{"id":7587,"date":"2024-05-21T05:33:34","date_gmt":"2024-05-21T09:33:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/20-guiding-principles-to-share-with-your-kids\/"},"modified":"2024-05-21T05:33:34","modified_gmt":"2024-05-21T09:33:34","slug":"20-guiding-principles-to-share-with-your-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/20-guiding-principles-to-share-with-your-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"20 Guiding Principles to Share with Your Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Want to give your kids the best chances in life? One powerful way to do that is by sharing meaningful experiences and important principles with them. By doing so, you\u2019re not just imparting knowledge; you\u2019re sculpting their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/moral-character-matters\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">character<\/a>, equipping them with vital skills, and guiding them along the twists and turns of life. As <em>Louis L\u2019Amour, the American novelist, said<\/em><strong><em>, <\/em><\/strong><strong>\u201c<\/strong>Knowledge is like money: To be of value it must circulate, and in circulating it can increase in quantity and, hopefully, in value.<em>\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Here are 20 key principles to pass on to your kids:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Practice doesn\u2019t make perfect if you\u2019re doing it wrong.<\/strong><\/span> Make <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/make-experience-your-best-teacher\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">experience<\/a> your best teacher.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/span> When people don\u2019t learn from mistakes, their mistakes often turn into bad habits.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Personal responsibility can\u2019t be delegated.<\/strong><\/span> If you look in the mirror and don\u2019t like what you see, don\u2019t blame the mirror.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Treat feedback as a gift rather than as a slap in the face. <\/strong><\/span>Some people think that if they don\u2019t know their faults, they don\u2019t have any.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Mistakes don\u2019t make you a failure but beating yourself up makes you feel like one.<\/strong><\/span> Failing one time \u2014 or even several times \u2014 doesn\u2019t make you a failure any more than losing one game makes you a loser.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>A great reputation is earned every day. <\/strong><\/span>When you\u2019re not around, your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/reputation-you-cant-run-from-your-shadow\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">reputation<\/a> will speak for you. After all, you can\u2019t run from your shadow.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>It\u2019s not <em>what you have<\/em>, but <em>who you are<\/em> that counts.<\/strong> <\/span>You gain respect by proving that you\u2019re worthy of it.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Some people work hard to make their lives harder.<\/strong><\/span> Is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/stressed-out-you-may-be-doing-it-to-yourself\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">stress<\/a> inflicted <em>on you<\/em> \u2014 or created <em>by you<\/em>?<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Being a perfectionist is far from perfect.<\/strong><\/span> Hold yourself up to a high standard, not an impossible one.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Requesting help is beneficial but be careful it doesn\u2019t become an addiction.<\/strong><\/span> Be strong enough to stand on your own two feet, but wise enough to know when to ask for help.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>People will test you in small ways before trusting you outright.<\/strong><\/span> When you exaggerate a story, you weaken your credibility.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Greatness isn\u2019t determined by the number of promises that you make, but by the ones that you keep.<\/strong><\/span> A good intention is like an idea that you keep to yourself. If you don\u2019t do something with it, it\u2019s like it never existed.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>It\u2019s not <em>what<\/em> you give, but rather <em>that<\/em> you give<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/span> You don\u2019t have to be rich to give; your gift can be as simple as a smile.<\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Living beyond your means is a high price to pay.<\/span> <\/strong>When you run out of money \u2013\u2013 stop buying.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>If you appreciate what you have, you\u2019ll never want for more.<\/strong><\/span> Most people are so busy chasing things they don\u2019t have, that they fail to appreciate the things they do.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Jealousy zaps energy.<\/strong><\/span> If the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, chances are it\u2019s getting better care.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Money is only one form of wealth.<\/strong><\/span> Money can buy <em>things<\/em>, but it can\u2019t buy everything.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>It\u2019s so easy to lose sight of the things that you can\u2019t see.<\/strong><\/span> Some of the most precious things you possess are your honor, your dignity, and your reputation.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>Don\u2019t believe everything you think.<\/strong><\/span> If it won\u2019t matter in a year or two, it\u2019s not worth the worry.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>If you don\u2019t believe in yourself, why should others?<\/strong><\/span> At the end of the day, if you\u2019re not proud of who you are and the way you choose to live your life, little else matters.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/21-lessons-every-parent-should-share-with-their-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">21 Lessons Every Parent Should Share with Their Kids<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>What Other Principles Do You Share with Your Kids?<\/h3>\n<p><b>Please leave a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/20-guiding-principles-to-share-with-your-kids\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">comment<\/a>\u00a0and tell us what you think or\u00a0share it with someone who can benefit from the\u00a0information.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Additional Reading:<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/the-greatest-gift-parents-can-give-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Greatest Gift Parents Can Give Kids<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/critical-lessons-that-they-fail-to-teach-you-in-school\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Critical Lessons That They Fail to Teach You in School<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/25-ways-to-screw-up-your-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">25 Ways to Screw Up Your Kids<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/are-you-preparing-your-kids-for-the-real-world\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Are You Preparing Your Kids for the Real World?<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/15-ways-to-pass-your-values-on-to-your-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">15 Ways to Pass Your Values On to Your Kids<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/5-powerful-truths-for-raising-well-adjusted-kids\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">5 Powerful Truths for Raising Well-Adjusted Kids<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.franksonnenbergonline.com\/blog\/my-kid-the-superstar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">My Kid the Superstar<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Follow me:<\/strong><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/FrankSonnenbergOnline\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/franksonnenberg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a><br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/FSonnenberg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">X<\/a>\u00a0(Formerly Twitter)<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/franksonnenberg\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pinterest\u00a0<\/a>and<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/franksonnenbergonline\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #808080;\">If you like this article, subscribe to our blog so that you don\u2019t miss a single post. 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