{"id":7240,"date":"2024-04-20T14:30:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-20T18:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/dorianne-lauxs-stunning-poem-about-bearing-our-human-losses-when-even-the-moon-is-leaving-us-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2024-04-20T14:30:00","modified_gmt":"2024-04-20T18:30:00","slug":"dorianne-lauxs-stunning-poem-about-bearing-our-human-losses-when-even-the-moon-is-leaving-us-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/dorianne-lauxs-stunning-poem-about-bearing-our-human-losses-when-even-the-moon-is-leaving-us-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Dorianne Laux\u2019s Stunning Poem about Bearing Our Human Losses When Even the Moon Is Leaving Us \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Facts-About-Moon-Dorianne-Laux\/dp\/0393329623?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"320\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/factsaboutthemoon_laux.jpg?fit=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"cover with-border alignright size-medium\" alt=\"Facts about the Moon: Dorianne Laux\u2019s Stunning Poem about Bearing Our Human Losses When Even the Moon Is Leaving Us\" decoding=\"async\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/factsaboutthemoon_laux.jpg?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/factsaboutthemoon_laux.jpg?resize=320%2C480&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/factsaboutthemoon_laux.jpg?resize=240%2C360&amp;ssl=1 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHearing the rising tide,\u201d Rachel Carson wrote in her poetic meditation on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/06\/07\/rachel-carson-the-edge-of-the-sea\/\">the ocean and the meaning of life<\/a>, \u201cthere are echoes of past and future: of the flow of time, obliterating yet containing all that has gone before\u2026 of the stream of life, flowing as inexorably as any ocean current, from past to unknown future.\u201d There is indeed in the physics of the tides \u2014 that gravitational dialogue between our planet and its only satellite \u2014 something of the existential, something reminding us how transient all things are, how fluid the future, how slippery our grasp of anything we hold on to, how relational every loss. <\/p>\n<p>The tides bridge the earthly and the cosmic, science and symbol: They cause drag that slows down our planet\u2019s spin rate; because gravity binds the two, as the Earth loses angular momentum, the Moon overcompensates in response; as it speeds up, it begins slipping out of our gravitational grip, slowly moving away from us. The prolific English astronomer Edmund Halley first began suspecting this haunting fact in the early 18th century after analyzing ancient eclipse records. It took another quarter millennium and a giant leap into the cosmos for his theory to be tested against reality in a living poem of geometry and light: When <em>Apollo<\/em> astronauts placed mirrors on the surface of the Moon and laser beams were aimed at them from Earth, it was revealed that the Moon is indeed drifting away from us, at the precise rate of 3.8 centimeters per year. The Moon, born of the body of the Earth billions of years ago, is drifting away at more than half the rate at which a child grows. <\/p>\n<p>If even the Moon is leaving us \u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/03\/22\/hasui-kawase-prints\/\">\u201cthat best fact, the Moon,\u201d<\/a> in Margaret Fuller\u2019s exultant words \u2014 what is there to hold on to? How are we to bear our ordinary human losses, the worst facts of our lives?<\/p>\n<p>Those questions, immense and intimate, come alive in the stunning title poem of Dorianne Laux\u2019s\u2019 collection <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Facts-About-Moon-Dorianne-Laux\/dp\/0393329623?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>Facts About the Moon<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/search.worldcat.org\/title\/80331851\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>), stunningly performed by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/debbie-millman\/\">Debbie Millman<\/a> at the seventh annual <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/the-universe-in-verse\/\"><em>Universe in Verse<\/em><\/a> on the eve of the 2024 total solar eclipse. <\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"&quot;Facts about the Moon&quot; by Dorianne Laux (read by Debbie Millman)\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/twgTTG4NlRI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>FACTS ABOUT THE MOON<\/strong><br \/><em>by Dorianne Laux<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The moon is backing away from us<br \/>an inch and a half each year. That means<br \/>if you\u2019re like me and were born<br \/>around fifty years ago the moon<br \/>was a full six feet closer to the earth.<br \/>What\u2019s a person supposed to do?<br \/>I feel the gray cloud of consternation<br \/>travel across my face. I begin thinking<br \/>about the moon-lit past, how if you go back<br \/>far enough you can imagine the breathtaking<br \/>hugeness of the moon, prehistoric<br \/>solar eclipses when the moon covered the sun<br \/>so completely there was no corona, only<br \/>a darkness we had no word for.<br \/>And future eclipses will look like this: the moon<br \/>a small black pupil in the eye of the sun.<br \/>But these are bald facts.<br \/>What bothers me most is that someday<br \/>the moon will spiral right out of orbit<br \/>and all land-based life will die.<br \/>The moon keeps the oceans from swallowing<br \/>the shores, keeps the electromagnetic fields<br \/>in check at the polar ends of the earth.<br \/>And please don\u2019t tell me<br \/>what I already know, that it won\u2019t happen<br \/>for a long time. I don\u2019t care. I\u2019m afraid<br \/>of what will happen to the moon.<br \/>Forget us. We don\u2019t deserve the moon.<br \/>Maybe we once did but not now<br \/>after all we\u2019ve done. These nights<br \/>I harbor a secret pity for the moon, rolling<br \/>around alone in space without<br \/>her milky planet, her only child, a mother<br \/>who\u2019s lost a child, a bad child,<br \/>a greedy child or maybe a grown boy<br \/>who\u2019s murdered and raped, a mother<br \/>can\u2019t help it, she loves that boy<br \/>anyway, and in spite of herself<br \/>she misses him, and if you sit beside her<br \/>on the padded hospital bench<br \/>outside the door to his room you can\u2019t not<br \/>take her hand, listen to her while she<br \/>weeps, telling you how sweet he was,<br \/>how blue his eyes, and you know she\u2019s only<br \/>romanticizing, that she\u2019s conveniently<br \/>forgotten the bruises and booze,<br \/>the stolen car, the day he ripped<br \/>the phones from the walls, and you want<br \/>to slap her back to sanity, remind her<br \/>of the truth: he was a leech, a fuckup,<br \/>a little shit, and you almost do<br \/>until she lifts her pale puffy face, her eyes<br \/>two craters and then you can\u2019t help it<br \/>either, you know love when you see it,<br \/>you can feel its lunar strength, its brutal pull.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Complement with a poetic meditation on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/03\/06\/moonlight\/\">moonlight and the magic of the unnecessary<\/a>, Japanese artist Hasui Kawase\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2021\/03\/22\/hasui-kawase-prints\/\">beguiling woodcut moonscapes<\/a>, the story of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2019\/09\/10\/john-adams-whipple-moon\/\">the first surviving photograph of the Moon<\/a>, and Patti Smith\u2019s haunting reading of Sylvia Plath\u2019s poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/09\/04\/the-moon-and-the-yew-tree-sylvia-plath-patti-smith\/\">\u201cThe Moon and the Yew Tree,\u201d<\/a> then revisit Dorianne Laux\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/03\/13\/the-life-of-trees-dorianne-laux\/\">love letter to trees<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cHearing the rising tide,\u201d Rachel Carson wrote in her poetic meditation on the ocean and the meaning of life, \u201cthere are echoes of past and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7241,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7240","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7240","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7240"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7240\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7241"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}