{"id":7034,"date":"2024-04-02T01:33:49","date_gmt":"2024-04-02T05:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/why-katherine-woodward-thomas-is-the-fairy-godmother-of-love\/"},"modified":"2024-04-02T01:33:49","modified_gmt":"2024-04-02T05:33:49","slug":"why-katherine-woodward-thomas-is-the-fairy-godmother-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/why-katherine-woodward-thomas-is-the-fairy-godmother-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Katherine Woodward Thomas Is the Fairy Godmother of Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Love. It\u2019s the four-letter word that has the power to dress us up in a big white gown and ride to the ball in a pumpkin-turned-carriage, hearts overflowing with giddy butterflies. But the same flame that ignites passion can leave us scorched, hearts bruised and tears stained.<\/p>\n<p>The thing with love is, it exists \u201c<em>to the extent that you give it away<\/em>,\u201d as <strong>Katherine Woodward Thomas<\/strong>, a renowned relationship expert, points out in an <a href=\"https:\/\/podcast.mindvalley.com\/how-to-summon-your-soulmate-attract-and-keep-the-love-you-deserve\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">episode<\/a> of The Mindvalley Show with Vishen.<\/p>\n<p>So, is love a fleeting high \u2018til the stroke of midnight or a foundation for a lasting connection? This is the question at the heart of Katherine\u2019s work, becoming the key to attracting love that endures.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Watch the full 32-minute episode:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed aligncenter is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Ep #030 | How to Summon Your Soulmate (Attract and Keep the Love You Deserve)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/reN7GfwgRXY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/p><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Ep #030 | How to Summon Your Soulmate (Attract and Keep the Love You Deserve)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-who-is-katherine-woodward-thomas\">Who Is Katherine Woodward Thomas?<\/h2>\n<p>Chances are, you\u2019ve heard the name \u201cKatherine Woodward Thomas\u201d in association with the now-famous term \u201cconscious uncoupling.\u201d What you may not know about her is that she\u2019s also a licensed marriage and family therapist and best-selling author of <em>Calling in \u201cThe One<\/em>.<em>\u201d<\/em> Her Mindvalley programs (of the same name as well as <em>Conscious Uncoupling<\/em>) have impacted more than 110,000 students.<\/p>\n<p>But beyond these titles, Katherine serves another important role: the modern-day fairy godmother of love.<\/p>\n<p>Why? With her background, she doesn\u2019t just wear a cape and wave a magic wand, expecting everything to fall into place (although she\u2019d probably rock at it). Instead, she draws from her own love-lost, love-found experiences and professional expertise.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I was accomplished in other areas<\/em>,\u201d Katherine says. \u201c<em>But the one area of my life that was not working consistently was relationships<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Through her journey of transformation, she\u2019s found the tools, wisdom, and insights needed to help people invite love into their lives.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>I think a lot of us are trying to figure out our romantic lives by digging in the past<\/em>,\u201d she adds. However, when you\u2019re up to creating a miracle like calling in \u201cthe one,\u201d then action needs to take place to bridge the gap between where you\u2019re at now and where you want to be.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be mistaken, though; her approach is far from superficial. Katherine leads you through self-discovery, healing, and genuine connection. By encouraging you to embrace every part of yourself, she helps you recognize your worth and the love you deserve, setting yourself up for genuine relationships to find their way to you.<\/p>\n<p>The fact of the matter is, finding love in this life can sometimes feel as elusive as a perfect fit for a glass slipper. Katherine, as your fairy godmother, can help you turn your fairytale dreams into reality.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-love-matters-according-to-science\">Why Love Matters, According to Science<\/h2>\n<p>In every tale, even Cinderella\u2019s, the quest for connection lies at the heart. Science, much like fairy godmothers, has its own magic to reveal why:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Love and belonging. <\/strong>Falling in love <a href=\"https:\/\/hms.harvard.edu\/news-events\/publications-archive\/brain\/love-brain\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">activates the brain\u2019s reward system<\/a>, flooding it with chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and norepinephrine. These create feelings of pleasure, euphoria, and attachment, motivating us to bond with our partner.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Love and physical health. <\/strong>Strong social connections, like those of romantic love, can lead to better physical health outcomes. People in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC2896234\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">happy relationships<\/a> tend to have lower blood pressure, stronger immune systems, and faster healing rates.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are some of the many benefits, and there\u2019s no doubt that this adoration enriches lives the world over on a deeper level.<\/p>\n<p>As Katherine says, \u201c<em>Love belongs to all of us<\/em>.\u201d And finding that love in a compatible partner\u2014like the prince in Cinderella\u2014can be such a rewarding experience.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-katherine-woodward-thomas-4-love-insights-on-how-to-find-your-soulmate\">Katherine Woodward Thomas\u2019 4 Love Insights On How to Find Your Soulmate<\/h2>\n<p>It takes courage to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-open-up-your-heart\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">open up your heart<\/a> to love. But while it can be scary, it\u2019s so worth it.<\/p>\n<p>Here are four pieces of advice Katherine shares that can give your love life the <em>bibbidi-bobbidi-boo<\/em> it needs and can help you find your soulmate.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-be-clear-with-your-intentions\">1. Be clear with your intentions<\/h3>\n<p>\u201c<em>The first thing that you want to do when you want to manifest a miracle in your love life is you start from the future you\u2019re committed to creating<\/em>,\u201d Katherine advises.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make it a predictable one like \u201c<em>I want to be in love<\/em>.\u201d Instead, set clear, specific intentions about the kind of partner you want to attract, the kind of relationship you want to cultivate, and even when it\u2019s going to happen.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s an example: \u201c<em>I\u2019m going to be in a mutually empowering, mutually honoring and respectful, thriving, flourishing love relationship by the end of this year<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s a little like WWCD (what would Cinderella do?). If she hadn\u2019t been clear about her desire to attend the ball and dance with the prince, she wouldn\u2019t have received the help from her fairy godmother to make her dream a reality.<\/p>\n<p>The point of it is to really go for the gold, as the relationship expert explains. Why? Because in doing so, you\u2019re not just hoping to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-find-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">find love<\/a>; you\u2019re going to want a future that\u2019s \u201c<em>going to inspire you to rise<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-complete-the-past\">2. Complete the past<\/h3>\n<p>To move forward, you must first let go of the past. Unfortunately, as Katherine points out, \u201c<em>a lot of us are actually kind of anchored into the past<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you get yourself out of this hole? Well, it\u2019s not about dwelling on past loving relationships, that\u2019s for sure. Instead, it\u2019s about understanding and releasing them.<\/p>\n<p>Here are Katherine\u2019s suggestions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Identify lingering resentment.<\/strong> Ask yourself if you still feel like a victim of past relationships. This might indicate you haven\u2019t acknowledged your own role.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Take responsibility<\/strong> (even the subtle kind). Maybe you didn\u2019t communicate your needs or set boundaries. Taking responsibility empowers you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Notice unconscious agreements. <\/strong>Did you make a vow to never be hurt again or stay loyal to someone who hurt you? Release these self-limiting promises.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cleanse unhealthy relationships. <\/strong>Are you stuck in draining dynamics? Consider setting boundaries or expressing long-held truths to clear the air.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This healing passage frees you from the chains of past resentments and pains. And it clears the path for you to head to the ball\u2026er, <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-manifest-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">manifest love<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-uncover-your-core-love-beliefs\">3. Uncover your core love beliefs<\/h3>\n<p>Your beliefs about love often come from deep down and can stop you from attracting love. This step involves looking inside yourself and changing these deep-seated beliefs.<\/p>\n<p>Katherine suggests a unique way to do this:<\/p>\n<p>Close your eyes, think about the patterns that keep happening in your love life, and notice how these make you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, \u201c<em>What am I telling myself about me?<\/em>\u201d Often, you\u2019ll find beliefs like \u201c<em>I\u2019m not good enough<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>I\u2019m not wanted<\/em>.\u201d These ideas usually start at a young age, based on things that happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>The key is to talk to these parts of yourself with kindness and remind them that these old beliefs aren\u2019t true. By doing this, you start to see yourself in a new light.<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, this change is powerful. It not only changes how you view yourself but also how others see you.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-live-the-love-life-you-dream-of\">4. Live the love life you dream of<\/h3>\n<p>The big idea here is to live as if your ideal love already exists. \u201c<em>It\u2019s like a dream<\/em>,\u201d as Cinderella says, \u201c<em>a wonderful dream come true<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While wanting love before might\u2019ve felt like longing for something out of reach, when you truly believe in conscious loving, these feelings can transform.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Once you awaken to \u2018Oh yeah, I\u2019m committed to creating this; I can have this; I have the power to manifest this,\u2019 now desire becomes something that we play with<\/em>,\u201d explains Katherine. So instead of shying away from what you want, you learn to embrace your desires fully.<\/p>\n<p>She encourages you to think deeply about what you really want from this kind of adoration and from your partner. Imagine the joy, the support, and the <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/soul-ties\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">soul ties<\/a> you wish to experience.<\/p>\n<p>Do you see yourself sharing laughter, having deep conversations, or simply feeling cherished? Feel these desires vividly, using all your senses.<\/p>\n<p>Then, ask yourself, \u201c<em>What steps can I take today to bring this vision to life?<\/em>\u201d It might be something small, like joining a new class, or something big, like starting a journey toward parenthood. This is about aligning your actions with your heart\u2019s true desires.<\/p>\n<p>By doing this, you\u2019re not just waiting for love. No, no. You\u2019re actively inviting it into your life.\u00a0<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"897\" alt=\"Katherine Woodward Thomas, a renowned relationship expert and trainer of Mindvalley's Calling in &quot;The One&quot; and Conscious Uncoupling Quests, and her husband\" class=\"wp-image-71632\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a.webp 1600w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a-768x431.webp 768w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a-1536x861.webp 1536w\" data-lazy-sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a.webp\"\/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"897\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a.webp\" alt=\"Katherine Woodward Thomas, a renowned relationship expert and trainer of Mindvalley's Calling in &quot;The One&quot; and Conscious Uncoupling Quests, and her husband\" class=\"wp-image-71632\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a.webp 1600w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a-768x431.webp 768w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/03\/5c12c90d-katherine-woodward-thomas-sd_kwt_mindvalley_072021_264a-1536x861.webp 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\"\/><\/noscript><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Katherine Woodward Thomas, trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Calling in \u201cThe One\u201d<\/em> Quest, and her husband<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-love-deeper-connect-stronger\">Love Deeper, Connect Stronger<\/h2>\n<p>If there\u2019s one quest we\u2019re all on in this life, it\u2019s that of love. Even in fairy tales, though, walking this path means embracing all the possibilities.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Following the guidance of [Katherine Woodward Thomas\u2019] course helped me to heal from a significant heartbreak and led me to the most incredibly loving romantic relationship<\/em>,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/stories.mindvalley.com\/show\/calling-in-the-one\/helped-me-to-heal-from-a-significant-heartbreak-and-led-me-to-the-most-incredibly-loving-romantic-relationship\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Clara Stickney<\/a>, a musician and Mindvalley Member from the U.S. \u201c<em>I have so much gratitude for it every day<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And like her, you, too, can learn to heal past wounds and open your heart to the future in Katherine\u2019s Mindvalley Quest, <strong><em>Calling in \u201cThe One.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> Her approach isn\u2019t just about finding just anyone; it\u2019s about calling for love\u2014the kind with the profound bond you deserve. Glass slippers, optional.<\/p>\n<p>Welcome in.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love. 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