{"id":6235,"date":"2024-01-22T11:01:17","date_gmt":"2024-01-22T15:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/william-staffords-poetic-calibration-of-perspective-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2024-01-22T11:01:17","modified_gmt":"2024-01-22T15:01:17","slug":"william-staffords-poetic-calibration-of-perspective-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/william-staffords-poetic-calibration-of-perspective-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"William Stafford\u2019s Poetic Calibration of Perspective \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Way-New-Selected-Poems\/dp\/1555972691\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"320\" height=\"501\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?fit=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"cover alignright size-medium\" alt=\"Yes: William Stafford\u2019s Poetic Calibration of Perspective\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?w=958&amp;ssl=1 958w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=320%2C501&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=600%2C939&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=240%2C376&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/thewayitis_stafford.jpg?resize=768%2C1203&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When a recent bout of illness sent me sulking with indignant disappointment at the ruin of long laid plans, I had to remind myself that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/11\/02\/pattiann-rogers-homo-sapiens\/\">we were never promised any of this<\/a>; that it is hubris and self-importance and almost touching delusion to expect an indifferent cosmos to bend to our will, our wishes, and our plans; that meeting the universe on its own terms is the end of suffering. <\/p>\n<p>Through the haze of what Virginia Woolf called the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2019\/05\/06\/virginia-woolf-on-being-ill\/\">\u201cwastes and deserts of the soul\u201d<\/a> exposed by being ill, I remembered a lovely calibration of perspective by the poet and peace activist <strong>William Stafford<\/strong> (January 17, 1914\u2013August 28, 1993), found in the posthumous collection <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Way-New-Selected-Poems\/dp\/1555972691\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>The Way It Is: New and Selected Poems<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/search.worldcat.org\/title\/43938666\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Yes&quot; by William Stafford (read by Maria Popova)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/p78TwPjspd8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>YES<\/strong><br \/><em>by William Stafford<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It could happen any time, tornado,<br \/>earthquake, Armageddon. It could happen.<br \/>Or sunshine, love, salvation.<\/p>\n<p>It could, you know. That\u2019s why we wake<br \/>and look out \u2014 no guarantees<br \/>in this life.<\/p>\n<p>But some bonuses, like morning,<br \/>like right now, like noon,<br \/>like evening.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Stafford had a late start as a poet \u2014 his first major collection was published when he was 48. And then the poems that had been writing themselves in him all his life came pouring out, spare and stunning. Within eight years, he was elected Poet Laureate of the United Staes. <\/p>\n<p>The morning before he died in the final year of his seventies, he drafted a poem containing these lines:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>You can\u2019t tell when strange things with meaning<br \/>will happen. I\u2019m [still] here writing it down<br \/>just the way it was. \u201cYou don\u2019t have to<br \/>prove anything,\u201d my mother said. \u201cJust be ready<br \/>for what God sends.\u201d I listened and put my hand<br \/>out in the sun again. It was all easy.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with Viktor Frankl, writing shortly after his release from the concentration camps, on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2020\/05\/17\/yes-to-life-in-spite-of-everything-viktor-frankl\/\">saying \u201cyes\u201d to life in spite of everything<\/a> and Henry James on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2022\/10\/17\/henry-james-the-beast-in-the-jungle\/\">how to stop waiting and start living<\/a>, then revisit Barbara Ras\u2019s kindred poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2019\/02\/07\/you-cant-have-it-all-barbara-ras-emily-levine\/\">\u201cYou Can\u2019t Have It All\u201d<\/a> and Hannah Emerson\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/09\/26\/hannah-emerson-center-of-the-universe\/\">cosmic howl of <em>yes yes yes<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a recent bout of illness sent me sulking with indignant disappointment at the ruin of long laid plans, I had to remind myself that [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6236,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6235\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6236"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}