{"id":5101,"date":"2023-11-22T18:24:02","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T22:24:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/identify-the-problem-burnout-at-work\/"},"modified":"2023-11-22T18:24:02","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T22:24:02","slug":"identify-the-problem-burnout-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/identify-the-problem-burnout-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Identify the Problem: Burnout at Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>In my book <em><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/books\/the-happiness-project\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Happiness Project<\/a><\/em>, I made a list of my <a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/articles\/six-tips-for-designing-your-happiness-commandments\/\">twelve Personal Commandments<\/a>\u2014the overarching precepts I use to guide my thoughts and actions.<\/p>\n<p>My Eighth Personal Commandment is to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/gretchenrubin.com\/articles\/identify-the-problem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Identify the problem<\/a><\/strong>. That is, when I\u2019m annoyed, angered, or frustrated, I should pause to ask myself, \u201cWhat <em>exactly <\/em>is the problem here?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s surprisingly easy to skip this step.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIdentifying the problem\u201d seems like an obvious step, yet recognizing its importance has been one of my most major happiness-project breakthroughs.<\/p>\n<p>When we take the time to pinpoint the actual source of the problem, it\u2019s much easier to see how to solve it. Even if that solution isn\u2019t easy, it\u2019s <em>clearer<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>In my observation, people often skip this crucial step! They know something is amiss, but have only a vague sense of what the true problem might be. And because they haven\u2019t pinpointed the problem, they\u2019re not effective at addressing that problem.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, this issue often arises around burn-out. People tell me, \u201cI\u2019m so burned out at work! What do I do?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Well, that depends. <em>Why<\/em> <em>exactly<\/em> do you feel burned out?<\/p>\n<p>While \u201cburn-out\u201d sounds specific, there are many reasons you might be feeling burned out\u2014and the solutions would be very different, depending on the cause.<\/p>\n<p>Are you burned out because\u2026?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>your department has recently been downsized and now you\u2019re expected to do twice as much work<\/li>\n<li>your best friend at work took another job, and now work just isn\u2019t fun<\/li>\n<li>your team wastes so much time in meetings that you\u2019re incredibly frustrated and behind in your work<\/li>\n<li>you\u2019re not treated fairly<\/li>\n<li>you\u2019re a social person, and because people come in only a few days each week, you\u2019re not getting the face-to-face time you need<\/li>\n<li>your boss now insists that you work in person every day, and your commute is draining<\/li>\n<li>you feel exploited and unappreciated<\/li>\n<li>you\u2019ve been staying up until 2:00 a.m. to watch TV<\/li>\n<li>your workplace makes sudden changes to workload, deadlines, and assignments without warning, so you feel you have no control<\/li>\n<li>you want to find a new job, but you\u2019ve been procrastinating about starting the process<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are all common reasons that people feel \u201cburned out\u201d\u2014but they need different responses.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds so easy to identify the problem, but it\u2019s harder than it sounds.<\/p>\n<p>Growing up, I thought I hated to exercise. I dreaded gym, and although I played on a team, I didn\u2019t enjoy it at all. But finally I identified the real problem(s): I don\u2019t like games! And I\u2019m uncoordinated and bad at sports! But I like to <em>exercise<\/em>. Now I walk and do strength-training and yoga. No games, no coordination, just exercise.<\/p>\n<p>A friend recently told me, \u201cI thought I wanted outdoor space for my apartment. Then I realized that I actually want a husband.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Identify the problem!<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In my book The Happiness Project, I made a list of my twelve Personal Commandments\u2014the overarching precepts I use to guide my thoughts and actions. 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