{"id":8684,"date":"2024-09-07T18:07:08","date_gmt":"2024-09-07T22:07:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/an-illustrated-ode-to-the-art-of-welcoming-the-unknown-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2024-09-07T18:07:08","modified_gmt":"2024-09-07T22:07:08","slug":"an-illustrated-ode-to-the-art-of-welcoming-the-unknown-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/an-illustrated-ode-to-the-art-of-welcoming-the-unknown-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"An Illustrated Ode to the Art of Welcoming the Unknown \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"posts\">\n<h2\/>\n<h3 class=\"byline\">By Maria Popova<\/h3>\n<div class=\"entry_content\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"320\" height=\"388\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?fit=320%2C388&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"cover with-border alignright size-medium\" alt=\"Making Space: An Illustrated Ode to the Art of Welcoming the Unknown\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?resize=320%2C388&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?resize=600%2C727&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?resize=240%2C291&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace.jpg?resize=768%2C931&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It is the silence between the notes that distinguishes music from noise, the stillness of the soil that germinates the seeds to burst into bloom. It is in the gap of absence that we learn trust, in the gap between knowledge and mystery that we discover wonder. Every act of making space is in some sense a creative act and an act of faith. And yet in its open-endedness and indeterminacy, in its courtship of uncertainty, it challenges our most basic instincts about how to govern our lives, unsettling the foundation of our illusion of control (which is always the opposite of faith). <\/p>\n<p>Italian writer <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2019\/03\/20\/crescendo-quintavalle-sanna\/\">Paola Quintavalle<\/a> and artist Miguel Tanco offer a lovely antidote to our unease about this essential creative and contemplative act in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>Making Space<\/em><\/strong><\/a> (<a href=\"https:\/\/search.worldcat.org\/title\/1420447483\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>public library<\/em><\/a>) \u2014 a charming illustrated taxonomy of the many forms of this existential exhale, the many ways we can deepen and magnify life by giving things beyond our control the time and space they take.<\/p>\n<p>There is making space \u201cto plant a seed and watch it grow,\u201d space \u201cfor taking a chance\u201d and \u201cfor another try,\u201d space \u201cfor a hand to hold and when it\u2019s time, for letting go.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?resize=680%2C617&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"617\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83262\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?resize=320%2C290&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?resize=600%2C544&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?resize=240%2C218&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace1.jpg?resize=768%2C696&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?resize=680%2C425&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"425\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83263\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?resize=320%2C200&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?resize=600%2C375&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?resize=240%2C150&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace2.jpg?resize=768%2C480&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?resize=680%2C479&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"479\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?resize=320%2C226&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?resize=600%2C423&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?resize=240%2C169&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace210.jpg?resize=768%2C541&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Children hold vigil over a dead bird, making space \u201cfor those who are no longer here.\u201d A boy with a party hat and a mouthful of cake encircled by angry peers in party hats becomes an emblem of \u201cthe truth stuck inside your mouth.\u201d A constellation of little cosmonauts make space \u201cto wonder why.\u201d <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=680%2C425&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"425\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83264\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?w=2560&amp;ssl=1 2560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=320%2C200&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=600%2C375&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=240%2C150&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C480&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C960&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?resize=2048%2C1280&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace4-scaled.jpg?w=1360&amp;ssl=1 1360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?resize=680%2C425&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"425\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?resize=320%2C200&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?resize=600%2C375&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?resize=240%2C150&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace7.jpg?resize=768%2C480&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?resize=680%2C333&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"333\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?resize=320%2C157&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?resize=600%2C294&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?resize=240%2C117&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace3.jpg?resize=768%2C376&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?resize=680%2C425&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"425\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?resize=320%2C200&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?resize=600%2C375&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?resize=240%2C150&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace6.jpg?resize=768%2C480&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Page by page, there emerges a growing awareness that making space is really about our relationship to time and the unknown \u2014 that it is intimately related to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/08\/27\/adam-phillips-better-waiting\/\">learning how to wait better<\/a>, that it is a laboratory for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/06\/05\/on-wanting-to-change-adam-phillips\/\">the paradoxes and possibilities of change<\/a>, that it is where we come to terms with our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2023\/11\/21\/necessary-losses\/\">necessary losses<\/a>. (\u201cLonging is like the Seed,\u201d Emily Dickinson wrote, beholden to \u201cthe Hour, and the Zone, \/ Each Circumstance unknown.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?resize=680%2C434&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"434\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-83256\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?w=1200&amp;ssl=1 1200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?resize=320%2C204&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?resize=600%2C383&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?resize=240%2C153&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.themarginalian.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/makingspace11.jpg?resize=768%2C490&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 680px) 100vw, 680px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Couple <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Making-Space-Paola-Quintavalle\/dp\/1592704085\/?tag=braipick-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong><em>Making Space<\/em><\/strong><\/a> with Pablo Neruda\u2019s beautiful poem <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2015\/05\/28\/keeping-quiet-sylvia-boorstein-reads-pablo-neruda\/\">\u201cKeeping Quiet,\u201d<\/a> then revisit 200 years of beloved writers, artists, and scientists on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/2024\/07\/16\/solitude\/\">the rewards of solitude<\/a>, that supreme act of making space.<\/p>\n<p class=\"via\"><em>Illustrations courtesy of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themarginalian.org\/tag\/enchanted-lion\/\">Enchanted Lion Books<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Maria Popova It is the silence between the notes that distinguishes music from noise, the stillness of the soil that germinates the seeds to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8685,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-purpose"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8684"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8684\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8685"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}