{"id":6875,"date":"2024-03-19T05:14:38","date_gmt":"2024-03-19T09:14:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-new-math-adds-up-to-more-frank-sonnenberg-online\/"},"modified":"2024-03-19T05:14:38","modified_gmt":"2024-03-19T09:14:38","slug":"the-new-math-adds-up-to-more-frank-sonnenberg-online","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/the-new-math-adds-up-to-more-frank-sonnenberg-online\/","title":{"rendered":"The New Math Adds Up to More \u2014 Frank Sonnenberg Online"},"content":{"rendered":"

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We\u2019re all taught that 3-1=2. But what if I told you that\u2019s not always true. It\u2019s easy to overlook the profound joy that we get from giving. Contrary to popular belief, the act of parting with something tangible<\/em> opens the door to a treasure trove of intangible<\/em> rewards for the giver. In fact, when you give<\/a> something away, you\u2019ll actually gain more<\/em> as a result. So, in that case, 3-1=4. That\u2019s the new math.<\/p>\n

You gain so much more by giving.<\/p>\n

Sharing is a tough concept for kindergarteners to learn because they\u2019re still developing their sense of ownership and worry that they won\u2019t get their favorite items back. As they grow older, positive reinforcement can help them develop better social skills and understand the benefit of being generous. Unfortunately, some grownups never learned the value of sharing or giving.<\/p>\n

Four Obstacles That Prevent Generosity<\/h3>\n

Embracing the art of giving can prove to be quite challenging for some people. Here are four reasons why people fail to give:<\/p>\n

Giving is synonymous with losing.<\/strong><\/span> Most people believe that parting with something is negative<\/a>. But giving something away doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re giving something up.<\/p>\n

Giving is forced down your throat. <\/strong><\/span>When giving is mandatory or when you\u2019re shamed into being charitable, the joy of being generous is diminished. Instead of gaining a sense of pride, people get annoyed and resentful for being required to do something against their will.<\/p>\n

Long-held habits are hard to break. <\/strong><\/span>Some people think, \u201cI haven\u2019t given before, so why start now?\u201d The key is to break the long-term habit by giving a little today\u2026and a bit more tomorrow.<\/p>\n

Folks give for the wrong reason.<\/strong><\/span> When you give of yourself and expect something in return, it\u2019s a transaction, not a kind gesture. When you focus on the payback rather than the good that you\u2019re doing, you lose something valuable in the process.<\/p>\n

The gift is in giving, not in the payback.<\/p>\n

The Plus of Giving<\/h3>\n

Did you ever do something incredibly kind for someone and have the gesture met with overwhelming appreciation? The recipient may have said, \u201cI\u2019m speechless,\u201d \u201cI can\u2019t thank you enough for your thoughtfulness,\u201d or \u201cHow can I repay you for your kindness?\u201d<\/p>\n

There\u2019s clearly a misunderstanding because the recipient thinks the gesture\u2019s one-sided \u2014 they benefited, you lost.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s categorically untrue.<\/p>\n

Depending on your level of generosity, you may have made someone\u2019s day, enriched someone\u2019s spirit, or even altered the course of someone\u2019s life. How cool is that! Despite the fact that you\u2019re bursting with pride, the recipient thanks you anyway for your kindness and generosity. Although their appreciation is certainly welcomed, the joy that you received from making a difference in someone\u2019s life would certainly have been reward enough.<\/p>\n

New Math \u2014 The Addition of Subtraction<\/h3>\n

In a world driven by an unending appetite for material possessions, the joy of giving<\/a> often remains underestimated. While parting with tangible possessions may seem like a sacrifice, the intangible rewards that giving brings are immeasurable. That heartwarming feeling that accompanies generosity, the joy that emerges from making a difference<\/a> in someone\u2019s life, cannot be easily measured, but leaves a palpable mark on your soul.<\/p>\n

It should be noted that your \u201cgift\u201d doesn\u2019t have to be of high monetary value or even be a tangible gift at all. Your deed can be as simple as providing comfort to a friend, showing someone the ropes, making an appearance when no one else is available, or demonstrating how much you care<\/a>. Giving is a plus. That\u2019s the new math. I hope you discover the amazing power of giving and the value that it can add to your<\/em> life.<\/p>\n

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Do You Practice the Principles of the New Math?<\/h3>\n

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Additional Reading:
Give Without Expecting Something in Return<\/a>
Being Generous Doesn\u2019t Cost a Penny<\/a>
Karma: Make Your Own Luck<\/a>
Giving: The Most Important Lesson in Life<\/a>
What Does It Take to Show a Little Kindness?<\/a>
Networking Tips: Make Networking Work for You<\/a>
Are You Selfless or Selfish?<\/a><\/p>\n

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