{"id":9257,"date":"2024-11-03T20:52:24","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T00:52:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/no-booze-no-masturbating-nobnom-november-challenge\/"},"modified":"2024-11-03T20:52:24","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T00:52:24","slug":"no-booze-no-masturbating-nobnom-november-challenge","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/no-booze-no-masturbating-nobnom-november-challenge\/","title":{"rendered":"No Booze, No Masturbating (NOBNOM) November Challenge"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"334\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tim.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/girl-NOBNOM.jpg?resize=500%2C334&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"A female festival-goer in a bikini top side-eyes someone offscreen while sticking her tongue out.\" class=\"wp-image-97823\" style=\"width:840px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tim.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/girl-NOBNOM.jpg?w=500&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tim.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/girl-NOBNOM.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/tim.blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/girl-NOBNOM.jpg?resize=360%2C240&amp;ssl=1 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>(Photo:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/stinkiepinkie_infinity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Shawn Perez<\/a><em>)<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I did this publicly once before in 2014, and someone recently messaged to say that it changed their life, so we\u2019re doing it again!<\/p>\n<p>Your 30 days can start whenever you see this post, so don\u2019t worry about missing the 1st.<\/p>\n<p>You know who you are, you filthy animals.<\/p>\n<p>Secret bookmarks to Pornhub (\u201cDiscount airfare\u201d \u2013 Ha!), secret folders labeled \u201cTax Returns 2019\u201d for when wifi fails, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/expressvpn.com\/tim\" rel=\"noopener\">ExpressVPN<\/a> for when you\u2019re in countries that block your cherished videos\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Oh, wait. Am I projecting again?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/fourhourworkweek.com\/2014\/05\/05\/the-random-show-episode-24-porn-attacks-eating-insect-protein-tech-finds-and-more\/\" rel=\"noopener\">I\u2019ve admitted it before<\/a>, and I\u2019ll admit it again: dudes watch porn on the Internet. Shocker, I know. All those guys on the magazine covers? They do it, too.<\/p>\n<p>Less obvious, perhaps, is how dramatically your life can change if you quit porn and masturbation for a short period.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I did this for 30 days recently, and\u2014oddly enough\u2014I found it much easier and more impactful to quit booze for the same 30 days. <\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong>I highly recommend watching <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/peterattiamd\/reel\/DBRJ_ysz-LU\/?locale=es&amp;hl=en\" rel=\"noopener\">this short clip<\/a> from <em>The Drive<\/em> by <a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/2023\/03\/14\/peter-attia-outlive\/\">Peter Attia, MD<\/a>, in which he interviews <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.annalembke.com\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Anna Lembke, MD<\/a> on a cannabis-using patient. Dr. Lembke discusses how to reset the brain\u2019s reward system and <strong>joy set point<\/strong> to improve mental health. Often, four weeks of abstinence from compulsive behaviors is enough to dramatically reduce anxiety and depression without medication.<\/p>\n<p>Just a few of the specific benefits I experienced included\u2026<\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>A dramatic surge in free testosterone and sex drive. <\/strong>Dozens of my seemingly healthy male friends, techies in particular, have approached me over the years about chronically low testosterone. There are many potential causes, including late-night blue light and laptop heat on the lap, but removing booze and porn appears to open the flood gates. Research (<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.nejm.org\/doi\/pdf\/10.1056\/NEJM197610072951501\" rel=\"noopener\">example<\/a>, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/0039128X74900646\" rel=\"noopener\">example<\/a>) shows that alcohol reduces testosterone levels. So\u2026 should you be dating more? Trying a little harder instead of wanking, watching Netflix, and calling it a night? This will help motivate you.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Increased ability to focus and cognitive endurance.<\/strong> This goes along with the increased \u201cT\u201d mentioned above.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Getting a LOT more done. <\/strong>When you aren\u2019t nursing hangovers, destroying your sleep with booze, or procrastinating with porn (you know who you are)\u2014miracle of miracles\u2014you get more done! A LOT more done. In my mind, this alone easily justifies a 30-day booze and porn fast. You\u2019ll clear off that goddamn to-do list faster than the Flash. And remember: sex is still allowed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Join Me For Another 30 Days<\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><strong><br \/><\/strong><strong>Given how transformative this was for me, I\u2019m inviting you to join me for the month of November (30 days).<\/strong> I need it, too. After that, you can go back to your hedonistic ways. I enjoy porn, but I\u2019ve concluded I can level up by taking breaks.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll refer to our 30-day challenge as <strong>NOBNOM (NO Booze, NO Masturbating)<\/strong>, as the acronym itself sounds pornographic. We gotta make this sumnabitch memorable.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t masturbate, or if you otherwise don\u2019t watch enough porn to care about abstaining, here\u2019s another option: <strong>NOBNOC \u2014 No Booze, No Complaining<\/strong>.<strong> <\/strong>For this version, please first read \u201c<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/fourhourworkweek.com\/2007\/09\/18\/real-mind-control-the-21-day-no-complaint-experiment\/#content\" rel=\"noopener\">Real Mind Control: The 21-Day No-Complaint Experiment<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Suggested resources<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Reddit communities\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Quitting porn:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/NoFap\/\" rel=\"noopener\">r\/NoFap<\/a> \u2014 Porn Addiction and Compulsive Sexual Behavior Peer Support Forum<\/li>\n<li><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/pornfree\/\" rel=\"noopener\">r\/pornfree<\/a> \u2014 Overcoming porn addiction one day at a time<\/li>\n<li><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/nonutnovember\/\" rel=\"noopener\">r\/NoNutNovember<\/a> \u2014 Support and meme community for those attempting No Nut November, an internet challenge to abstain from sexual activity during the month of November<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Quitting alcohol:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/Sober\/\" rel=\"noopener\">r\/Sober <\/a>\u2014 Getting sober and sober living\u00a0<\/li>\n<li><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/stopdrinking\/\" rel=\"noopener\">r\/\/stopdrinking<\/a> \u2014 A support group in your pocket! This subreddit is a place to motivate each other to control or stop drinking.\u00a0<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>The Tim Ferriss Show \u2014 <\/em>relevant episodes<\/strong>:<\/h2>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/2022\/06\/15\/jason-portnoy\/#content\">Jason Portnoy \u2014 Porn Addiction, The Corrosiveness of Secrets, Healing Wounds, Escaping Shame Cycles, and Books to Change Your Life<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\">\n<p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How to Commit to the Path of Sobriety | Rich Roll\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T8cSq_2wZRE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been feeling less than super-productive, slightly lethargic, or mildly depressed, do this 30-day challenge.<\/p>\n<p>At the very least, it\u2019ll make you conscious of automatic behaviors\u2014things you\u2019ve done for so long that you know nothing else.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re like me, once the fat starts melting off and you\u2019re feeling like a different person, you\u2019ll say to yourself:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHoly shit, my baseline for the last 10 years [or 5 or 15 or whatever] has been fucked! I totally forgot what it feels like to live clean.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps living clean ended for you after high school, or even before, as it did for me. Why not get reacquainted for 30 days? Chances are that it\u2019s been a while.<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/podcast\"><strong>The Tim Ferriss Show<\/strong><\/a> <\/em><span>is one <\/span>of the most popular podcasts in the world with more than one billion downloads. It has been selected for &#8220;Best of Apple Podcasts&#8221; three times, it is often the #1 interview podcast across all of Apple Podcasts, and it&#8217;s been ranked #1 out of 400,000+ podcasts on many occasions. To listen to any of the past episodes for free, check out <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/tim.blog\/podcast\">this page<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><script async defer src=\"https:\/\/platform.instagram.com\/en_US\/embeds.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/hop.clickbank.net\/?affiliate=infohatch&amp;vendor=J1R2C\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10614 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png\" alt=\"Profit Gen\" width=\"400\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px.png 400w, https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/profit-gen400px-300x163.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Photo:\u00a0Shawn Perez) I did this publicly once before in 2014, and someone recently messaged to say that it changed their life, so we\u2019re doing it [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9258,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-growth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9257","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9257"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9257\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}