{"id":9858,"date":"2025-01-18T14:08:57","date_gmt":"2025-01-18T18:08:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/forgiveness-the-marginalian\/"},"modified":"2025-01-18T14:08:57","modified_gmt":"2025-01-18T18:08:57","slug":"forgiveness-the-marginalian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parmaks.com\/Resources\/forgiveness-the-marginalian\/","title":{"rendered":"Forgiveness \u2013 The Marginalian"},"content":{"rendered":"

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By Maria Popova<\/h3>\n
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Shortly after I began the year with some blessings<\/a>, a friend sent me Lucille Clifton\u2019s spare, splendid poem \u201cblessing the boats.\u201d<\/a> We had met at a poetry workshop and shared a resolution to write more poetry in the coming year, so we began taking turns each week choosing a line from a favorite poem to use as a joint prompt. (The wonderful thing about minds, about the dazzling variousness of them<\/a>, is what different things can bloom in them from the same seed.) <\/p>\n

I had been thinking about forgiveness \u2014 about its quiet power to dislodge the lump of blame from the thorax of time and fill the lung of life with the oxygen of the possible, about how you bless your own life when you forgive your mother, forgive your father, forgive the person for whom your love was not enough, forgive the person for whom your love was too much, forgive yourself, over and over and over. <\/p>\n

This is the poem that unfolded in me from Clifton\u2019s opening line, read here by Nick Cave<\/a> (who has written beautifully about self-forgiveness<\/a> and who sparked my season of blessings by taking me to church, for the first time, the morning of my fortieth birthday).<\/p>\n