In this wide-ranging Q&A, I explore reinvention, enduring skills for the age of AI, friendship, mental health, fitness, language-learning, privacy, cognitive longevity, and more.
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Recommended Reading
Books
- The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt
- Awareness: Conversations with the Masters by Anthony de Mello
- Blue Ocean Strategy: How to Create Uncontested Market Space and Make the Competition Irrelevant by W. Chan Kim and Renée Mauborgne
- The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman by Timothy Ferriss
- The 4-Hour Chef: The Simple Path to Cooking Like a Pro, Learning Anything, and Living the Good Life by Timothy Ferriss
- The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Timothy Ferriss
- Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations by William Ury
- Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton
- The Intermittent Fasting Revolution: The Science of Optimizing Health and Enhancing Performance by Mark P. Mattson
- Introduction to Internal Family Systems by Richard C. Schwartz, PhD
- Lonely Planet Italian Phrasebook & Dictionary by Pietro Iagnocco, Anna Beltrami, Mirna Cicioni, Karina Coates, and Susie Walker
- On Writing Well: The Classic Guide to Writing Nonfiction by William Zinsser
- Secrets of Power Negotiating: Inside Secrets from a Master Negotiator by Roger Dawson
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Timestamps
[00:00:00] Start.
[00:00:24] How to go from hyper-optimized to grounded in less than a few decades.
[00:03:45] Reinvention in your late 40s — there are more than two options.
[00:07:45] Five meta-skills that will outlast the AI hype.
[00:16:06] Post-sabbatical rules that refocused this podcast.
[00:21:05] Why male friendship is built shoulder-to-shoulder, not face-to-face.
[00:25:04] Love for women authors (and a Mary Karr plug).
[00:25:24] SAINT, TMS, and Ampa’s one-day brain reset.
[00:27:32] How to build a fanbase by being your authentically weird self.
[00:28:50] My “something is better than nothing” workout routine.
[00:30:33] Staying fit in mind and soul via the past-year review.
[00:31:12] 4-Hour Body workout routines I still follow.
[00:35:46] Spotting the future titan hiding in an average teen.
[00:37:01] Vacation, burnout, or an outgrown life? Take a mini-retirement.
[00:41:18] Guiding kids through our digital dystopia.
[00:43:45] Does AI kill language learning? What does a new language really give you?
[00:53:36] Muted movies as late-night writing company.
[00:54:13] Best sub-$100 buy: seven seasons of wholesome Pawnee.
[00:55:34] Why two hours of walking fixes almost everything.
[00:57:21] Sleep, unsexily solved: less water, more sun, more exhaustion.
[00:59:16] Privacy as the new luxury in the age of shrinking fame.
[01:02:35] Luxuries worth overspending on: massage, easy travel, and health.
[01:07:24] The best defense against cognitive decline: exercise, exercise, exercise.
[01:11:11] Parting thoughts.
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