anyone told you that you couldn\u2019t do something even when you know you can? If yes, then you are certainly not alone. I heard this one too many that it became voices in my head, continually saying Anthony \u2013 \u201cyou can\u2019t do that,\u201d \u201cyou are incapable of doing this\u2026\u201d Imagine someone you trust, love, admire, and respect like a friend, family member, partner, mentor, tell you that you couldn\u2019t do something. Notice how quickly you will back out from the thought that you can do it because you feel that person knows about your capabilities. Unfortunately, many today quit because the person they admire, respect or love told them that they couldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n<p>If this is true for you; you need to hear this from Will Smith in The Pursuit of Happyness;<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\">\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>\u201cNever let someone tell you, you can\u2019t do something, not even me. You got a dream, you\u2019ve got to protect it. People can\u2019t do something themselves, they want to tell you, you can\u2019t do it. If you want something, go get it.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><cite> The Pursuit of Happyness <\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p> \u201cDon\u2019t ever let someone tell you, you can\u2019t do something.\u201d\u00a0\u2013 Chris Gardner<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>He\u2019s right! When people say you can\u2019t do something, it\u2019s because they can\u2019t see past the fact that they can not do it themselves. And as Raph Waldo Emerson said, \u201c<strong>Neither you nor anyone in the world knows what you can do until you have tried<\/strong>.\u201d So own it, you are more capable than you think you are.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ezoic-autoinsert-video ezoic-longer_content\"\/><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-640x360-999994-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-640x360-999994-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-426x240-999994-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-426x240-999994-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-384x216-999994-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longer_content-384x216-999994-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"2--you-dont-have-what-it-takes-\">#3 <strong>You don\u2019t have what it takes<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>\u201cYou don\u2019t have what it takes to get the job,\u201d \u201cyou don\u2019t have it in you, the talent, the looks, the education\u2026\u201d Do these sound familiar? These are only their views of what it takes but not what truly it takes to do anything you want.\u00a0People like Oprah, Chris Gardner, JK Rowling who started from nothing not having what it takes as others defined but today are among the wealthiest people, business owners and more.<\/p>\n<p>There is one person above all others that you must never let you tell you that you don\u2019t have what it in you. That person is YOU, your thoughts, the voices in your head always telling you that you don\u2019t have it in you to reach your goals and actualize your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>What does it take actually to do or have the things you want? Zig Ziglar said it all;\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201c<strong>You\u2019ve got to be before you can do and do before you can have.<\/strong>\u201c<\/p>\n<p><cite> Zig Ziglar <\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In other words, before you can have the things you want, you must first do, and before you do the things that you must, you must first be. Having what it takes comes from a place of BEING! Become the person it takes to do the things you must and have what you want.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"ezoic-autoinsert-video ezoic-longest_content\"\/><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-640x360-999993-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-640x360-999993-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-426x240-999993-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-426x240-999993-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-384x216-999993-clearholder --><!-- ezoic_video_placeholder-longest_content-384x216-999993-nonexxxclearxxxblock --><\/p>\n<p>Related: <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thesuccesselite.com\/untold-story-positive-affirmations\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Untold Story of the Power of Affirmations<\/a><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-instagram wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-instagram\"\/>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"3--final-thoughts--on-things-you-shouldnt-let-people-say-to-you\"><strong>Final thoughts<\/strong> on things you shouldn\u2019t let people say to you<\/h2>\n<p>You must recognize that it\u2019s all up to you, should you choose to accept these negative words or reject them. Just like\u00a0<strong>Eleanor Roosevelt<\/strong>\u00a0said in her famous quote;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p>\u201cNo one can make you feel inferior without your consent<strong>.<\/strong>\u201d\u00a0<strong>Eleanor Roosevelt<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>No one has the right to make you think or feel inferior only if you let them by basing yourself on their opinions of you. Only those whom you grant permission can influence your self-worth, self-confidence, and self-esteem. People will always say negative things to you, but the sooner recognize that their words don\u2019t define you, but are merely opinions, the better you keep them from becoming real.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Develop a tough skin, no matter where you are, what you do, or how far you go, people will always have something negative to say that can influence your life if you accept them. Above all, never base your decisions on someone\u2019s opinions about you as a great motivational speaker, Les Brown said;\u00a0<strong>someone\u2019s opinion of you doesn\u2019t have to become your reality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"4--before-you\u00a0go-\"><strong>Before You\u00a0Go<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>I appreciate all of the love that this article is getting. There\u2019s no better way to support me than to share with friends.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d also love to learn more from you. What other things do you think people shouldn\u2019t say to you? 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