{"id":6717,"date":"2024-03-05T06:46:50","date_gmt":"2024-03-05T10:46:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/unlocking-the-true-meaning-of-success-frank-sonnenberg\/"},"modified":"2024-03-05T06:46:50","modified_gmt":"2024-03-05T10:46:50","slug":"unlocking-the-true-meaning-of-success-frank-sonnenberg","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/unlocking-the-true-meaning-of-success-frank-sonnenberg\/","title":{"rendered":"Unlocking the True Meaning of Success \u2014 Frank Sonnenberg"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Everybody\u2019s definition of success is different. Some folks crave <em>wealth<\/em>, <em>power<\/em>, and <em>status<\/em> while others yearn for deep-seated <em>relationships<\/em>. Some people collect <em>things<\/em> while others collect <em>memories<\/em>. Some folks strive to <em>be the best<\/em> while others must know that they <em>tried their best<\/em>. How do you define the true meaning of success?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Do you define success as <em>having<\/em> more or <em>being<\/em> more?<\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s hard to define the meaning of success, it\u2019s easy to say what it\u2019s not. Some people are toxic. They\u2019re egotistical, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/8-ways-to-spot-greedy-people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">greedy<\/a>, and mean-spirited \u2014 they\u2019ll do anything to get what they want. No success there. Other folks are destructive. They\u2019re sneaky, dishonest, and lazy \u2014 they rarely pull their weight and expect others to bear the burden. (Ugh.)<\/p>\n<h3>How Do You Define Success for Yourself?<\/h3>\n<p>One reason success is hard to define is because we let others define it for us rather than determine it for ourselves. For example, family, friends, and colleagues may define success one way, while society at large defines it another.<\/p>\n<p>If you could wave a magic wand and determine your fate, which five factors would be <em>paramount <\/em>in defining success for you \u2014 and which five would be <em>negligible<\/em>?<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Accumulate wealth, power, and status.<\/li>\n<li>Compare favorably with others.<\/li>\n<li>Maintain strong relationships.<\/li>\n<li>Parent well-adjusted kids.<\/li>\n<li>Leave a legacy.<\/li>\n<li>Believe in yourself.<\/li>\n<li>Have time to do what you love.<\/li>\n<li>Serve God.<\/li>\n<li>Find <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/inner-peace-is-a-choice\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">inner peace<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Achieve a flourishing career.<\/li>\n<li>Have strong family ties.<\/li>\n<li>Make a difference.<\/li>\n<li>Achieve success with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/live-with-honor-and-integrity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">honor and integrity<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Create many special memories.<\/li>\n<li>Leave the world a better place.<\/li>\n<li>Live life with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/living-life-with-a-purpose\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">purpose<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>You may be thinking that all these things are important. But what happens when choices must be made?<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What was your rationale for selecting the five most\/least important factors?<\/li>\n<li>How does your response compare to reality?<\/li>\n<li>What steps must you take to make your aspirations come true?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>You Are What You Repeatedly Do<\/h3>\n<p>You are faced with choices every day. You can invest in your future or live it up today, accumulate possessions or give your life meaning, count on yourself or become dependent on others, make a difference in someone\u2019s life or focus on more ways to better your own. The fact is that you have the freedom to choose, but you\u2019re not free from the consequences of those choices.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Your life is determined by the sum of the choices that you make.<\/p>\n<p>There is no doubt that you can achieve <em>anything<\/em> or become <em>whoever <\/em>you want to be. It not only takes effort and dedication, but there are serious trade-offs in the process. So, determine your priorities carefully, and do what matters most. As Aristotle said, \u201cWe are what we repeatedly do.\u00a0Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.\u201d Be careful what you strive for. Success doesn\u2019t always lead to happiness. Your future will be determined more by <em>choice<\/em> than by <em>chance.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>LISTEN UP \u2026\u00a0\u00a0<em>Listen to Your Conscience. That\u2019s Why You Have One<\/em>\u00a0is now available as an audiobook. Check it out on\u00a0,\u00a0, or\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/apple.co\/41mzuVO\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">iTunes<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s the Meaning of Success for You?<\/h3>\n<p><b>Please leave a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/unlocking-the-true-meaning-of-success\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">comment<\/a>\u00a0and tell us what you think or\u00a0share it with someone who can benefit from the\u00a0information.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Additional Reading:<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/20-choices-that-will-determine-your-destiny\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">20 Choices that Will Determine Your Destiny<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/what-are-your-biggest-regrets-in-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">What Are Your Biggest Regrets in Life?<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/10-critical-rules-for-living-a-happy-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">10 Critical Rules for Living a Happy Life<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/change-your-priorities-change-your-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Change Your Priorities: Change Your Life<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/to-be-or-not-to-be\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">To Be or Not to Be<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/prosperity-isnt-about-money\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Prosperity Isn\u2019t About Money<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/the-secret-to-true-happiness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Secret to True Happiness<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Follow me:<\/strong><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/FrankSonnenbergOnline\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/franksonnenberg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/FSonnenberg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">X<\/a>\u00a0(Formerly Twitter)<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/franksonnenberg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pinterest\u00a0<\/a>and<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/franksonnenbergonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #808080;\">If you like this article, subscribe to our blog so that you don\u2019t miss a single post. 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