{"id":468,"date":"2022-12-29T09:21:08","date_gmt":"2022-12-29T13:21:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/nick-cave-on-the-antidote-to-our-existential-helplessness-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2022-12-29T09:21:08","modified_gmt":"2022-12-29T13:21:08","slug":"nick-cave-on-the-antidote-to-our-existential-helplessness-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/nick-cave-on-the-antidote-to-our-existential-helplessness-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Nick Cave on the Antidote to Our Existential Helplessness \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>We live between the scale of gluons and the scale of galaxies, incapable of touching either, irrelevant to the fate of both. Forged of the dust of dying stars, we move through a universe of impartial laws with our dreams and desires, passionate pawns in the hands of grand-master chance, daily watching the world spin counter to our wishes, daily watching ourselves bend against our own will. <\/p>\n<p>How, against the backdrop of this cosmic helplessness, can we muster the sense of agency necessary for conducting our human lives, much less fill them with the majesty of meaning?  <\/p>\n<p>That is what <strong>Nick Cave<\/strong> addresses in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theredhandfiles.com\/i-love-the-song-night-raid\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">answering<\/a> a fan\u2019s lament about the devastating feeling of existential helplessness and impotence. <\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_79464\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"453\" class=\"size-full wp-image-79464 jetpack-lazy-image\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=320%2C213&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=240%2C160&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=680%2C453&amp;is-pending-load=1#038;ssl=1\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=680%2C453&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"453\" class=\"size-full wp-image-79464\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=320%2C213&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=600%2C400&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=240%2C160&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/NickCave_TheMarginalian.png?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nick Cave in Newcastle, 2022.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Unpacking the central creative image one of his songs, he writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The everyday human gesture is always a heartbeat away from the miraculous \u2014 [remember] that ultimately we make things happen through our actions, way beyond our understanding or intention; that our seemingly small ordinary human acts have untold consequences; that what we do in this world means something; that <em>we are not nothing<\/em>; and that our most quotidian human actions <em>by their nature<\/em> burst the seams of our intent and spill meaningfully and radically through time and space, changing <em>everything<\/em>\u2026 Our deeds, no matter how insignificant they may feel, are replete with meaning, and of vast consequence, and\u2026 they constantly impact upon the unfolding story of the world, whether we know it or not.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Turning directly to the man who had lost the sense of personal significance and power, he adds:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Rather than feel impotent and useless, you must come to terms with the fact that as a human being you are infinitely powerful, and take responsibility for this tremendous power. Even our smallest actions have potential for great change, positively or negatively, and the way in which we all conduct ourselves within the world <em>means something<\/em>. You are anything but impotent, you are, in fact, exquisitely and frighteningly dynamic, as are we all, and with all respect you have an obligation to stand up and take responsibility for that potential. It is your most ordinary and urgent duty.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_64202\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/society6.com\/product\/salut-au-monde_print?sku=s6-8967918p4a1v45?curator=brainpicker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/margaretcook_leavesofgrass12.jpg?is-pending-load=1\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/data:image\/gif;base64,https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7\" class=\" jetpack-lazy-image\"\/><noscript><img data-lazy-fallback=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/margaretcook_leavesofgrass12.jpg\"\/><\/noscript><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of English artist Margaret C. Cook\u2019s illustrations for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2018\/04\/11\/leaves-of-grass-margaret-cook\/\">a rare 1913 edition<\/a> of Walt Whitman\u2019s <em>Leaves of Grass<\/em>. (Available <a href=\"https:\/\/society6.com\/product\/salut-au-monde_print?sku=s6-8967918p4a1v45?curator=brainpicker\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">as a print<\/a>.)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/10\/16\/nick-cave-hope-faith-carnage-self-forgiveness\/\"><strong><em>Faith, Hope and Carnage<\/em><\/strong><\/a> \u2014 one of my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/12\/09\/favorite-books-of-2022\/\">favorite books of 2022<\/a> \u2014 Cave illustrates this potency of the subtle acts with one such \u201csmall but monumental gesture\u201d extended by a near-stranger with seemingly very small locus of power in the world, yet one who made an immense difference in his life in the wake of grieving his son:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>There\u2019s a vegetarian takeaway place in Brighton called Infinity, where I would eat sometimes. I went there the first time I\u2019d gone out in public after Arthur had died. There was a woman who worked there and I was always friendly with her, just the normal pleasantries, but I liked her. I was standing in the queue and she asked me what I wanted and it felt a little strange, because there was no acknowledgement of anything. She treated me like anyone else, matter-of-factly, professionally. She gave me my food and I gave her the money\u2026 As she gave me back my change, she squeezed my hand. Purposefully.<\/p>\n<p>It was such a quiet act of kindness. The simplest and most articulate of gestures, but, at the same time, it meant more than all that anybody had tried to tell me\u2026 because of the failure of language in the face of catastrophe. She wished the best for me, in that moment. There was something truly moving to me about that simple, wordless act of compassion\u2026 I\u2019ll never forget that. In difficult times I often go back to that feeling she gave me. Human beings are remarkable, really. Such nuanced, subtle creatures.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with E.B. White\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2014\/05\/06\/e-b-white-letters-of-note-book\/\">wonderful answer<\/a> to a man who had lost faith in humanity, Erich Fromm\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/03\/22\/erich-fromm-revolution-of-hope\/\">antidote to helplessness and disorientation<\/a>, and Adrienne Rich\u2019s magnificent poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2017\/05\/02\/rosanne-cash-adrienne-rich-marie-curie\/\">\u201cPower,\u201d<\/a> then revisit Nick Cave on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/10\/16\/nick-cave-hope-faith-carnage-self-forgiveness\/\">creative work as living amends<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/11\/10\/nick-cave-faith-hope-carnage-music\/\">the relationship between vulnerability and freedom<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/04\/05\/gabriel-marcel-nick-cave-hope-cynicism\/\">the real meaning and muscle of hope<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We live between the scale of gluons and the scale of galaxies, incapable of touching either, irrelevant to the fate of both. 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