{"id":8493,"date":"2024-08-20T06:03:44","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T10:03:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/believe-that-you-can-and-you-will-frank-sonnenberg\/"},"modified":"2024-08-20T06:03:44","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T10:03:44","slug":"believe-that-you-can-and-you-will-frank-sonnenberg","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/believe-that-you-can-and-you-will-frank-sonnenberg\/","title":{"rendered":"Believe That You Can, and You Will \u2014 Frank Sonnenberg"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Some people possess incredible potential for success, and yet they find themselves grappling to hit their stride. They believe success is beyond their control rather than accepting personal responsibility for their circumstances. This mindset has real consequences. If you convince yourself that you are powerless to shape your destiny or that you are at the mercy of others, why would you work hard, invest in your personal development<\/a>, or make the required sacrifices to succeed? You\u2019re more likely to wait for things to happen than actually make them happen. The result is that you never reach your true potential<\/a>, as you\u2019re tempted to throw in the towel and give up \u2014 a tragic outcome. Conversely, believing in yourself and pursuing your dreams with gusto can pave the way for success. As Theodore Roosevelt said, \u201cBelieve you can and you\u2019re halfway there.\u201d<\/p>\n

Are You Sabotaging Your Success?<\/h3>\n

In reality, there are two ways to derail your dreams in life: factors imposed by others and those self-inflicted.<\/p>\n

Some people are as toxic<\/a> as venomous snakes, injecting negativity and poison into your life. These naysayers contend that the likelihood of your success is slim, that people like you don\u2019t stand a chance, or that you aren\u2019t up to the challenge that lies before you. Instead of brushing off their negativity and believing in yourself, you take their comments to heart and cash in your dreams, thinking they know better. The truth is that you\u2019ll always find folks who don\u2019t like you, want to discourage you from trying, or are simply jealous<\/a> and want to stop you dead in your tracks. Believe them at your peril. As Steve Jobs said, \u201cYour time is limited, so don\u2019t waste it living someone else\u2019s life. Don\u2019t be trapped by dogma \u2014 which is living with the results of other people\u2019s thinking. Don\u2019t let the noise of others\u2019 opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.\u201d<\/p>\n

Self-sabotage represents the second way to hinder your success. Some people believe that if success is beyond your control or if you are entirely dependent on others\u2019 support, then you cannot be blamed if your dreams don\u2019t come true. In reality, while it may be easy to \u201cblame\u201d others for your circumstances, your destiny lies solely in your hands.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to lose to a better opponent and quite another to beat yourself.<\/p>\n

22 Ways You May Be Undermining Your Success<\/h3>\n

Is your behavior self-destructive? Here are 22 ways to hinder your success\u2026<\/p>\n

Do you:<\/p>\n

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  1. Have a poor attitude?<\/li>\n
  2. Belittle yourself?<\/li>\n
  3. Refuse to make personal sacrifices?<\/li>\n
  4. Talk a good game, but fail to act?<\/li>\n
  5. Seek immediate gratification rather than invest for the long term?<\/li>\n
  6. Give up at the drop of a hat?<\/li>\n
  7. Refuse to leave your comfort zone?<\/li>\n
  8. Fail to keep promises to others \u2014 and to yourself?<\/li>\n
  9. Follow the pack instead of thinking for yourself?<\/li>\n
  10. Start things but never finish them?<\/li>\n
  11. Try to do the bare minimum?<\/li>\n
  12. Downplay the importance of trust?<\/li>\n
  13. Resist feedback?<\/li>\n
  14. Vilify people rather than investing in your own development?<\/li>\n
  15. Feel sorry for yourself?<\/li>\n
  16. Fail to learn from experience?<\/li>\n
  17. Think solely about your<\/em> own<\/em> needs?<\/li>\n
  18. Try to win at any cost?<\/li>\n
  19. Opt for shortcuts instead of putting in the hard work?<\/li>\n
  20. Blame others for your circumstances?<\/li>\n
  21. Think the world owes you something?<\/li>\n
  22. Lack honor and integrity?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Don\u2019t Sell Yourself Short<\/h3>\n

    Success often looks easy. Yet behind every triumph lies a tale of relentless effort, unseen challenges, and the unwavering commitment to overcome them. The truth is that you have the potential to accomplish great things in life, but you must be willing to work hard<\/a>, make the required commitment, and endure the necessary sacrifices to achieve that end.<\/p>\n

    The more you choose to accept responsibility for your life, the more power you\u2019ll have to determine your destiny. As Professor Randy Pausch said, \u201cWe cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.\u201d Life is unpredictable, but your response to it doesn\u2019t have to be.<\/p>\n

    In the end, the sum of your choices and the way you navigate life\u2019s challenges defines the course of your journey. Embrace responsibility<\/a>, adapt to the winds of change, and play your cards with purpose \u2014 for within these choices lies your true strength\u2026and that will ultimately determine your destiny. Believe that you can, and you will.<\/p>\n

    Check out Frank\u2019s new book<\/strong>,\u00a0BECOME: Unleash the Power of Moral Character and Be Proud of the Life You Choose<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

    Do You Believe that You Can?<\/h3>\n

    Please leave a\u00a0comment<\/a>\u00a0and tell us what you think or\u00a0share it with someone who can benefit from the\u00a0information.<\/b><\/p>\n

    Additional Reading:
    The Power of a Positive Attitude<\/a>
    Great Things Start with Great Expectations<\/a>
    If You Believe You Can\u2019t, You Won\u2019t<\/a>
    Mindfulness: 13 Ways to obtain a Positive Mindset<\/a>
    Where Does Confidence Come from?<\/a>
    Do You Have a Victim Mentality?<\/a>
    Mental Barriers: What\u2019s Holding You Back?<\/a>
    How to Deal With People who Undermine Your Confidence<\/a><\/p>\n

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